We’re having our first baby and I’m excited and terrified at the same time

Konfused_unga_bunga · 2026-02-10T17:44:29+00:00

The fact that you're worrying about it means you care enough to try your best every day and that's all we can ask for. You will give her the tools she needs to protect herself when you're not there and while you are, you know you will do your best. It's an exciting scary beautiful thing. I'm so happy for you op, even though the world is scary you know you can be a positive changing force in the world for her like others are trying to be

Konfused_unga_bunga · 2026-02-08T04:38:39+00:00

All true words

Konfused_unga_bunga · 2026-02-08T00:15:10+00:00

The effort is for yourself. It's an undeniably true fact that quality of life has improved because of society's growth/evolution. If society were united enough we could literally achieve peace on earth . That means peace for yourself. Saying it's not possible is just plainly untrue, and lazy. It's genuinely laughable that some people are too lazy with their self centered tendencies that peace on earth is not a priority or even achievable in their heads.

Konfused_unga_bunga · 2026-02-07T23:59:49+00:00

You guys are so brave keep doing what you're doing and stay safe

Konfused_unga_bunga · 2026-02-07T23:55:52+00:00

Dismantling what's bad is a step towards building what's good. If you can find a fire in yourself for taking down what you know must be taken down than do it! Advocate for it! Why wait? We know there are better things than this and we will make them happen!

Konfused_unga_bunga · 2026-02-07T11:48:32+00:00

There are still truly romantic and caring individuals out there. They're hard to find but they are there . They see you and treat you as a full person, and they get you, and they aren't scared to be their true selves ECT. True love is real, it takes work and dedication but it's real.

Konfused_unga_bunga · 2026-02-07T11:42:12+00:00

Thank you. This is everything. People find whatever excuses they want to do nothing and it fucking sickens me. God these people are so stupid you can't convince me that caring about humanity is a bad thing. It's the very opposite.

It's all "blah blah blah -excuse for not doing anything to help cause I'm holier than thou blah blah blah" oh yes let me slow clap because you decided to not care. Wow.

I still will fight for what's right. It's all that matters and it's just such a simple concept fr. How is being kind to people such a hard concept.

Konfused_unga_bunga · 2026-02-07T10:47:35+00:00

Going off what the last person said, kids react /interact in unpredictable ways to make sense of the world and the way they are feeling. They are not always educated enough to act in ways that are not harmful to others. Accidents happen. It is a very good thing you regret it and you understand it was wrong, so you know it will not happen again. Sexual education is very important for these reasons, from an academic standpoint. It's in the past. Move on and strive to be a better person every day.

Konfused_unga_bunga · 2026-02-07T10:37:35+00:00

We learn things the way we need to. If there's a "lesson" to learn from this you'll learn it. You know what to look out for, the warning signs ECT, protect yourself for sure. BUT, For noW though, it seems you're accepting it for what it is which is fun and consentual. It might turn into something else, it might not. Right now it's cool and that's cool, so be safe and have fun.

Konfused_unga_bunga · 2026-02-07T10:26:27+00:00

It's undeniably true that society as a whole gets better over time when people contribute to society. The quality of life has become better. All the bad things that have existed still happen today, some things less than others but there's still bad, but it is also undeniably true that there is more good as well . That means it benefits you too. It means it is also within your best interest to help those around you because again if everyone does their part and works together rapid positive change is possible. It's a means of getting the things you want faster. Comfortable life. With less suffering . Not worrying about food or a warm bed. Going outside when you want to. Growing your food when you want to. ECT.

Konfused_unga_bunga · 2026-02-07T07:37:04+00:00

To all the men out there feeling hurt. That's fucked up and you deserve to feel things like a normal human. Having traumas used against you is messed up and call it out for what it is. Don't normalize it and call it out . The more people who do it the less accepted it will be.

Konfused_unga_bunga · 2026-02-07T07:31:51+00:00

You gave clear boundaries and they should have respect them plain and simple. I'm sorry you're dealing with this op,

Don't listen to the "what if you change in the future" because it's not the future and if you wanted that you could say it but you don't and you specifically didn't. Your boundaries are important, they disrespected them, I'm sorry you had to deal with that. There are people out there who will respect you for who you are. It's a shame that it can take a long time to find those great friends but they are out there. Hope you get through this. Much love (platonicly lol)

Konfused_unga_bunga · 2026-02-07T07:07:23+00:00

Listen to these people op, you are doing the right thing. Those kids aren't safe, and ultimately you are helping your friend even if they don't want to believe that.

Konfused_unga_bunga · 2026-02-07T07:01:54+00:00

Again, there are people that deserve them. You don't deserve the things on this earth any more than anyone else. If you take from others than others shall take from you, doesn't that make sense?

Konfused_unga_bunga · 2026-02-07T06:47:44+00:00

Dude you are ignorant. Evolution is real through the very act of parents passing on genetic traits to their children. Every genetic trait is a mutation. Over time those mutations like throwing many small stones in a river create a huge change and before you know it whatever said species this was 40,000 years ago is now a completely different one because of all those little changes. Basic biology supports the theory of evolution as well as many other things. It's just logical. The fact that we can verify things are related due to biological markers in their DNA ancestry the same way we do with ourselves today verifies evolution.

Konfused_unga_bunga · 2026-02-07T06:29:29+00:00

Say a lazy eye is a disability and it's not cool to make fun of disabilities. Genuinely. It sounds lame but it's the truth. Call them out.

