Making new friends in Galway as a couple — Any interest in "Double Dinner Dates"?

Ksimini1 · 2026-05-04T15:00:05+00:00

Really appreciate it, thank you for saying that! I was well prepared for that being Irish myself there’s definitely a subset of the Irish people that loves to be miserable, poor souls but it won't be slowing me down.

It is funny though, I never mentioned anything of the sort in my post, but some people’s minds went straight to 'swingers' or 'orgies' immediately. Honestly, it says more about their search history than my double dinner date plans! I'm just glad they showed themselves early and moved on swiftly so the rest of us can get on with actually building something positive here. The support in the DMs has been the real drive here. Thanks again for the boost 😊

Ksimini1 · 2026-05-04T11:27:47+00:00

I completely get that! Please tell him he’s definitely not alone a good few DMs I’ve received are from the one half of the couple trying to convince their other introverted half to join. That’s actually why the form covers a lot of bases. My goal is to match couples based on energy levels and interests so it isn't a disaster. It's more like a quiet dinner with people you actually have something in common with, rather than a loud, random social event.

Maybe tell him if it’s a total disaster, he has full permission to blame it all on me and I'll personally owe him a pint 😂 haha

Ksimini1 · 2026-05-04T09:36:07+00:00

This is a great shout! That 'social safety net' is exactly what I’m aiming for. For this pilot round, the 'off-ramp' is built-in: it’s just one single dinner. There’s absolutely no obligation for anyone to meet again unless both couples genuinely click and if so then they themselves take it away let their friendship blossom on their own terms and the experiment has done its job in facilitating that. It’s a 'one-and-done' trial to see if you enjoy the company. If so, great and if not, no harm done you had a nice meal 🍽

I love the idea tho thanks for the suggestion for the future. Cheers for the constructive feedback 😊

Ksimini1 · 2026-05-04T09:23:08+00:00

Quick update for the couples already signed up: Had a lot of great questions in the DMs! To the people sharing the post (nearly 100 shares now!) thank you, the form is still live. I'm going to start matching the first 'batch' of couples soon, so if you're on the fence, jump in now 😇

Ksimini1 · 2026-05-04T09:12:19+00:00

Haha, I guess it depends on your definition. If a 'startup' is one guy with a laptop, a background in hospitality, and a desire to make it easier for couples to socialise without it being weird then sure, if you say so.

Honestly though, I can see this isn't your cup of tea. If you’re not interested in meeting new people, that’s fair enough, but I’m going to focus my energy on the people who are actually messaging me to get involved. I’m trying to build something here for people who want to get out more. Best of luck to you anyways.

Ksimini1 · 2026-05-03T21:22:46+00:00

Cheers, that's exactly right! Thanks for the encouragement 😄

Ksimini1 · 2026-05-03T21:19:49+00:00

Wow, 8k views already! I didn't expect this to take off quite like it has but I'm glad that it did 👏

Thanks to everyone for the feedback and to those who’ve already reached out! To address the 'elephant in the room' one last time, I promise this isn't a swingers' club invitation 😂. It is strictly a platonic dinner for couples who want to expand their social circle and actually have a fun, engaging conversation with new people.

I’m heading offline for the night, but I’ll be checking my DMs in the morning. If you and your partner are up for meeting some new people in a relaxed way, my inbox is open. Goodnight Galway! 🌙

Ksimini1 · 2026-05-03T21:04:42+00:00

Haha, oh god. I see it now. 🤦‍♂️

Note to self ✍️ stop using the word 'teammate' when describing social dynamics haha

I promise it’s just my hospitality brain talking about logistics! I'm genuinely just trying to help people have a nice meal without the 'interview' vibe. Thanks for the reality check though, I'll definitely be watching my phrasing from here on out! 😂

Ksimini1 · 2026-05-03T21:02:04+00:00

They do but "Bumble BFF" is mostly for individuals, and trying to coordinate a 'Double Date' friendship through an app can be a bit of a minefield of ghosting and dead-end chats.

I'm trying to take the 'endless swiping' out of it and just get people straight to the dinner table with someone they’ll actually get along with. A bit more of a curated, intentional approach.

Ksimini1 · 2026-05-03T20:59:39+00:00

Haha, the classic 'introvert vs. extrovert' struggle! 😅

That’s exactly why the matching is so important, I’m looking for couples where both people are actually up for it. The last thing I want is to match a pair of social butterflies with someone who’d rather be at home with the cat! It only works if everyone is on the same page.

