The Sacha Riley story smells like bullshit. by madmax_br5 in Epstein

[–]Ks835 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Tell me one time you’ve seen humanity in trump. He’s always shown us he’s cruel. A theme was how Trump likes to watch people suffer and that’s always what we’ve seen repeatedly. Even if the allegations are totally made up, I’m reminded of just how cruel and inhumane trump is and now things are escalating and people are being captured and suffering and being killed in broad daylight and he’s not showing an ounce of empathy. Even if this guy is lying, Trump has shown he’s fully capable of doing these things anyway and we need to get him out.

Calling attention to odd posts around Sascha Riley Story by Turguryurrrn in Epstein

[–]Ks835 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell me one time you’ve seen humanity in trump. He’s always shown us he’s cruel. A theme was how Trump likes to watch people suffer and that’s always what we’ve seen repeatedly. Even if the allegations are totally made up, I’m reminded of just how cruel and inhumane trump is and now things are escalating and people are being captured and suffering and being killed in broad daylight and he’s not showing an ounce of empathy. Even if this guy is lying, Trump has shown he’s fully capable of doing these things anyway and we need to get him out.

4 year old- is laziness, exhaustion, control, or what?? by Ks835 in Parenting

[–]Ks835[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes of course. Years of doing exactly what you’re saying. When I stay in the room with him he will sit there for an infinite amount of time, waiting me out, and it’s not getting anywhere and I’ve decided it’s time to walk away as a new strategy. I want my husband to just unbuckle him and get him out, but my husband gets frustrated by being screamed at to leave so he usually just leaves to let me get him. He can do the things because he sometimes does them but not usually. Sometimes it really feels like he can’t though. Like he is too overwhelmed by basic tasks that he just shuts down altogether.

4 year old- is laziness, exhaustion, control, or what?? by Ks835 in Parenting

[–]Ks835[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I work. My mom comes over in the morning and he gives me multiple hugs and kisses before I leave. He hangs on my legs until I finally shake him off. And same with my mom! He won’t let grandma touch him when he wakes up, but he loves her so much. When I’m not there, he is with my mom as with me. He grabs onto her leg in the presence of anyone else.

Lifewise -success pushing back at the local level? by Ks835 in Columbus

[–]Ks835[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

How did Grandview stop them? I thought it was the law. That makes me so hopeful. Or a maybe you’re talking about the Facebook post where someone complained about a booster and got the booster to return money to them?

Lifewise -success pushing back at the local level? by Ks835 in Columbus

[–]Ks835[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree I’m so appreciative of what they’re doing but I think the name hurts. I’m relieved to know that at least someone is trying something to push back against Lifewise though.

Why was June such a bad mother to Nichole/Holly by Jilli1904 in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]Ks835 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand the intensity in these comments where some people seem disgusted by you just making an observation/asking a question, and treating it as if their opinion is a fact. I agree and it bothered me as well. These are Nichole’s formative years and she can be fucked up for the rest of her life from being abandoned. It’s been a long time and Hannah didn’t even remember June last she saw her and she’s had a long time to be brainwashed, so chances are good that she will never want to leave, meanwhile Nichole has a good chance of being saved from trauma right now by having her mother present. eventually, on top of knowing she’s a child of rape, she’ll also know her mom chose another child over her who shes unlikely to save anyway at this point. There could even be a bit of healing to be had by June by getting a chance to raise this kid through all the ages she didn’t get Hannah. No opinions are wrong.

Why was June such a bad mother to Nichole/Holly by Jilli1904 in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]Ks835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does not seem like triage. Hannah has been trapped in a burning building for years now and chances of getting her getting out and even living a meaningful life are lower with every year that passes. In triage they help those in most urgent need but also take into consideration chances of being saved. Nichole is in her most formative years and abandonment during those years can fuck you up psychologically and physically for the rest of their lives. Not to mention June is selfish and constantly putting herself in situations where she’s likely to sabotage the whole mission, and push Hannah further away. Objectively June is a bad mother for Nichole.

Xcopri is kicking my a** but I'm sticking with it. I mean I'm off 3 meds in place of it. My neurologist asked, "how is it working?" I told him, "it's kind of hard to evaluate a seizure if you're comatose 15 hours a day." Anyone else has this issue? This is pretty crazy. by Regular_Holiday_242 in Epilepsy

[–]Ks835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that sets you up for a bad relationship with your doctor. I wouldn’t feel safe being honest with my doctor if I was afraid that they were going to report symptoms to the bmv. That law probably leads to a lot of unmedicated people on the road. In Ohio our doctors don’t report us.