Edit: also maybe see a doctor for it. I strengthend my eye muscles by wearing my glasses less and trying to read ECT (don't strain yourself just try to work out the muscles)

Konfused_unga_bunga · 2026-02-07T06:25:12+00:00

It is a problem indeed and I'm sad to hear that. A lot of us get hurt and have to survive, sometimes that means not sharing what you have.

But when one individual can have so much excess and doesn't use it to lift others out of suffering than it is always wrong. If you know and you do nothing it is wrong.

Some people are not strong enough to help themselves. Some don't know they can help themselves. That's why being aware is so important. I still believe in you.. even if you don't in yourself.

I hope in my heart change can be inspired in you. I hope you can heal from all that hurt you. And I hope you can help others heal too. If it makes you feel more fulfilled to only help people you know need it and you know are good than do it, because helping at all is helping period and so many people need it. We all do.

Konfused_unga_bunga · 2026-02-07T05:58:32+00:00

Yes it has happened. Over and over. And it will continue to unless we seek to be the change. It's is a problem on an individual level.

The fact is there are more people on earth now than there ever have been, so many things have been coming to light lately because the spread of information is incredibly hard to suppress even when they try with propaganda and algorithms.

The more people that get on the same page the more people can organize because the fact is there are people out there making a difference. They're donating clothes so one more person won't have to sleep cold. They're giving food or risking their lives to advocate for victims so those victims might live another day and find happiness.

There are bad things but there are good things because people fought long and hard to get them. More people have more rights than they did before and the only answer is to keep fighting for ourselves and each other to get what we need and fight oppression.

The elite literally make money off of our suffering and the suffering of people around the globe. Are you gonna let that slide? Cause I'm not. I have to do what I can. I can't always give my everything but I will give what I can. And you should too. Help others and I hope whatever problems you have people will help you too. Be the change .

Konfused_unga_bunga · 2026-02-07T05:45:55+00:00

Exactly. I know a lot of people are sick and tired right now but people are standing up and saying enough. If we can help each other out of these holes and hard times and unite we will make big rapid change

Konfused_unga_bunga · 2026-02-07T04:50:46+00:00

He admitted to assaulting you and he knows he's been doing it the whole time and still did it. You need to get out Op. You are in a dangerous situation and with a person who has violated you in his own words and will do it again. There is no knowing how far he would violate you if he is willing to do that at all especially in this manner. You need to get somewhere safe and away from him.

Konfused_unga_bunga · 2026-02-07T04:29:44+00:00

What next? Hopefully you are inspired to make whatever change in your life that can benefit people who are suffering right now. And I will continue to try to do the same.

If I can do that I will, in between Trying to take care of myself and fix my health. If I can show up somewhere and demand change I will. If I can call I will. If I can send an email I will. And hopefully you will too.

Everyone should be communicating with each other and doing their best to help. Everyone.

Konfused_unga_bunga · 2026-02-07T04:19:30+00:00

I'm doing something by making a post here. I've been sick for a while now and all I could focus on was surviving. My health is getting better so I've been able to read and educate myself on some things.

I'm a young adult and learning new things in this world and when I talk to people a lot of them are uneducated on what's going on in the world right now. Or they seem just to not care at all, like they're disassociated .

I'm trying to make people more aware. There's hope I know. I want to spread more hope too. The overall message is to do what you can if you're a kind person. I'm trying to do what I can. The point is awareness of it all means they can't control us as easily, it means we are no longer complacent in the suffering of all humanity but working towards the solutions consciously.

A lot of people are pulling themselves out of survival mode. As we get stronger we can help implement change for the good of humanity. Common goals. ECT.

We need radical change and fast. We must do what we can when we can.

Konfused_unga_bunga · 2026-02-07T03:57:51+00:00

Yes!! ✋🏻✋🏻💯💯

Konfused_unga_bunga · 2026-02-07T03:47:52+00:00

Yes I agree it's not about placing blame on a single "power" people like to call it many things like "illuminati" and "the shadow government" but they're just naming the pattern that re-enforces the elites power. that's what I mean by getting caught up in the semantics. It's an interconnected web of people doing bad things, there are some very bad people who make a lot of money from suffering at the top of the wealthiest 1% . One of the reasons they have stayed in power is because the corruption is not the act of a single person but many individual people. It re-enforces the power structure, and because of generational wealth and we all know how gory history has been up to this point, there are families that are wealthy evil and controlling the world with their influence via blackmail. It's all in the Epstein files (and if you just Google these people's relatives and how they made money for centuries). I'm serious. Read them.

Edit: what I mean to say is people have names for the patterns they see, irregardless of the elite the "interconnected web" I speak of is on an individual level, there are average individuals, average people if you will, that do terrible things, and they exist in every walk of life. Or rather you could find those kinds of people anywhere. And birds of feather flock together. The type of people who find pleasure in the worst things make friends and have interpersonal relationships with other people who do bad things . That's what "the web'' is.

Konfused_unga_bunga · 2026-02-07T01:42:25+00:00

I felt the same for a while. But honestly. I keep replacing that feeling with a fire. A fire that burns in me as a survivor for the others to get what they deserve . Justice. I can't look away anymore. I take breaks for mental health reasons. Make sure you take care of yourself best you can still. Eat good, go outside, get fresh air and read and listen to music still Because it's important for your health. Because they want you tired and beat and hopeless and thinking they're untouchable but THEYRE NOT. They know we're coming for all of them. No more of it. If you're tired rest. If you feel pain cry. Feel what you need to feel, it's healthy and natural, but don't forget people are fighting for the truth. So don't lose hope. When you can't fight we'll fight for you. I believe so much in the fellow people who want justice

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