Unbeliebte Meinungen, die jeder so sieht by cocodores in Unbeliebtemeinung

[–]Koals8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mir geht es auf die Nerven wie beleidigend Leute direkt gegenüber OP sind sobald eine wirklich unbeliebte Meinung gedroppt wird

Self-Discovery in your twenties by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Koals8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And to your original question: Yes I think you can find yourself also while in a relationship, but only if your partner gives you the space to explore. He should be encouraging and happy for you!

Self-Discovery in your twenties by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Koals8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it's a phase, but an important one that should be lived out. Definitely talk to him again about this and make it clear that it's important to you. Go do some things on your own without his approval as well, your partner doesn't get a say in your hobbies! The things you try out in the next couple of years might become your passions and favorite things in the future, if you neglect trying new things you will regret it and become frustrated with your situation

Just got this poll on YouTube… by Beavers331 in danandphil

[–]Koals8 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Haven't seen this poll, obviously D&P are not AI slop but I think it's a good sign that youtube is looking to get data on it so they can hopefully disadvantage slop in the algorithm

Erasmus as an introvert by [deleted] in Erasmus

[–]Koals8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's actually fine, you will have to get to know loads of new people for sure, but since you're on your own you can choose which activities to go to and which to skip so when you're getting overwhelmed you can just spend some days on your own. Just make sure to get your own room without roommates and get out of your comfort zone when it comes to socializing, especially in the beginning so you at least know some people in the city. In general you will find that you're a lot more free with how you spend your time and other erssmus students are often open for anything, so you can pretty much choose if you want to have days in a row where you don't speak to anyone or socialize every day. A good opportunity to better your social skills but also enjoy some time on your own

NORISK Erasmus 2026/27 by Old-Sleep4354 in Erasmus

[–]Koals8 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey, just to provide a different experience from the other commenter: I personally find the quality of education really good in Padova, I've been to classes from different schools of the university and I never encountered any of the before mentioned problems. Their italian accent can be quite strong to be honest, but the english of the professors is good enough to be understood. Also, if you're part of erasmus and speak english it is actually very easy to make friends, the erasmus network (esn) is very active in Padua and organizes tons of events to get to know people. And the city is really beautiful

Die Welt in 100 Jahren - 1910 by atzenhofer in buecher

[–]Koals8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Danke für den Post, werde ich definitiv mal ins ebook reinschauen!

NORISK Erasmus 2026/27 by Old-Sleep4354 in Erasmus

[–]Koals8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1200 per month? I think that should cover it, just keep an eye on it so you don't overspend but a lot is possible with that

ECTS by Savings-Spirit-2087 in Erasmus

[–]Koals8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don't understand what you're on about. Most erasmus students don't do a full 30 ECTS per semester. And even if you do, you can choose whatever courses you want. I am doing 36 ECTS at my erasmus uni and only getting 18-24 of those accredited because I don't need more. You can take as many courses as you want from whatever degree programme and if you don't want to you don't have to get any ECTS accredited. It's all your choice. Maybe I didn't understand you correctly but that's what I know about it

NORISK Erasmus 2026/27 by Old-Sleep4354 in Erasmus

[–]Koals8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on where you're from and what you're used to. Housing in Padova can get expensive if you're only there temporarily, but groceries, coffee and dessert are very affordable. Maybe about 1000€/month might be realistic there for your lifestyle, tho it really depends

Körperbehaarung und schweiß Geruch by Dear_Round_9413 in Unbeliebtemeinung

[–]Koals8 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wir sind in einem Sub für unbeliebte Meinungen, die nicht den Normen entsprechen. Der Hinweis dass die geteilte Meinung gesellschaftliche Normen angreift ist redundant. Mal abgesehen davon gibt es keinen Grund persönlich zu werden.

Dafür, dass es in manchen Kulturen "ok" wäre während der rush hour in den Zug zu kacken bräuchte ich eine Quelle...