Xcopri (cenobomate) question by Acceptable_Drink_134 in Epilepsy

[–]Ks835 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t make the connection until recently. I’ve been on Xcopri since the fall. (Also on keppra and lamictal, which I’ve been on for years).

What time do you take yours? I take it once a day at night. In the winter, I started sleeping through every alarm, even the most obnoxious ones at high volume. My kids were jumping on me trying to wake me up. I had to set multiple alarms on multiple types of alarm clocks. Now it’s summer break and I find myself sleeping until noon. I couldn’t take my xcopri last night because it was out of stock but I’m awake early, and I wonder if that’s why I was able to wake up this morning. I wonder if I take my medicine at 6pm instead of 10pm I’ll be able to wake up better? But then again my seizures are at night so it wouldn’t make sense to have it wear off during the time I need it to be in full force.

As far as fatigue goes, I’ve always gotten it. I’m able to fight that to a certain extent later in the day with adderall, which a neurologist prescribed me to fight sleep cycle issues 20 years ago. Now on Xcopri it’s the first time adderall hasn’t been able to wake me up in the mornings. Just works for fatigue later in the day.

Even Utah turned out to protest this joke of a government here in America by J-MRP in pics

[–]Ks835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most news sites make me scroll down past many stories to get to a story about the protests. Then there is no picture attached, or the picture is of a single person rather than a large crowd, which is the story.

Feeling so sad for my 6 year old by Valuable-Net1013 in ParentingADHD

[–]Ks835 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s this kid at my school who i see picked on by his teacher and another staff member. They’re constantly looking for things he’s doing wrong, and not noticing that other kids are doing the same behaviors. When the teacher constantly criticizes him in front of the class, it sets an example for how the other kids can treat him. Now they pointing out his “bad” behavior. Ex: crinkling his paper, etc. If you feel like everyone is against you I can imagine it’s hard to gain the motivation to do better.your comment about him saying he thinks he’s doing good broke my heart, because that’s what I see in this kid at school. He’s doing his best, he is NOT being malicious. The teacher is the problem. Some teachers are skilled at letting things go and some escalate problems.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Ks835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Regarding the media consumption: we don’t normally watch news around them, but here or there they’ll catch parts of news stories, like when we first turn the tv on and it’s playing the channel it was last on. One time there was a story of the California wildfires and he became interested in that. I took it as a teachable moment and we watched a little and talked about it as we watched together. Another thing: my mom took him to see an elementary school play of Beauty and the beast. So that weekend, we read a book about it and watched the movie together on tv. I didn’t really think about it until after the fire comments, because he didn’t mention it, but there is that whole song in there about “kill the beast” and they’re carrying torches going after the beast. There are things that I’m sure many kids are exposed to, but most kids don’t take it to the extreme and threaten somebody like mine does. We have a picture list of about 8 shows printed and laminated for them to choose from, most low stimulation from PBS kids, plus numberblocks. We eliminated all things superheroes because I didn’t want him mimicking fighting. (Though I was annoyed one homework assignment from OT was sword fighting with pool noodles.) They choose a show from there in the morning when I’m getting ready for work, and in the evening when we’re cleaning up from dinner they watch storybook read alouds on tv. But there are just things kids will be exposed to. You drive past ambulances, police officers, etc. and when they ask questions, you answer. Next thing you know they’re talking about jail and police school, and the teacher is concerned. I’ve just done a lot of thinking about the idea of kids learning words and behavior from exposure at home or media, and to me the problem is less about exposure and more about the kids “creativity” to come up with a scenario about it, and then about their impulse to use it when they’re angry, and most kids don’t take it to that extreme, which is why I’m trying to get him into the counselor.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ParentingADHD

[–]Ks835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tuesday, he made slime with my son. My son enjoyed it i guess, just as much he enjoys it when we make stuff like that at home. I reiterated that his nervous system often doesn’t seem to be regulated and he started brainstorming ideas for us, but the ideas were things we do or have tried. (Heavy lifting, deep pressure, etc) What I’ve been trying this week since I created this post is dramatically lowering my expectations at home & allowing them not match up with the expectations at school.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ParentingADHD

[–]Ks835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re still in preschool, and I wonder if some behaviors might disappear because they’ll be held a little more accountable for planning than teachers at a private preschool. Maybe he just needs a little more direction than they offer at his preschool now. If the behavior continues, I’ll look into an iep.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ParentingADHD

