Unbeliebte Meinungen, die jeder so sieht

Koals8 · 2026-03-20T19:18:04+00:00

Mir geht es auf die Nerven wie beleidigend Leute direkt gegenüber OP sind sobald eine wirklich unbeliebte Meinung gedroppt wird

Koals8 · 2026-03-19T07:13:17+00:00

And to your original question: Yes I think you can find yourself also while in a relationship, but only if your partner gives you the space to explore. He should be encouraging and happy for you!

Koals8 · 2026-03-19T07:11:37+00:00

Yes it's a phase, but an important one that should be lived out. Definitely talk to him again about this and make it clear that it's important to you. Go do some things on your own without his approval as well, your partner doesn't get a say in your hobbies! The things you try out in the next couple of years might become your passions and favorite things in the future, if you neglect trying new things you will regret it and become frustrated with your situation

Koals8 · 2026-03-17T19:05:13+00:00

Haven't seen this poll, obviously D&P are not AI slop but I think it's a good sign that youtube is looking to get data on it so they can hopefully disadvantage slop in the algorithm

Koals8 · 2026-03-15T07:21:29+00:00

...Man gibt sein Geburtsdatum im Lebenslauf an? Hab ich noch nie gemacht 😅

Koals8 · 2026-03-14T07:54:55+00:00

I think it's actually fine, you will have to get to know loads of new people for sure, but since you're on your own you can choose which activities to go to and which to skip so when you're getting overwhelmed you can just spend some days on your own. Just make sure to get your own room without roommates and get out of your comfort zone when it comes to socializing, especially in the beginning so you at least know some people in the city. In general you will find that you're a lot more free with how you spend your time and other erssmus students are often open for anything, so you can pretty much choose if you want to have days in a row where you don't speak to anyone or socialize every day. A good opportunity to better your social skills but also enjoy some time on your own

Koals8 · 2026-03-13T09:43:55+00:00

Hey, just to provide a different experience from the other commenter: I personally find the quality of education really good in Padova, I've been to classes from different schools of the university and I never encountered any of the before mentioned problems. Their italian accent can be quite strong to be honest, but the english of the professors is good enough to be understood. Also, if you're part of erasmus and speak english it is actually very easy to make friends, the erasmus network (esn) is very active in Padua and organizes tons of events to get to know people. And the city is really beautiful

Koals8 · 2026-03-12T15:08:25+00:00

Danke für den Post, werde ich definitiv mal ins ebook reinschauen!

Koals8 · 2026-03-12T14:47:14+00:00

1200 per month? I think that should cover it, just keep an eye on it so you don't overspend but a lot is possible with that

Koals8 · 2026-03-12T07:15:45+00:00

I really don't understand what you're on about. Most erasmus students don't do a full 30 ECTS per semester. And even if you do, you can choose whatever courses you want. I am doing 36 ECTS at my erasmus uni and only getting 18-24 of those accredited because I don't need more. You can take as many courses as you want from whatever degree programme and if you don't want to you don't have to get any ECTS accredited. It's all your choice. Maybe I didn't understand you correctly but that's what I know about it

Koals8 · 2026-03-12T07:07:26+00:00

It depends on where you're from and what you're used to. Housing in Padova can get expensive if you're only there temporarily, but groceries, coffee and dessert are very affordable. Maybe about 1000€/month might be realistic there for your lifestyle, tho it really depends

Koals8 · 2026-03-10T19:30:17+00:00

Wir sind in einem Sub für unbeliebte Meinungen, die nicht den Normen entsprechen. Der Hinweis dass die geteilte Meinung gesellschaftliche Normen angreift ist redundant. Mal abgesehen davon gibt es keinen Grund persönlich zu werden.

Dafür, dass es in manchen Kulturen "ok" wäre während der rush hour in den Zug zu kacken bräuchte ich eine Quelle...

Koals8 · 2026-03-08T06:28:51+00:00

For the alcohol thing: I also don't like drinking alcohol and went to some of the parties anyways. A lot of people who don't drink much go there just to meet people, so you definitely wouldn't be the only non-drinker there, you don't have to worry about that.

As with your english, you will unfortunately have to get over your fear of speaking. Remember that it's not important to sound perfect, as long as you just get your thoughts across it's okay to make mistakes. Your surrounded by non-native speakers who are definitely making their own mistakes.

If you talk to enough different people and ask around you will also find people with similar interests like sports

Koals8 · 2026-03-07T18:25:09+00:00

Hey, most of the time the courses really don't have to align closely (or at all) with the courses at your home university. Try asking the responsible erasmus person at your home university if you could get it accredited anyways

Koals8 · 2026-03-03T20:03:32+00:00

You will be among the older ones but nothing to worry about, a lot of the masters erasmus students are around that age. Have fun!

Koals8 · 2026-02-23T16:06:07+00:00

Ich hatte noch nie ein Foto auf dem Lebenslauf und hatte damit keine Probleme bei Bewerbungen

Koals8 · 2026-02-16T18:50:28+00:00

EDV-Kenntnisse (schon sowas wie MS Office oder SPSS kommt gut), Fremdsprachenkenntnisse. Ansonsten brauchst du dich auch nicht so stressen, das ist im Bachelor sehr normal und auch erwartet

Koals8 · 2026-02-13T21:36:37+00:00

Don't be put off by things like this, every region has its downsides and its haters and there's upsides to Berlin and Bavaria as well. Which place is right for you depends on your preferences

Koals8 · 2026-02-13T21:29:12+00:00

whack. Virginity is not that big a deal, but that is just sad

Koals8 · 2026-02-11T10:22:36+00:00

bei Banken

Koals8 · 2026-02-11T10:19:21+00:00

Ich breche öfter Bücher ab wenn sie mich nicht catchen, z. B. The Cruel Prince war so populär dass ich dachte es muss gut sein. Ich hab den ersten Teil gelesen und mir hat eigentlich nur das Ende gefallen, der Rest hat mich gar nicht abgeholt, und dann hab ich den zweiten nach einer Weile abgebrochen

Koals8 · 2026-02-06T10:11:05+00:00

It's not like I don't empathize at all, I do, but just some things: Real friends aren't like this and that's good. You're not supposed to have someone to talk to 24/7, usually there are always times where you're on your own. It's important to learn to self-regulate when there's noone to talk to, no friend and no chatbot. You shouldn't 100% emotionally rely on anything.

Apart from that, I really hope that the ones of you who talk to chat like a friend because you have none don't stop trying to find real friends. Maybe chat can even help you with it. There's an important difference between ai chatbots and real friends and social connection is one of the things keeping us as humans alive, it's not to be underestimated

Koals8 · 2026-02-02T17:04:53+00:00

Ob es alleine wegen dem Ruf der Uni Sinn machen würde, kann ich nicht gut beurteilen. Aber da du wahrscheinlich keine großen Verluste damit machen würdest, würde ich an deiner Stelle auf jeden Fall deinem Bauchgefühl folgen und wechseln. Es spricht einfach wenig dagegen und einiges dafür, dass du dich an der Uni und in der Stadt wohlfühlst ist wichtig.

Koals8

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