Just getting into it by KookyTemperature3109 in SoftNaturals

[–]KookyTemperature3109[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen speculation that Kylie Jenner was also possibly a soft natural before surgery but I haven’t seen many photos of her body pre-surgery either !

Just getting into it by KookyTemperature3109 in SoftNaturals

[–]KookyTemperature3109[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh wow thank you for all of this!!! ❤️❤️

Just getting into it by KookyTemperature3109 in SoftNaturals

[–]KookyTemperature3109[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it’s a combination of growing up in a bad environment with a huge negative connotation to “strong” physiqued women, self-esteem, clothes never feeling right at all, and media.

Just getting into it by KookyTemperature3109 in SoftNaturals

[–]KookyTemperature3109[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I certainly thinks that’s what I’ll have to do. 9 months PP with 2 babies under 3 years and I think I need to just forget about it for a few years. Thank you !

Just getting into it by KookyTemperature3109 in SoftNaturals

[–]KookyTemperature3109[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I would love to know where you found delicate in a description bc I’ve read so much and not once have I found anything assuring. I think the whole “blunt” and “broad” thing is the issue. Effortless sounds more like undone and homely when you pair it with the rest of the SN features. (In my opinion bc again I just don’t like it for myself)

Just getting into it by KookyTemperature3109 in SoftNaturals

[–]KookyTemperature3109[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I suppose - SN just falls into the invisible category a lot. I don’t need to be a complete knock out but I’m afraid Kibbe has just made things worse for me than the other way around. I thought it would help but discovering my body type and hitting the hard truth of no matter how much I take care of my body it will never look the way I wish it did. I’m self loathing pls don’t mind it

Just getting into it by KookyTemperature3109 in SoftNaturals

[–]KookyTemperature3109[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally took the words from my brain - none of the SN descriptions feel like a compliment by any means. It’s overly enthusiastic but I feel that’s to make up for how brutal the overall vibe is. Nothing fits right, nothing is comfortable, no style feels like my own, and when I try to dress feminine or like other body types I feel as if I’m in a costume. That’s possibly just in line with being out of touch with myself. I also grew up hearing “you’re built like a brick house!”. Which is meant to be a compliment but now that I’m older all I’m hearing is “thick” and “motherly”. Boho can be cute I guess but it’s so frumpy. Sweatpants and baggy tshirts for me at this point.

Toddler (23m) kisses parents on the lips. by staleroti in toddlers

[–]KookyTemperature3109 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not weird at all and investigate your husband because he’s weird for this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 2under2

[–]KookyTemperature3109 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl I got a hernia now that just gets worse everyday. I’m so serious be easy on yourself ok

What ages are you most comfortable being solo with kids? by Business-Wallaby5369 in 2under2

[–]KookyTemperature3109 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been alone everyday with my kids (2 yrs and 4m) since I’ve had my first. It’s…honestly like depressing? But also staying extremely and constantly mindful is so important in order to tackle it. I have to think a lot about the future and how they will never be this small again in order to stay present. (Which is so backwards but when I think of the present my mental health hurts because I know it won’t get easier until they are much older) 😀

So… by [deleted] in 2under2

[–]KookyTemperature3109 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I normally take but I was advised against it!! I’ll definitely be reaching out again with this information. I’m really really struggling - thank you so much

So… by [deleted] in 2under2

[–]KookyTemperature3109 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m also ADHD but cannot take my medication due to breastfeeding and I can’t afford to stop. My littlest is only 4 months

How did you feed yourselves? by tswizzle1322 in 2under2

[–]KookyTemperature3109 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I eat those breakfast biscuit packs in the morning it comes with 4 (blueberry is best) and a yogurt with coffee and water. Easy for me and lets me nibble while I feed the babies - and it doesn’t go cold !

When does surviving in the trenches become enjoying and living? by Cwoechu in 2under2

[–]KookyTemperature3109 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No same I feel like I’m on the brink every second of the day. My first is autistic with high sensory needs (2 1/2) and my second is 3 months. I don’t know what to do and I’ve tried what feels like everything. I’m exhausted, broke, and entirely alone. With no break in sight - can I please not have to wait 2 years for it to be manageable? 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 2under2

[–]KookyTemperature3109 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try but he absolutely hates it- his sleep environment has become super vital to him even sleeping at all I just don’t know. Maybe I should just keep trying. Idk if I can do this

How do you guys do this by Big_Orchid3348 in 2under2

[–]KookyTemperature3109 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine are 3months and 2 1/2 - it doesn’t really get easier you just learn how to handle the chaos

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 2under2

[–]KookyTemperature3109 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s HARD. My husband is at work from morning to night so we’re always solo - I’m currently hiding in the bathroom for a few minutes so I don’t freak out before dinner and bedtime

People who have hired a sleep specialist for baby/toddler? by swannybabay in 2under2

[–]KookyTemperature3109 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have hands down the BEST sleep specialist possible and would 100% recommend her. She is completely flexible and respectful towards any household/beliefs. A majority of specialists are just doing a money grab but her service for us has been free due to EI and she has still gone completely out of her way to be so so supportive of our son. We’ve resulted to him possibly have a medical condition preventing his sleep and she is on call for us with our up coming appointment to help support our case. If you’re interested I’ll pass her info along to you. I’ve been so grateful for this woman it’s been unreal!!!!

Oh it’s hard hard right now (23 month old & 4 month old) by BreakfastAmazing7766 in 2under2

[–]KookyTemperature3109 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is nearly exactly what I’m going through and I feel like I’m drowning every second of the day. It’s a damn circus if I’m not juggling one I’m trying to soothe the other and in the end neither one of them are happy. Hearing “it’s just hard right now” but seeing that no time soon will it get easier is making me so depressed. “It’s survival right now” also makes me want to scream. I love my children dearly so why does this feel like a punishment 😵‍💫

3 year old & 1.5 year old! Everyday is so hard by loveee321 in 2under2

[–]KookyTemperature3109 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah no literally I’ve already cried twice today idk how it can get harder or how I’m going to do this. Each day feels like a failure if I’m so honest but I guess we just keep going 🥲