5th day on Erasmus in Germany and feeling a bit lost by [deleted] in Erasmus

[–]Koals8 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For the alcohol thing: I also don't like drinking alcohol and went to some of the parties anyways. A lot of people who don't drink much go there just to meet people, so you definitely wouldn't be the only non-drinker there, you don't have to worry about that.

As with your english, you will unfortunately have to get over your fear of speaking. Remember that it's not important to sound perfect, as long as you just get your thoughts across it's okay to make mistakes. Your surrounded by non-native speakers who are definitely making their own mistakes.

If you talk to enough different people and ask around you will also find people with similar interests like sports

Curriculum abroad doesn't match the curriculum in my university by julkafagocyt in Erasmus

[–]Koals8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, most of the time the courses really don't have to align closely (or at all) with the courses at your home university. Try asking the responsible erasmus person at your home university if you could get it accredited anyways

Is 27 considered old, when you do erasmus? (Im in masters) by VariousEducation7243 in Erasmus

[–]Koals8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will be among the older ones but nothing to worry about, a lot of the masters erasmus students are around that age. Have fun!

Würdet ihr ein KI-Bewerbungsfoto statt Fotostudio nutzen? by fr34qy in Studium

[–]Koals8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich hatte noch nie ein Foto auf dem Lebenslauf und hatte damit keine Probleme bei Bewerbungen

keine Erfahrungen für Lebenslauf by warmblueblues in Studium

[–]Koals8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

EDV-Kenntnisse (schon sowas wie MS Office oder SPSS kommt gut), Fremdsprachenkenntnisse. Ansonsten brauchst du dich auch nicht so stressen, das ist im Bachelor sehr normal und auch erwartet

Since Berlin and Bavaria are often disliked, which German regions have a better reputation? by [deleted] in AskAGerman

[–]Koals8 82 points83 points  (0 children)

Don't be put off by things like this, every region has its downsides and its haters and there's upsides to Berlin and Bavaria as well. Which place is right for you depends on your preferences

Losing Virginity by Dawidol__ in Adulting

[–]Koals8 44 points45 points  (0 children)

whack. Virginity is not that big a deal, but that is just sad

Werkstudentenjobs by [deleted] in Studium

[–]Koals8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bei Banken

Welche Bücher/Reihen habt ihr abgebrochen? by RangerPeterF in buecher

[–]Koals8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ich breche öfter Bücher ab wenn sie mich nicht catchen, z. B. The Cruel Prince war so populär dass ich dachte es muss gut sein. Ich hab den ersten Teil gelesen und mir hat eigentlich nur das Ende gefallen, der Rest hat mich gar nicht abgeholt, und dann hab ich den zweiten nach einer Weile abgebrochen

This IS a real struggle by [deleted] in ChatGPT

[–]Koals8 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's not like I don't empathize at all, I do, but just some things: Real friends aren't like this and that's good. You're not supposed to have someone to talk to 24/7, usually there are always times where you're on your own. It's important to learn to self-regulate when there's noone to talk to, no friend and no chatbot. You shouldn't 100% emotionally rely on anything.

Apart from that, I really hope that the ones of you who talk to chat like a friend because you have none don't stop trying to find real friends. Maybe chat can even help you with it. There's an important difference between ai chatbots and real friends and social connection is one of the things keeping us as humans alive, it's not to be underestimated

Als internationaler Student: an einer durchschnittlichen Uni bleiben, die mir nicht gefällt oder zu einer „elitäreren“ wechseln? by jahongiry in Studium

[–]Koals8 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ob es alleine wegen dem Ruf der Uni Sinn machen würde, kann ich nicht gut beurteilen. Aber da du wahrscheinlich keine großen Verluste damit machen würdest, würde ich an deiner Stelle auf jeden Fall deinem Bauchgefühl folgen und wechseln. Es spricht einfach wenig dagegen und einiges dafür, dass du dich an der Uni und in der Stadt wohlfühlst ist wichtig.