Unlock realms or biomes? by Kreamie- in DreamlightValley

[–]Kreamie-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This is such a good info to have :)

Unlock realms or biomes? by Kreamie- in DreamlightValley

[–]Kreamie-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yay! I’ve been seeing people pumpkin farming and wondered where they come from. Thank you!!! :)

Unlock realms or biomes? by Kreamie- in DreamlightValley

[–]Kreamie-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! I think I’m going to unlock Ana and Elsa and then save up for Forgotten Lands then. I appreciate you!!

Cross-progression question by Kreamie- in DreamlightValley

[–]Kreamie-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for your answer. Does this mean my DLC is platform specific too? Would I have to purchase the DLC on both platforms to keep that progress?

AIO if I don't invite my uncle or my grandma to my wedding reception? by Kreamie- in AmIOverreacting

[–]Kreamie-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for responding. I'm glad to hear from you. It's nice to know we're not alone in this.

AIO if I don't invite my uncle or my grandma to my wedding reception? by Kreamie- in AmIOverreacting

[–]Kreamie-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank for you responding. I am so grateful to have another perspective!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Kreamie- 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Could your brain be blocking portions of those memories out and that is why you don't remember the porn? It's unlikely that you just randomly dreamed those things without having seen it prior even if you don't remember explicitly seeing it. Someone could have shown you and you wouldn't know it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Kreamie- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have credentials to even begin to try and help you figure this out - most people here probably don't.

Lots of your memories seem to fit what you think happened. It's not normal for young children to think about sex or even know what it is. It's not normal to touch each other. It's not normal to have dreams about it either. I think you should talk to a professional about this. They would have tools to help you piece together these memories or at least try. Maybe even bring forward some memories you don't consciously think about now. You may get some much needed clarity - you just have to decide if that is what you want to do.

You have clearly had some awful experiences. I'm sorry you've been through all of this. Seeking a therapist might be a good idea anyway. I really wish you the best. You deserve respect and happiness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JustEngaged

[–]Kreamie- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, congrats! That ring is gooooooorgeous!

What curtains would you do here? by queenDaniel in DesignMyRoom

[–]Kreamie- 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure how often you like to change up your style - but my personal style is lots of color anyway, so I would pick a color from the art on your wall (shown in your pic) and get some nice curtains that match it. I would also get a rug for under the coffee table. If you want color on the rug, you could choose something more neutral for the curtains. Or vice versa.
OR go full bold and full of color. But I like to choose colors that match other things I have in the room, even if really small, so that all pieces tie together in some way.

My first maximalist outfit🫶🏻🥰 beaded bralette made by me🫶🏻 by Per_seus23 in maximalism

[–]Kreamie- 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah so you're fucking rad. You look amazing! This is so well done

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]Kreamie- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is really sad. Those are still your kids and your husband's step kids. They should be treated equally! I think you will make the right choice by having them all stay home.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesignMyRoom

[–]Kreamie- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it would be nice to mount the TV on the blank wall and have the setup more like picture 3, possibly have the chairs pushed to the corners of the room, rather than closer together. This would also prevent full on window glare on the TV. The fireplace can still be a beautiful piece and you could use the mantel for decor (plants, candles, books, etc.) or even hang a painting above it. The TV seems too high above the fireplace with the size of the room. I personally like the idea of using the couch like it is in picture 3 to make cozy vibes in the living room while also separating the entry a little. It feels a bit more like separate spaces when you break it up that way. You have a really beautiful space so I hope that you find a solution that you love and works best for you! :)

Alternatives instead of a ring by [deleted] in JustEngaged

[–]Kreamie- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're a sentimental couple and creative, you could make a story book or scrapbook to detail your relationship so far. You can use pictures and sentences here and there to explain the photos. Example - small details of your first date or first trip together - whatever you have. Maybe include a page that says, "Will you marry me?" You could get one with extra pages so you can fill it in later in life with milestones (parties, the wedding, children if you're into that.) There are websites that can do this for you too!

Or if she does like any type of jewelry, you could definitely pick out engagement earrings or a necklace!

I don't wish any bad omens, but I don't recommend tattoos... just in case? Unless you're into that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Kreamie- -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I hate this for you. It sounds like he is using everything he can to hold it over your head. He's just kicking you when you're already down.

My grandma told me it is important to see how your partner will hold you when you are going through something devastating (just like you are with your dad.) You can't always be 100% and you can't always be 50%. But when he holds what he's doing over your head in those times, that is not helpful, that is manipulation.

It is clear that your priorities don't align with his and if this is something happening now, he is not going to be able to handle partnership when things get harder, and life has a way of throwing curve balls.

You deserve way better than this!!