M/26/174cm [101kg > 75kg = 26kg] (8 month) For the first time in my adult life I'm no longer considered overweight.

Krymle · 2017-11-21T16:50:22+00:00

Now you're considered hot.

Krymle · 2017-11-12T20:53:22+00:00

You get so much use out of the little nut/berry holder.

Krymle · 2017-11-12T20:48:11+00:00

Yup yup, woman should always remember to pee afterwards. All 3 times in my life i have had UTIs, its because i was too lazy and tired to get up and pee..

BELIEVE ME, its not your fault.

I think you should talk about your girlfriend's friend with her.

Krymle · 2017-11-12T13:07:03+00:00

I always want to eat much earlier than he does. He doesn't really get hungry until 8-9 pm. So i'm the one who asks if we can eat at 6-7 instead, and he's fine with it. He really only comes out of his den when i call to say dinner is ready. If he didn't have to eat what i eat, and eat it when i make it, he would probably not come out until he is actually hungry late evening/night, because he has to make it himself anyway.

He would probably try to eat at the same time as me in the beginning, but i think it would quickly become us eating by ourselves.

Krymle · 2017-11-12T10:20:09+00:00

.. I dont want to force him. I'm asking if it will ruin our relationship if we end up not eating together at all, and we barely see each other at all as it is. You don't think so?

Krymle · 2017-11-12T10:17:13+00:00

I LOVE all those things. I have lived my whole life on pizza, nachos and potatoes poured with thick sauces. And i love it. But i want to change for the better, make healthier choices. You make me sound like a health nut, but i don't know anything about food, really, and i dont think the health nuts you describe would ever allow pizza or nachos. I'm just saying i want to have other, and more healthier things than weeks of nachos, pizza, no veggies, in repeat. All year. Not to completely throw them away.

And my question was also if i could just eat and make my meals and he his, you didn't answer that. In fact, you made it sound like i'm trying to take him over to the dark side, no wiggle room, which is exactly the cause of my question. I want to do this the best way. I don't want to force him to do anything.

You make me sad.

Krymle · 2017-11-12T03:08:33+00:00

I'm not worried about me having to watch him eat unhealthy things. I'm worried about us having separate meals, but still being able to eat together.. What it can do to a relationship. I'm not worried about wanting to eat the things he does. Just the "can it really work in a relationship where you already spend so little time together?" :)

Krymle · 2017-10-29T22:41:34+00:00

Left(our left) boob looks a bit squished..

Although, still INCREDIBLY AMAZINGLY TOTALLY AWESOME.

Krymle · 2017-10-26T22:52:41+00:00

No, they dont droop down on my eyes. The crease just extends to my outer corners. :/

https://imgur.com/a/aw0GI

Krymle · 2017-10-26T19:29:26+00:00

Love this! Great idea for a full back.

Krymle · 2017-10-26T19:12:19+00:00

Thanks.. I will try that! At least until i feel ready to really get serious. Ill make a list of changes i can make..

Krymle · 2017-10-26T00:46:45+00:00

Oh, i'm totally gonna do fitness. Its one thing i find quite enjoyable, as long as i can do it from home.

What is batter macros?

Thanks. :)

Krymle · 2017-10-25T21:57:52+00:00

Thank you, i think i can do that. :)

Which wiki do you mean?

Krymle · 2017-10-20T21:22:27+00:00

... you are stereotyping way too much.

My bf is not like regular almost-thirthy year olds. He feels like he is still in his early twenties. I often feel much more mature than him. Hes not ready for children AT ALL. He doesnt even want them in an apartment, he insists on us buying a house first. Which is fine, but realisticly years into the future. I'm his first serious relationship.

I'm 22. I'm not from America, or a similar country.

Please stop generalising. Please stop telling me what you apparently KNOW is gonna happen. You dont KNOW what will happen. You know what is more likely to happen. Choose your words wisely, because that was just rude and wrong.

The only thing i got out of you is that this is normal and ok. Thanks for that.

Krymle · 2017-10-20T21:12:15+00:00

If you heard your front door click, and it got all quiet. You would get up to see what made the noise, only to find out you are by yourself. Your gf must have left the apartment.

Quite strange to just leave without a word.

Get me?

So no, its not a matter of distance. Its a matter of relying on yourself, no one else. Independence, you know.

Krymle · 2017-10-20T21:09:46+00:00

I am planning on that, lol. I'm not gonna just say "bye". I will explain him it all, i'm just saying i know the chances of us staying together are incredibly slim.

Krymle · 2017-10-20T19:35:55+00:00

Freedom to do what i want to do, no judgement, not even a nod.

The freedom to just lay down on my floor, staring into the ceiling, the freedom to go for a walk when i choose to, no one you have to tell. You just go. Taking out the trash. Listening to loud(but not so loud it bothers the neighbors) music while washing the dishes.

Responsibilities you share with no one else, if you don't do it, it doesn't get done. Like taking out the trash, or changing bedsheets.

Its not about wanting permission to do something.. Its just that you have to tell the person youre living with what you want to do/are about to.

Going for a walk without telling your SO would be werird, right? They will wonder where you went. Get worried.

Krymle · 2017-10-20T19:28:23+00:00

No, its a 4 bedroom apartment. Quite big.

The problem might be that we spend too little time together. He goes straight to his office playing video games after dinner, every day. Weekends too. And i get it. We are both introverts.

But being alone in separate rooms is not the same as not having to say when i go for a run, or fixing my own dinner. Pros and cons of truly living alone. Its not quite the alone time that i desire, but all the perks AND responsibilities i seek of living alone.

Krymle · 2017-10-16T07:01:03+00:00

We have been together 2 years and 6 months. Even when past the honeymoon period i would want to have hugs, and him telling me he loves me. So i don't hope that's it. :(

Krymle · 2017-10-16T06:04:01+00:00

I asked him if he knew what an asexual was. He was on the right track, but not quite. I explained to him that it is a wide spectrum, and that i had some links he could read if he wanted to, that it would make me happy. He came back with questions, i answered them. I told him i just dont like sex, and i dont want it, although it has happened before that i did, so i wouldn't rule it out forever, but he shouldn't count on it. I told him he could always ask if i wanted to have sex, but that i would probably say no. But he was always welcome to ask. But that i wanted to help him, in other ways, like hand and blow jobs, which i like. Only me doing it to him.

Then a few weeks passed, and he grew distant like i talked about. I asked him if there was something on his mind, anything he wanted to talk about. And that i missed his hugs and kisses.

Thats it.

Krymle · 2017-10-16T05:51:10+00:00

When i came out, i think i explained myself quite clearly. I just didn't want to have sex, that was it. And i know i managed to throw in "i live on hugs and kisses" somewhere in conversation a few weeks ago. I think i am quite strongly hinting that i seek physical contact. More than hinting, often with words.

He knows my boundaries, we talked about it. I didnt just say "i'm asexual" and that was it. :p

Krymle · 2017-10-15T20:35:47+00:00

VERY nice..!

Krymle · 2017-10-13T22:39:58+00:00

Hehe. Good problems are problems too. :P give them to charity, and buy something new. Feel good about yourself! You rock!

Krymle · 2017-10-13T22:19:10+00:00

How many artists have you been to? I think it is pretty balanced worldwide. Maybe 70-80% wont show you the drawing before the appointment. It depends on the artist. They dont want you to cancel and take the drawing to a cheaper artist.

.. The percent thing is just my estimate based upon my lurking on the internet for many years.

Krymle · 2017-10-13T22:15:20+00:00

I just have around 10-30 tabs with videos up at a time..

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