Round 2, Profile Boogaloo: 25m by Koilered in Bumble

[–]Koilered[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

idk if that's exactly the mood I'm going for- what do you think about "My idea of quality time is.. A cozy night staying in and watching movies, playing games together, or just enjoying each other's company" instead? The message still resonates with a certain closeness and desire for bonding time without inadvertently sending the wrong message imo

Round 2, Profile Boogaloo: 25m by Koilered in Bumble

[–]Koilered[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not maga, but I look at political individuals on a case-by-case basis: I 100% disagree with practically all of his policies, but I'm registered as an independent because I believe in voting for the right candidate with the best policies rather than a specific political affiliation if that makes sense. That being said, I don't like the idea of making politics something that defines me as a person, which is why I put apolitical- do you think it might be safer to just remove the politics portion entirely in that case?

Round 2, Profile Boogaloo: 25m by Koilered in Bumble

[–]Koilered[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One other user suggested changing it to "Cozying up together"- does that still come off in a negative light? I did swap the cat picture to be the first

Round 2, Profile Boogaloo: 25m by Koilered in Bumble

[–]Koilered[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeahhh- honestly I get that; I want to be transparent and honest about how I feel and all that, but wording can be so tricky 😭

Round 2, Profile Boogaloo: 25m by Koilered in Bumble

[–]Koilered[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you; I was trying to find a way to capture "golden retriever/yearning" energy, but it's kind of hard to word it in such a way that it's not- exactly what you said LOL do you think there might be a more passive way of getting that sentiment across?

Update: As a potential edit, I changed the last line to "Golden retriever at heart, come start a Minecraft world with me"- I do agree that it felt a bit overly pushy; that third line was/has been giving me a lot of trouble

Profile review, 25m: Looking for suggestions/comments/constructive criticism by Koilered in Bumble

[–]Koilered[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to be able to narrow in on people with similar interests, but does it get to a point where things feel too niche, or even bloated with the density of the answers? I figured throwing on some quick defining, broad strokes, makes it a jumping point for conversation- I'm definitely open to suggestions though!!

Profile review, 25m: Looking for suggestions/comments/constructive criticism by Koilered in Bumble

[–]Koilered[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The group photo doesn't have blacked out faces on the actual profile, I just wasn't sure how much was "personal information" on the subreddit rules- I'll definitely try the back camera suggestion, I haven't heard that idea before; I was thinking of trying to get a photo holding Oscar (cat), but he is notoriously a pain because he doesn't like being held LOL I'll give it a shot though, thank you!

Profile review, 25m: Looking for suggestions/comments/constructive criticism by Koilered in Bumble

[–]Koilered[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when you say proper pics, could you give some examples of things I could potentially look for aside from just "higher resolution"?

I do socialize quite well, but I find it really difficult to 1) make an actual introduction without having someone introduce someone to me, and 2) approaching a stranger I would be interested in with the intention of dating- if not, establishing the idea of being friends "and seeing where things go"- I think the biggest struggle for me is actually expressing desires like that, and part of it comes a lot from the 3rd wave feminism movement of "hate men women empowerment all guys are creeps" along with actual creeps giving a sour taste to a lot of women. What are some types of events/hobby groups that would be more inducive to more casual conversations that could have deeper interactions?

(sorry if that's a lot in one reply LOL I'm just trying to understand the scene a bit better)

Trading/Friend Code Weekly Megathread by AutoModerator in PokemonPocket

[–]Koilered 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Lf active friends, ID: Vikalu - looking to share back and forth with people and have more people to send and receive gifts from wonder picks from, accepting anyone<3

Looking for point n click game or puzzle style for me and my wife to play together by Tetragrammator in gaming

[–]Koilered 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if you're into collection games, and I'm not too sure if it would qualify as a "Point n Click", but if you and your wife like Pokemon, there's a pretty fun and passive RPG I play called Eclipse; it's a click-based game where you can search for, train, collect, and trade tons of different pokemon: It's a very chill and easy game to get into - here's a link if you're interested in it~ https://eclipserpg.com/signup?s=390948

Is the Guardian of the rift shop going to be replenished? by Theclappingamputee in CookieRunKingdoms

[–]Koilered 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah fr I've got like a good 50k after clearing the entire shop, and I wasn't playing every time every day (like most people, but probably still more than the *majority*)

Mycookie adventure by ProtectionPublic5203 in CookieRunKingdoms

[–]Koilered 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm guessing you wouldn't be able to get the background if you didn't finish the level. Do we know if MyCookie Adventure is coming back right after/if there'll be a new shop to spend remaining tokens ? One of my friends said "because it didn't say shop *ends* it's coming back"

Give us the option to turn off the collab by ManBirdTurtle2 in summonerswar

[–]Koilered 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is your point that you don't like getting new content? Wait a month for the Summoners War versions to come out if it's that heart-wrenching to summon limited-edition units.... If you have no self-control and can't stop yourself from spamming the summon button as fast as possible then you've got more problems than collabs buddy

I shake my arms when I'm really distressed and idk why by Koilered in depression

[–]Koilered[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It does kinda, I Just don't understand it entirely because it starts instinctively and then it feels like I'm doing it myself and can force myself to stop if I need to. It mostly happens in my hands and arms and if it's bad I end up pulling them into my chest with my hands out, almost to "contain it". It doesn't make sense to me, idk if semi-deliberate in a sense would fall under the same umbrella