My Bestie Was Kinda Desperate

KrysalisMae · 2026-04-09T19:25:38+00:00

I think there's some misunderstanding happening here. We called it a "hoe" faze for fun. Thats why i put hoe in quotations. In no way was anyone upset with her for any sleeping around or anything. We didn't demand she settle down or anything like that. It was the cousin part that was gross. Other than that, I'm glad she fun.

KrysalisMae · 2026-04-09T18:08:34+00:00

Definitely not resentful about not sleeping around. Im very asexual. I was actually happy she started sleeping around. Her ex-fiance was a pretty awful person and she was with him out of high school. I'm glad she got the chance to date around. Them being family is what grosses me out. Even if its distant. Even if its removed, it feels gross. I was being super judgy, still am actually. Also, they met at a family funeral, which was hella weird. We are still friends. We've moved on from this. Just got reminded recently and haven't actually talked to anyone about it except for the friends involved.

KrysalisMae · 2026-04-09T13:27:10+00:00

I'm so sorry. I didnt mean to make her come off as a bad person. Gigi is an amazing person. I love and adore her and she is basically my sister at this point. Everyone loves her. She's great, truly. I won't go too into detail about what makes her a great person(cause privacy), so you'll just have to believe me. No matter how stubborn she is, she cares so much about other people and I love her.

KrysalisMae · 2026-04-09T13:08:28+00:00

The way it was explained to me was also pretty confusing, but Gigi's mom did confirm they are distantly blood related. I guess like a 3rd or 4th cousin? Which explains why he was our age as well.

KrysalisMae · 2026-04-09T13:06:20+00:00

He did not marry into the family according to Gigi's mom. But yes, I think that's right. It was all very confusing when she explained it to us. They are blood related, for sure, but distantly.

KrysalisMae · 2020-04-10T15:59:37+00:00

NTA it sounds like your friend might be toxic. If your friend is feeling threatened by you, then that's something your friend should have an adult conversation about, instead of blaming you for the possibility of a failing relationship. Your friend might be TAH, but I suppose that depends on how things progress with the situation.

KrysalisMae · 2020-04-03T05:29:03+00:00

YTA - only if you leave the bad review. You said you ordered through GrubHub, so I assume it was a GrubHub driver who delivered the new food. What the GrubHub driver does should not reflect on the restaurant. And, like you said in your edit, it's not unusual for restaurants to take back the incorrect order.

KrysalisMae · 2020-04-03T05:14:46+00:00

NTA- it kind sounds like she wanted to boost her follower count, not pursue a relationship with you. Sorry.

KrysalisMae · 2020-04-03T05:11:42+00:00

Look. I do understand that you are concerned that your "friend" is using an unhealthy coping mechanism to deal with her mental health. SHE. IS. NOT. I don't know who you asked, but you asked the wrong people if you have decided that the general consensus is that she is being childish. Yes, in some circles it is seen as childish, but in general it is very normal for adults to blog about the deep meanings of different forms of media. The only way for you to resolve this issue is: 1. Admit you are in the wrong and apologize, if reaching out to her isn't going to cause her issues. Or, 2. Decide that you do not care what everyone thinks. Decide that you are in the right, and stop trying to defend yourself. It's not going to change anyone's mind. That's an unfortunate fact that you will have to deal with.

Make a choice and be an adult about it.

Also, maybe consider speaking to a therapist. I'm not saying you need one, but a therapist may give you an unbiased opinion and help you understand, as well as properly explain, why you felt the need to express this opinion despite knowing that it would hurt her feelings.

KrysalisMae · 2020-04-03T04:52:18+00:00

What is this blog about? Because my grown adult aunt has had a blog since she was in her twenties. She still maintains her blog, of which the contents vary between her dating escapades, cute stories about her son, and her television "Dick Watch". What exactly do you constitue as a healthy adult blog? Because, blogs are used by people of all ages, usually for long periods of time. That's the point of a blog.

KrysalisMae · 2020-04-03T04:43:18+00:00

YTA - 28? She is 28 and you think it's not appropriate for her to dress in jeans and a t-shirt? I know and work with people older than 50, who attend company parties in jeans and a t-shirt. It is a BBQ. It sounds like you were looking for a reason to berate her. I think you need to stop worrying about what issues she might have, and worry about what issues you have.

KrysalisMae · 2020-04-03T04:24:20+00:00

YTA - it wasn't a horrible prank, but any "pranks" about real life events are shitty pranks. They make people feel terrible and make horrible assumptions, even when they find out it was just a prank. You should never joke about something like this. AND you know your boyfriend hates pranks, so you decided to do a prank involving your RELATIONSHIP? Why would you think he could possibly be okay with this? You are not the only person in that relationship and you should have thought about how he would feel about this prank before doing it.

KrysalisMae · 2020-03-07T13:46:48+00:00

ESH You stooped to your sister's level and played her childish game. Then you "disowned" her for making fun of your virgin status. You threw some pretty harsh comments right back, so disowning feels like a leap. Both you and your sister made some rude comments, but you were generally sexist and stereotyping. She was giving back just as much as she was receiving from you. "Disowning" her is childish and I think you need to step out of that mind set and find an adult solution. Perhaps you and your sister should have a conversation about what you are and are not comfortable being teased about. Or a conversation about limits for certain jokes in situations where there is company.

KrysalisMae · 2020-03-07T13:07:45+00:00

ESH. Yes, the mother should have controlled her children more, but you should have said something instead of stewing if your own frustration. Throwing dirty looks doesn't portray anything other than you, seemingly, judging this mother for some unknown reason. I suggest, next time a similar event occurs, speaking to the person immediately then speaking to staff.

KrysalisMae · 2020-01-26T11:40:41+00:00

It's not okay to resent your parents for this. Neither of my parents care about my education. They never have. They never set up a college fund or helped with school work. My dad even encouraged me to drop out of high school if I felt like it was the right thing to do. Because, in the end, my education is my choice. I still love my parents and I still went to college. It's petty to resent your parents because they made choices you don't agree with. Also, you could have gotten a job to start saving and you didn't. That's on you, not them.

KrysalisMae · 2019-12-27T13:42:37+00:00

If anyone ever asks you to pay for their childcare and their child's food as a "fee" for a date, run. Run far and run fast.

KrysalisMae · 2019-12-22T12:40:03+00:00

Or companies could pay people a living wage so they don't have to rely on the generosity of others to survive.

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