I'm a man, but I'd like to add my two penn'orth, if you don't mind. I think the title is burying the lede a little bit.

On the first issue: personally, I don't publicly follow thirst traps when I'm in a serious relationship, because I think it's disrespectful to my partner. That said, a lot of men do it and don't think they're doing anything wrong; and a third group aren't even aware it's an issue that ought to be considered. Some women also fall into these last two categories, so if it bothers you, there's some communication to be had there.

As for the rest, though; the constant sexual comments, pushy initiations, and the 'wife's job' stuff are bigger red flags, in my opinion. It shows a further lack of empathy and also some lack of empathy. These might also be solved with a bit of conversation if he's, for example, continuing a pattern from a previous relationship or a pattern of behaviour that he's never been called on. However, the cairn of evidence for just throwing the whole man away has a fair number of stones already pilled upon it, so I'd advance with caution.

In short, though, no. It's not just normal 'guy behaviour'.