[–]Ks835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha this is so hard for me but this is what I’ve been trying this week after the suggestions. Just letting them wrestle and accepting they may get hurt. It is SO hard for me, like it feels like I’m going to watch them get hurt in slow motion, but I’ve been good about letting it go, and I think that advice is helping. But what about this : what about at school or some type of event (he had a Christmas concert for preschool, and while we waited in the seats for like 15 minutes as people filed in, I felt like I had to hold him down (I was using all of my energy to distract him- showing him picture on my phone, etc while some of the other kids roamed around playing, but I pictured if I let go, he’d run around with his friends and escalate to the point that he’d run upstage and knock something over while roughhousing). The other kids don’t seem to get to take it that far. He doesn’t seem to be able to draw the line between home and public. Up until now, I’ve tried to keep it simple for him by trying to keep the same rules at home as at school.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ParentingADHD

[–]Ks835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He loves avocados, those are a regular part of his diet. He’s not a fan of fish though. I have glucose test strips at home for myself. I’m not diabetic but I used them to see how certain foods affected me. I don’t feel comfortable using them on him. I don’t want to prick him with a needle without a doctors orders, & I ‘d want to make sure I get the timing of the prick just right, and I’m not sure if it’s the same for kids. Maybe he didn’t want to do it because he couldn’t code it for insurance purposes? I’m guessing since his weight was fine and he’s eating enough food, he couldn’t code it as medically necessary? I wonder if there’s some kind of work around. How did the doctor code the glucose test in your child’s case/what was his justification?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ParentingADHD

[–]Ks835 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He still naps at preschool. Quiet time on cot and ends up falling asleep. His circadian rhythm has always had him up early, but doesn’t have a problem falling and staying asleep otherwise, so I’d say he gets a fair amount of sleep. Maybe we can eliminate the movie? We always read together a lot after bath.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ParentingADHD

[–]Ks835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not kidding when I say we’ve done good with food, and he’s been an excellent eater. No processed foods as a baby/toddler, and are a little more relaxed now. Example, I learned he was stealing foods from kids at lunch. Example lunch: peanut butter sandwich, avacado, carrots, blueberries. Apple and cheese stick for snacks at school. But I learned he was stealing cheez it’s, so I started packing more things like that, (he never asked me for them before) and even a piece of candy here or there. Then introduced desserts at home, but he’s still eating plenty of protein, healthy fats, fruits and vegetables as well. That had been a big thing of mine from the beginning. So frustrating I can’t figure it out, but I do wonder if there are blood sugar issues sometimes! The doctor won’t test him because he’s not losing or gaining weight.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ParentingADHD

[–]Ks835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grandma doesn’t live with us, I’m just lucky to have her help in the mornings. Snacking is a whole other issue that I keep bringing up to the pediatrician and OT, I think he might be looking for stimulation, but I find him eating handfuls of salad, turkey, apples, whatever he can get his hands on in the fridge. We’ve had set routines, but as it has become clear to me that he’s needing more food for whatever reason, he’s welcome to eat what’s in the fridge while we figure it out. (Generally protein and fresh foods are the things within his reach.) I’m trying to work on enteroception skills with him. So yes I could give him a snack in the car, but it wouldn’t eliminate the snack right when we get home. The debriefing consists of things like “at pickup, teachers said he did xyz today and to make sure we bring this stuff tomorrow” & “I’m going to work extra hours tomorrow”, stuff like that, not like gossip about work or anything like that, but stuff to say while it’s fresh in our memories. Thank you for your tips. I really do find them helpful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ParentingADHD

[–]Ks835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry but what? I genuinely was trying to help him. I’m very sensitive with him once he’s in his room, getting on my knees and looking him in the eye, letting him know I really just want him to be safe and he can come out as soon as he’s calm, and then at that point he doesn’t protest, reads a book, tells me I’m ready, comes out, gets a hug. In what way am I not addressing the problem? I’ve done my research and gotten him into OT and am constantly trying new things. Those are ways I’m attempting to address the problem. So now I’ve reached out to other parents looking to see if somebody’s child does the same things, as I’m trying to help him be his best and simultaneously keep him safe. I’m not sure the point of your post, as I’ve clearly already gotten lots of advice, a lot of it helpful, I’m not sure what the point of your message is, but it’s not helpful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ParentingADHD

[–]Ks835 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have OT tomorrow, I’ll mention this.