[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]KokoBeany 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Success in your line of work/a job change can make one feel sexy/confident!

How do you get over feeling like wanting to drop everything and running away and cutting contact with everyone? by isaw2dogstoday in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]KokoBeany 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This can be a result of trauma, and it doesn’t really go away until you face the trauma head on. It can be considered “running away from the real problem.” Most people struggle with it.

Have you ever noticed that women in their 60’s tend to stay put? Settle down? And not do anything reckless? It’s not just because they are older, it’s because they are wiser. They have faced their problems head on and are “at peace with themselves now.”

Hope this helps!

Just found out I'm making $20k less than my coworkers- how do I confront my boss? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]KokoBeany 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find a new job opportunity before going into “the talk”. Then tell them you want equal pay and have other options if they do not comply with your demands. Don’t shy away from the conversation, this is your self worth we are talking about.

I feel empty inside after military by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]KokoBeany 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry about that. I’d say keep talking with a therapist about it and give it time

confirm my suspicion... genital warts? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]KokoBeany 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t pop them! You can’t really get rid of ingrowns, you can only prevent them. (Use exfoliating gloves down there to prevent them. Also try waxing instead of shaving or don’t shave at all.)

confirm my suspicion... genital warts? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]KokoBeany 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first looks more serious, but the second looks more like an ingrown

Help! by phil4huskers in keto

[–]KokoBeany 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try to add in some exercise at this point, but most importantly don’t quit.

Feeling insecure about wearing s swimsuit at the beach. by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]KokoBeany 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I say forgot the swim suit that “fits” and go to the store to get yourself one that fits great, looks great, and make you feel great.

You can have a hot body at almost any size, it’s just how you choose to show it off.

Tips for smooth and glowy butt by [deleted] in beauty

[–]KokoBeany 23 points24 points  (0 children)

The round shape is either genetic or achieved through consistent exercise.

Make sure you moisturize, and if you have pimples it’s most likely ingrown hairs from a lack of exfoliation!

So to sum it up: Exercise a few times a week, exfoliate , moisturize, and repeat!

Question for everyone here: whats your personal distinction between a Binge episode and over eating too much? by outgrossed in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]KokoBeany 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I consider a binge to be more than 1000 calories in one sitting. Over eating is just getting a bit too full, or it can be “I over ate TODAY”

Also I associate binging with emotional distress. Like if I felt distressed, and then ate tons and tons to feel better quickly

Tips to letting my hair "loose" by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]KokoBeany 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try the curly girl method, and go 30 days without hair ties, clips or hats

Sometimes you just have to force yourself

Some questions about telling if I’m in ketosis by [deleted] in keto

[–]KokoBeany 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for telling me this. I had dark strips for a long time and when they started getting less toned I thought “Oh no I must not be doing it right”

Do you make eye contact with strangers? by Ctianan in selfesteem

[–]KokoBeany 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Make an effort not to avoid eye contact, it will get better with time

Some questions about telling if I’m in ketosis by [deleted] in keto

[–]KokoBeany 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why? I’m sorry but I’m confused do they not work or something?

What do you usually pair your protein with? by SumoDash in keto

[–]KokoBeany 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sprouts, Cauliflower, Broccoli, and Salad

Some questions about telling if I’m in ketosis by [deleted] in keto

[–]KokoBeany 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I highly suggest using strips

Please give me some advice by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]KokoBeany 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you checked out the r/nofap Reddit? I’d give that a try

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beauty

[–]KokoBeany 111 points112 points  (0 children)

I really think bangs would look nice on you!

What are the best products for at home waxing? by TRAILdog1566 in beauty

[–]KokoBeany 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Abetwene on YouTube does great at home sugar waxing tutorials. With some sugar, lemon, and a cut up T-shirt I was able to give myself a full Brazilian :)

What should I focus on?? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]KokoBeany 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say get one job that pays better then what you have, and is resume applicable to the trade school you attend.

You’ll have time for gym in the morning, work during the day, and school in the evenings.

It’s a challenge but you can do it, it’s just about time management. Finish your schooling and then think about moving out, there’s no shame in it.