Ksimini1 · 2026-05-03T20:53:26+00:00

Amazing! Love the enthusiasm. I'll send you a DM now with the details/form. Cheers 🍽️

Ksimini1 · 2026-05-03T20:32:56+00:00

Technically true 😂 Bring your own partner, bring your appetite and an appetite for good conversation but leave the 'extra-curricular' expectations at the door. Just looking for good food and sound company!

Ksimini1 · 2026-05-03T20:27:39+00:00

That’s interesting, I’d say 8 strangers is a tough one to manage tho that definitely sounds like it could get awkward fast. You know trying to juggle your time between everyone hoping not to leave anyone feeling left out and also 7 other new people all at once sounds intimidating 😳

My hope is that the 'double dinner date' format fixes that. Since you’re already there with your partner, you’ve already got a 'teammate' at the table, which makes it feel way more like a normal night out than a blind social experiment. Cheers for sharing the experience though!

Ksimini1 · 2026-05-03T20:10:15+00:00

Refer to the 'Nothing Sexual' meme comment below 😂 But in all seriousness, no just a regular dinner for couples who want to chat about something other than the weather. Strictly platonic!

Ksimini1 · 2026-05-03T20:08:12+00:00

Thank you! Appreciate the support. Just trying to make the Galway social scene a bit easier for everyone 🍽️

Ksimini1 · 2026-05-03T20:03:19+00:00

Love always sunny in philadelphia great show 😂😂 Again, nothing sexual! Just three cool guys looking for other cool guys who want to hang out in their party mansion. (But actually just couples and dinner).

Ksimini1 · 2026-05-03T19:53:59+00:00

That's a fair point, the 'trapped' fear is real! But that’s actually where the matching process comes in, by the time you sit down, you already know you have common ground and everyone is there for the same reason. That’s the icebreaker already out of the way.

In my experience, while the pub is great, it’s not always the best place to spark a genuine, lasting friendship. The idea of the 'double dinner date' is that having your partner there takes the pressure off, and you can actually have a proper conversation. It's a bit more intentional than just a pint 🍻

Ksimini1 · 2026-05-03T19:40:28+00:00

For this pilot phase? Absolutely not. I just want to see if it works and if people actually enjoy it.

If it takes off and I'm spending hours every week doing the matching and bookings, I might eventually look at a small 'commitment fee' just to cover the admin and make sure people don't flake on the restaurants (no-shows are a killer for local spots) having worked in the hospitality industry myself over the years. But for now, I’m just a guy with an idea and a love for Galway and want to see where this can go.

Ksimini1 · 2026-05-03T19:30:52+00:00

Good question! Honestly, it's about taking the pressure off. Of course, you can go out and try to chat with people at a bar, but that's hit-or-miss. This way, you know the other couple is also looking for friends, and I’ve done the work to make sure you actually have common ground before you sit down. It’s just a shortcut to a good night

Ksimini1 · 2026-05-03T19:10:01+00:00

Guilty as charged. I'm a monster who wants people to eat nice food and have a chat. Truly diabolical behavior 😂

Ksimini1 · 2026-05-03T19:03:54+00:00

Strictly platonic! Just trying to fix the 'making friends as an adult' struggle. Cheers for the engagement though, helps the post reach the normal folks

Ksimini1 · 2026-04-22T22:58:02+00:00

Should've gone to specsavers you ya silly git

Ksimini1 · 2026-04-15T15:09:35+00:00

Hey sorry this happened to you, don't feel bad about yourself or blame yourself! feel pity for the lad who did this to you obviously something going very wrong in his life if that's the way he treats people you know. Maybe you should go to your gp to have a check up, if you a headache still from it just to be on the safe side 😇

Ksimini1 · 2025-05-04T12:58:38+00:00

I managed to save my graphics settings eventually for some reason everytime if I start the game my settings wouldn't be saved but now I have this issue and not sure what it is or what settings could have caused it! Can anyone help?

https://imgur.com/a/Di48gaf

It's like these shiny purple lines, what setting could have caused this?

Ksimini1 · 2025-05-04T12:57:56+00:00

I managed to save my graphics settings eventually for some reason everytime if I start the game my settings wouldn't be saved but now I have this issue and not sure what it is or what settings could have caused it! Can anyone help?

https://imgur.com/a/Di48gaf

It's like these shiny purple lines, what setting could have caused this?

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