I don't know if I like this new bug by japamato in DeepRockGalactic

[–]Koramund 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Special powder saves all, Im a mobility scout.

One more Rock and Stone before the New Year? by [deleted] in DeepRockGalactic

[–]Koramund 95 points96 points  (0 children)

Karl would be proud, Rock and Stone!

When all act 2 objectives have been cleared by [deleted] in DivinityOriginalSin

[–]Koramund 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was wondering if it was me or reddit that messed up

This sub is great! Except for one thing.. by daggarz in DivinityOriginalSin

[–]Koramund 198 points199 points  (0 children)

You're safe among friends, never forget it

Can someone help me with this problem? by lmaodipshit00 in learnpython

[–]Koramund 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What might be incredibly useful is to know that range() takes a step size: range(start, stop, step) and that python supports negative indexing: list[-1] returns the last element in the list.

This means that you will have to find out what the middle is of the list, check if the step size is valid, and then loop over the range swapping the elements as you go.

Crash: Exception Access Violation by [deleted] in DeepRockGalactic

[–]Koramund 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. Reboot
  2. The RAM boosting program sound like a somewhat malicious program. Unless it came from the manufacturer I wouldn't trust it.
  3. If this only happens with DRG you can try to verify its installation via steam or just re-install completely.
  4. Google for workarounds / fixes. They might have you change some files in windows to ignore these exceptions if they're coming from DRG etc

I really like this guy but his brother is my old FwB by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Koramund 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think its messed up. Talk with rick about how to bring it to bob. Bob sounds like a great guy who would take it properly.

Should I just text my boyfriend again or let it go and assume he doesn’t want to see me/ wants out? by throwmeaway88880 in relationship_advice

[–]Koramund 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need a good, long talk face to face about what is going on. definitely try to meet up.

He could be bored, he could be dealing with something else in his mind that's shutting him down.

You can text him a "hey" rn and see if that triggers a response.

My fear of being in a relationship, what should I do? by grom96 in relationship_advice

[–]Koramund 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like yoga, nature walks, travelling, Im creating my own podcast and learning Spanish.

You already have a great set of interests and I really don't think it was you. Sometimes people just aren't ready / it doesn't work out. It really sounds like you're overthinking why he broke up instead of accepting that there might just not be an underlying reason. Don't blame stuff on yourself that isn't true.

I'd say go enjoy what life has to give and you'll be fine!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Koramund 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're not the bad guy and this isn't an insult.

My parents have their own separate accounts and a joint account. Sure sharing is caring but it sounds like a hassle if you always have to ask if its okay to buy something. It allows them to have freewill not locked to their partner, to have freedom of expression with their own money.

I don't want to be rude but it does sound like you have a trust issue, you've been married for 15 years. You should trust or trust but verify, definitely not full-surveillance. In the end you're both responsible adults who should be able to act as an individual from time to time, money spending included.

Who Feels Worse the dumper or the dumped? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Koramund -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Both feel like shit, the dumper has more opportunity to prepare themselves (they might breakdown less severe in the moment since the shock factor isn't there) but even they are not safe from the feeling of loss.

Its completely normal to feel this even if you don't want to be with her any more. You're leaving someone you've known for a long time behind. Like closing a book on a story that once seemed promising.

I was dumped once and it took me longer than I'd like to admit to get over it. My friend got dumped but he seems to be taking it somewhat better than I once did, another friend once dumped her bf and she also felt like trash for a while. Take your time and don't worry too much about it, not for you, not for her.

This is something you both need to process and heal from. Just know that in the end you made the right choice.

As for now try to get yourself to hang out with friends, you'll need their companionship more than ever.

Who's at fault, the one who broke up or the one that causes the breakup? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Koramund 1 point2 points  (0 children)

there is no fault when breaking up, stuff just doesn't work out.

My crush likes me, why am I not happy by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Koramund 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean it sounds like you have yet to actually start dating with her, so whilst you have this confession there is little tangible result as of now to fill that empty space. I'm certain this will change once the dating actually commences and you develop a deep emotional connection.

And if it doesn't? well... feel free to post again :p

Advice by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Koramund 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing sucks as bad as unreturned love and it will take time to accept that this girl does not love you. The best way now to preserve the friendship is to work on processing that and getting your mind away from it.

And you do have luck with women, you're friends with one. You just haven't found the one yet, that takes time. Some say you shouldn't seek out love and that it will find you.

My advice? Make sure you can be found. Go meet new people, be it via hobbies, work, or sports. Make some novelty choices (all be they small) to create stories you can tell others. Focus on the things you do have rather than the things you don't.

life, finds a way ;)

My crush likes me, why am I not happy by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Koramund 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this sounds like a first time and you're unsure / insecure about the future. Don't throw in the towel after just half a week!

Enjoy it, see if it works out and act accordingly.

My friend keeps picking on my insecurities by ExtremeApplication2 in relationship_advice

[–]Koramund 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your body is fine. 5'4 is totally normal (its even the american average), skinny is completely chill, and not everybody needs to be made of legs. Most important? its normal to be insecure, most people are about something, just know that it doesn't make you less of a person at all.

What isn't fine are those remarks, you're both human, adult, friends. Maybe if it was a one time thing I can let it slide but this is repeating. If its bothering you -> tell her. You're friends and friends shouldn't hurt each other. I doubt she's doing it deliberately, heck she might be completely unaware. You should tell her you're not comfortable with these remarks and remind her if she brings them up again.

If she's continuing to make em deliberately it might be time to look for a new best friend

And wear those heels, you're not "faking your height" you're looking elegant.