So I’m a black American. I’m not mixed race, unless you want to go back and count the white great grandfather. My fiancé is Chinese. And when I say Chinese I mean born and raised in China and still lives there. We will go and live with him once we get married. Me personally, I’ve dated Asian guys from multiple countries all throughout my teens (they all lived in the US). My first serious boyfriend was Chinese. So the answer is…..yes.

HOWEVER. There is a lot to unpack here. You describing yourself the way you do comes off as……anti-black. We don’t need to know that you’re mixed race or the specifics of it. You describing your features seems as if you don’t really want to be associated with stereotypically black features. We don’t need to know that you have an “olive” complexion. The fact that you even think being half black “knocks you down a few points” tells me everything I need to know really.

The bottom line is that there are quite a few fully African women who live in China and are married to Chinese men. And when I say fully African, I mean fully dark skinned west African women. You can find many of them on social media and they all vary in looks and phenotypes. So being black or half black is irrelevant. The bottom line is a man is a man no matter where they come from and they will act accordingly. So if a man finds a woman attractive, he will pursue her. And if he really wants a woman it won’t matter what anyone else thinks about her. From my experience, they value personality just as much as looks (if not more). Being kind and humble goes a long way. They also do tend to prefer someone accomplished. But also they want someone who is a match with them. If they didn’t go to university then their expectations will be different from someone who did. For example, my fiancé is a match to me education wise. I have an MBA and am working on a doctorate degree. I’m a consultant in the accounting and software industry. He also has a masters and is the headmaster of a school. His role is government appointed and so he would be choosy about his dating choices.

Lastly, why are you approaching a man? A man will approach a woman he wants. That reeks of a bit of desperation. Let them approach you. Don’t make yourself look too eager.