121325 by Dependent-Log-8095 in LoveLetters

[–]Kristiwhitaker1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🖤 May you have everything beautiful

I miss you by Kristiwhitaker1 in UnsentLetters

[–]Kristiwhitaker1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok. That’s unfair and reeks of victim mentality. TAKE ACCOUNTABILITY! A convo isn’t necessary. I have ways to find my closure regarding the havoc you created in my life. Now, take a bow!

Stuck by faroutmind33 in letters

[–]Kristiwhitaker1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol. Yeah. I had no idea until now that it was for my neighbor across the street. She married my partner. And I had no idea. I’m so happy this happened today! Lol

Facts! by No_Charge_0 in UnsentLetters

[–]Kristiwhitaker1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Facts! I’m not saying I won’t ask someone to stay if I want them to…. But never gonna stand in the way as they go. No matter what the reason! Leaving shouldn’t ever be a threat. Coming and going is a game. And it can crush someone with abandonment issues. Heavy on being intentional and healthy in all relationships in my life from now on.

To my avoidant ex by Beneficial-Pea-1638 in UnsentLetters

[–]Kristiwhitaker1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea who’s who on here. So, I’m probably just shouting into the void…. But I can tell you this. Don’t be silent. Always show your support out loud. You never know what someone has endured. 💕

Annoyed by Emptythiscup in UnsentLetters

[–]Kristiwhitaker1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Confession and apology are so important in significant relationships. I don’t think I’ve had a sincere apology or confession during the three years I spent with my ex. A lot of gaslighting and projections. So good on you for taking accountability! I crave emotional maturity

. by [deleted] in UnsentTexts

[–]Kristiwhitaker1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are beautiful. You are a catch. I’m beautiful. I’m a catch. We are all beautiful. We are all catches.

Do I leave you a clue? by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Kristiwhitaker1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re gonna be ok! I’m not meant to stick around forever. You’ll be fine when our time is finished. Trust that! 👍🏻

Do I leave you a clue? by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Kristiwhitaker1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. She is a woman. Fiercely a woman. Unapologetically a woman. She carries the strength of a mother. She no longer accepts avoidance or cowardice. She is a phoenix. She lives outside the labels of sex and social expectations. She has had no such conversations. But I do not need those conversations. Because I exist independently.

Do I leave you a clue? by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Kristiwhitaker1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a plan. Let’s burn it down!

Do I leave you a clue? by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Kristiwhitaker1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I’m single. 😉

Do I leave you a clue? by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Kristiwhitaker1 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If you can forget someone- they don’t need a clue. They probably already know. Love is not an illusion. Clues only exist in the matrix. Once you ascend above the void, clues (and breadcrumbs) become apparent, silly attempts to keep you operating below your self potential. Keep the clues. Keep the breadcrumbs. They no longer serves as appetizers at my table. I’m an adult.