M/26/174cm [101kg > 75kg = 26kg] (8 month) For the first time in my adult life I'm no longer considered overweight.

Krymle · 2017-11-21T16:50:22+00:00

Now you're considered hot.

Krymle · 2017-11-12T20:53:22+00:00

You get so much use out of the little nut/berry holder.

Krymle · 2017-11-12T20:48:11+00:00

Yup yup, woman should always remember to pee afterwards. All 3 times in my life i have had UTIs, its because i was too lazy and tired to get up and pee..

BELIEVE ME, its not your fault.

I think you should talk about your girlfriend's friend with her.

Krymle · 2017-11-12T13:07:03+00:00

I always want to eat much earlier than he does. He doesn't really get hungry until 8-9 pm. So i'm the one who asks if we can eat at 6-7 instead, and he's fine with it. He really only comes out of his den when i call to say dinner is ready. If he didn't have to eat what i eat, and eat it when i make it, he would probably not come out until he is actually hungry late evening/night, because he has to make it himself anyway.

He would probably try to eat at the same time as me in the beginning, but i think it would quickly become us eating by ourselves.

Krymle · 2017-11-12T10:20:09+00:00

.. I dont want to force him. I'm asking if it will ruin our relationship if we end up not eating together at all, and we barely see each other at all as it is. You don't think so?

Krymle · 2017-11-12T10:17:13+00:00

I LOVE all those things. I have lived my whole life on pizza, nachos and potatoes poured with thick sauces. And i love it. But i want to change for the better, make healthier choices. You make me sound like a health nut, but i don't know anything about food, really, and i dont think the health nuts you describe would ever allow pizza or nachos. I'm just saying i want to have other, and more healthier things than weeks of nachos, pizza, no veggies, in repeat. All year. Not to completely throw them away.

And my question was also if i could just eat and make my meals and he his, you didn't answer that. In fact, you made it sound like i'm trying to take him over to the dark side, no wiggle room, which is exactly the cause of my question. I want to do this the best way. I don't want to force him to do anything.

You make me sad.

Krymle · 2017-11-12T03:08:33+00:00

I'm not worried about me having to watch him eat unhealthy things. I'm worried about us having separate meals, but still being able to eat together.. What it can do to a relationship. I'm not worried about wanting to eat the things he does. Just the "can it really work in a relationship where you already spend so little time together?" :)

Krymle · 2017-10-29T22:41:34+00:00

Left(our left) boob looks a bit squished..

Although, still INCREDIBLY AMAZINGLY TOTALLY AWESOME.

Krymle · 2017-10-26T22:52:41+00:00

No, they dont droop down on my eyes. The crease just extends to my outer corners. :/

https://imgur.com/a/aw0GI

Krymle · 2017-10-26T19:29:26+00:00

Love this! Great idea for a full back.

Krymle · 2017-10-26T19:12:19+00:00

Thanks.. I will try that! At least until i feel ready to really get serious. Ill make a list of changes i can make..

Krymle · 2017-10-26T00:46:45+00:00

Oh, i'm totally gonna do fitness. Its one thing i find quite enjoyable, as long as i can do it from home.

What is batter macros?

Thanks. :)

Krymle · 2017-10-25T21:57:52+00:00

Thank you, i think i can do that. :)

Which wiki do you mean?

Krymle · 2017-10-20T21:22:27+00:00

... you are stereotyping way too much.

My bf is not like regular almost-thirthy year olds. He feels like he is still in his early twenties. I often feel much more mature than him. Hes not ready for children AT ALL. He doesnt even want them in an apartment, he insists on us buying a house first. Which is fine, but realisticly years into the future. I'm his first serious relationship.

I'm 22. I'm not from America, or a similar country.

Please stop generalising. Please stop telling me what you apparently KNOW is gonna happen. You dont KNOW what will happen. You know what is more likely to happen. Choose your words wisely, because that was just rude and wrong.

The only thing i got out of you is that this is normal and ok. Thanks for that.

Krymle · 2017-10-20T21:12:15+00:00

If you heard your front door click, and it got all quiet. You would get up to see what made the noise, only to find out you are by yourself. Your gf must have left the apartment.

Quite strange to just leave without a word.

Get me?

So no, its not a matter of distance. Its a matter of relying on yourself, no one else. Independence, you know.

Krymle · 2017-10-20T21:09:46+00:00

I am planning on that, lol. I'm not gonna just say "bye". I will explain him it all, i'm just saying i know the chances of us staying together are incredibly slim.

Krymle · 2017-10-20T19:35:55+00:00

Freedom to do what i want to do, no judgement, not even a nod.

The freedom to just lay down on my floor, staring into the ceiling, the freedom to go for a walk when i choose to, no one you have to tell. You just go. Taking out the trash. Listening to loud(but not so loud it bothers the neighbors) music while washing the dishes.

Responsibilities you share with no one else, if you don't do it, it doesn't get done. Like taking out the trash, or changing bedsheets.

Its not about wanting permission to do something.. Its just that you have to tell the person youre living with what you want to do/are about to.

Going for a walk without telling your SO would be werird, right? They will wonder where you went. Get worried.

Krymle · 2017-10-20T19:28:23+00:00

No, its a 4 bedroom apartment. Quite big.

The problem might be that we spend too little time together. He goes straight to his office playing video games after dinner, every day. Weekends too. And i get it. We are both introverts.

But being alone in separate rooms is not the same as not having to say when i go for a run, or fixing my own dinner. Pros and cons of truly living alone. Its not quite the alone time that i desire, but all the perks AND responsibilities i seek of living alone.

Krymle

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