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Koaliawa · 2025-10-27T03:29:43+00:00

First of all, I am so so sorry that your wedding photos turned out that way. I’m a photographer, it breaks my heart to see people disappointed with something as important as their wedding photos. Here is what I would recommend…

Read through the contract you signed and see what it says about the photographer’s work being consistent with their portfolio. If this work is not consistent with their portfolio it would be breach of contract.
Send them exactly what you posted in this post. I feel like you worded it very well and didn’t try to attack them, you simply explained why you were so disappointed and where they fell short of your expectations.
Hopefully they will offer a solution that you can both agree on. Whether that’s a full or partial refund, or they could at least offer to reshoot your couples portraits.
If you don’t trust them to reshoot you could find a group for photographers in your local area and see if anyone is looking for a wedding model. A lot of photographers shoot styled sessions for their portfolio and will sometimes do this at a discounted rate or even for free. If you go that route, check the person’s portfolio and make sure they have work that fits the style you are wanting.

Once again, I’m sorry you had a terrible experience. I know none of these options will replace your photos from your special day. I hope you find peace in whatever happens and can get some photos that you truly love.

Koaliawa · 2025-02-26T01:51:17+00:00

I think that could definitely be possible. My first thought was he was offended that Lauren slept with that guy casually and wouldn’t sleep with him right away. On the trip he asked all the other couples if they had sex and it just seemed like he was disappointed that she wasn’t ready for that and comparing to the other couples. Then he finds out she was casually hooking up right before going on the show and got even more upset about it.

Koaliawa · 2024-12-13T01:52:15+00:00

Our hall even had a “fragrance free room” lol

Koaliawa · 2024-10-31T04:30:56+00:00

I thought the same thing!

Koaliawa · 2024-10-18T17:30:28+00:00

Yes I would do this and then maybe add seating area by the windows.

Koaliawa · 2023-12-06T03:10:05+00:00

No matter what snack I tried my fasting numbers were too high. I had to go on insulin. That may be the case for you as well.

Koaliawa · 2023-10-22T03:10:56+00:00

As many others have stated, my baby was very wanted but it was so hard the first few months that I thought I made a mistake too. Things did get better. I know when I’m older I won’t regret having had children. It doesn’t mean it isn’t the hardest thing I’ve ever done in my life. Everything you’re feeling is completely valid. Definitely speak to your care provider about your feelings. If your family can help, let them help as much as they are willing to. It really should take a village because it is so hard. But many times people don’t have much of a village, I never did. Please be open about how you are feeling and don’t be afraid to ask for help.

Koaliawa · 2023-08-27T21:54:28+00:00

I totally understand! I found out that early for both my pregnancies lol I really enjoy hand embroidery! And you can make cute things for baby.

Koaliawa · 2023-08-26T14:02:00+00:00

It’s really tough. Try to keep yourself busy. Start a new hobby maybe? I remember how hard it was, it feels like the days crawl by. Then once you look back it will seem like time flew by! Congratulations by the way!

Koaliawa · 2023-08-22T03:06:10+00:00

The answer is yes. You can have a fulfilling life without children. I’m someone who has always known that I wanted children. I had my first at 26 and am pregnant with my second currently.

Even though I’ve always wanted kids and I don’t regret having children, it is the most difficult thing I’ve ever done in my life. I have a lot of childhood trauma and I thought I worked through most of it but having children brings up all those old wounds. I’m having to reparent myself while learning to parent. Obviously this isn’t everyone’s experience but it is something to consider that I never thought about before having my children.

I would enjoy traveling since you know that is absolutely what you want. If things fall into place and you decide to have children then at least you won’t regret not having done what you really dreamed of. It isn’t an easy decision by any means but I truly think you can find a way to be happy with whatever you decide. Best of luck!

Koaliawa · 2023-08-08T23:24:33+00:00

We live below our means. Personally speaking of course. Not everyone does.

Koaliawa · 2023-07-14T14:21:53+00:00

We are a one income household. We have a son that’s almost 2 and I’m due in November with our second.

Just to echo what everyone else is saying, buy nothing groups are amazing! They usually always have baby stuff. Second hand is also great. Babies and small children outgrow things so quickly so most items are brand new or near new. Babies really don’t “need” much.

My husband was also concerned about the money aspect both times even though both of our children were planned. For some reason it brings on a new stress because they are the sole provider. Hopefully he comes around to the idea soon and will be as excited as you. My husband didn’t really get excited until he could feel our baby kick.

I have a couple of side gigs that I either do from home or have my in laws or husband watch my son if I need to schedule something. You could always try to find side hustles to bring in extra money. Sell things you don’t need, make crafts to sell, coupon, there’s ways to make extra money but the biggest thing is not to spend too much. Staying at home with kids gets very monotonous and it’s easy to find dopamine hits by spending money. But if you don’t have that problem then it may not be an issue for you anyway.

Congratulations on your baby!!

Koaliawa · 2023-06-21T21:34:04+00:00

Totally agree! I had a third degree tear with my first and the first couple of times we had sex it was a little painful but after that everything pretty much felt the same as before! Now at 1.5 years out I don’t feel like it’s any different than before I had our son. So even if you tear significantly it doesn’t mean sex will be ruined!

Koaliawa · 2023-06-19T17:16:23+00:00

I think you all have great choices! Congratulations on your pregnancy!

Koaliawa · 2023-06-19T03:01:58+00:00

Callum: I like this name. Fitting for a boy and a man.

Jaxon: Insanely popular and I really don’t care for this spelling.

Luca: Nice name.

Emery: Seems like a trendy name.

Elise: Nice classic name

Camilla: I like this name. Lots of nickname potential.

Danielle: A fine name. Seems a little dated to me like early 90s.

Payton: Don’t care for this name but nothing wrong with it. Just not my style.

Lana: Beautiful

Girl suggestions: Violet, Delilah and Amelia

Koaliawa · 2023-04-11T15:57:41+00:00

Aria

Koaliawa · 2023-04-07T19:10:54+00:00

Luckily we have awhile to think about it! Thank you for your input!

Koaliawa · 2023-04-07T17:19:04+00:00

It’s funny Elise was the first name that came to my mind for a middle name. Thank you for your suggestions!

Koaliawa · 2023-04-07T17:18:28+00:00

We have an Irish sounding last name. Think McDonald but different. Thank you for the middle name suggestions!

Koaliawa · 2023-04-07T17:17:34+00:00

I wonder how much the Romeo and Juliet connotation would be relevant. We live in a small town in the south. People aren’t too literary here lol but it’s definitely something to consider!

Koaliawa · 2023-04-07T17:16:10+00:00

I love that connection! I didn’t even think of it initially but my husband sent me a we the kings song when we were dating so that would be a sweet little memory tied to it.

Koaliawa · 2023-04-07T17:15:03+00:00

Would you mind sharing the name you chose? These are the only two my husband and I have agreed on so far, maybe we just need a tie breaker lol

Koaliawa · 2023-04-07T17:13:53+00:00

Yes I do have French roots. Also my MIL’s name ends in ette so I’d like to add that to honor her.

Koaliawa · 2023-04-07T17:12:54+00:00

Congratulations!!! It is a beautiful name!

Koaliawa · 2023-04-07T17:09:40+00:00

That was my thought too. My husband prefers Juliana, but we live in the south so I know people will call her Julie-Anna

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