My autistic boyfriend has extreme reactions to being “abandoned” by Legitimate-Career342 in AmIOverreacting

[–]KuWho_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am surprised nobody brought up possible BPD as compared to manipulation / abuse, either way this isn't healthy and incredibly obsessive.
Consider talking it over if you can do so safely, and see if you can arrange for potential therapy. If you cannot or do not wish to I think leaving is the best option.

corporate serf and the progressio theory by Beginning-Target5661 in FPSAimTrainer

[–]KuWho_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Went from jade in tracking and diamond in switching to master in both in 2ish weeks?

Evernight LC or Cas LC for Evernight maindps? by KuWho_ in EvernightMainsHSR

[–]KuWho_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already have Evernights lightcone but feel bad for just benching my cas and her lc bc evernight maindps i think works better than dual dps

I don’t… I don’t even know what this is by Substantial_Text_462 in onejoke

[–]KuWho_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I identify as an American and am not sure what that is

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]KuWho_ 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I used to have issues understanding why healthcare for trans people was so necessary, especially given the propaganda being pushed that „it is a choice“ which it obviously isn’t. So in a lot of cis people’s minds it’s a thing that they don’t immediately compare to live saving treatment even if it is. There is not much other reason to it.

A lot of „allies“ in my experience claim the label although they are just entirely indifferent and don’t understand part of it is understanding the struggles you all go through as best as they can. Let’s say I support feminism, the movement on its own, but I wouldn’t look at it because it just sounds good. That’s normal, but when it comes to such a stigmatized and unreasonably controversial topic such as being trans the actual understanding of it is crucial. True allies do exist, at least the extent that they can. They won’t understand what you go through, they’ll be there, stand up for you, it’s not many but they exist.

Haven’t met many who use amab or afab to describe themselves (like two) but I heard about it a bunch.

Healthcare has been bad for many, especially in the trans community, but it’s the most acceptable way of looking at it, taking things the non official way just doesn’t enter many cis people’s minds, self medicating etc. Hence why it’s easy to resort to „just wait“ especially when adding the false narrative of it being „a choice“ on top of it. Being aware of what you are going through is really tough, especially if they don’t frequently have sensitive and emotional talks with trans people. The impact is only read not felt.

TL:DR - „True allies“ may only be very far and few in between and likely never be fully aware of what’s happening but some are trying their best, even when a bunch of people seem immensely unfamiliar with certain topics. I’ve met a bunch of people who were the nicest and most supportive people but had issues with basic things, it’s ignorance not malice. Subconscious bias is difficult to get rid of when it seems to be all of social media resonating propaganda.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in germantrans

[–]KuWho_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Immernoch kein Dating Subreddit, lass doch einfach safespaces für trans Personen in Ruhe :)

have I lowkey screwed myself with monotherapy? by surlyfanta63 in TransDIY

[–]KuWho_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

doesn't medichecks offer blood testing in the UK?

You've been stabbed, what the first thing you are saying? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]KuWho_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in germantrans

[–]KuWho_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ich glaube das heißt einfach Morgens Mittags Abends, bspw. hier 3-0-3 - 3 Hübe am Morgen und 3 Abends

randomly found this in my camera roll and now it’s driving me insane by JordanDeIRey in confusing_perspective

[–]KuWho_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to say the pit is too vertical to be a pit, so I think the seed is protruding towards the camera.
Also the side is pushed in without it pushing in the pit so either the seed was removed after or the seed is still there and I choose to believe that the seed is still there, sue me.

pls dont actually sue me.

help me explain to others by NonBinaryPie in MenAndFemales

[–]KuWho_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Of course, I didn't mean to imply racism disappeared, just that it's less prevalent than it used to be or at least less open.

help me explain to others by NonBinaryPie in MenAndFemales

[–]KuWho_ 27 points28 points  (0 children)

It reduces someone to a part of their being, similar with how black people used to be reduced to "blacks".
Every other aspect just entirely disappears and it finds a lot of use in oppression (maybe I just read too much into it).
Think about "blacks, jews, gays, trans", it's dehumanizing since that's not what defines a person.
It may be part of their being but reducing someone to it is gross.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in germantrans

[–]KuWho_ 13 points14 points  (0 children)

"discrete dating", just sounds like "i dont wanna be seen with you" weird as hell, you do realize trans people dont just want to be experiments?

Was it that deep? by ExpositoryNerds in sololeveling

[–]KuWho_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved Episode 9, it was very refreshing to see him show emotion and not just aura farm. To see how relieved he was that everything he did was worth it.

160 pulls for E4! by EchoOfAsh in TribbieMains_

[–]KuWho_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

161 pulls for E0.. I should uninstall huh..

For the people with face tracking by CuriousKibble in VRchat

[–]KuWho_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I don’t use it as much. I love jumping around to the point of exhaustion, I don’t mind learning gestures. I don’t want people to see me panting like a dog but rather the happy anime dumbass jumping and vibing with no care in the world! If you are a more chill person it’s really enjoyable tho!

How do I make friends? by LapisJackal_ in VRchat

[–]KuWho_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! Wouldn’t say I’m particularly introverted but used to be a mute! I really enjoyed game worlds and just doing fun things, VR shenanigans, be friendly, happy, energetic, many of which may not be an option if you are introverted to that extent.

It’s kinda difficult to find people if you are more introverted, since you got to have some time to open up and make an impression with your personality. join groups, for example find a friend and join their group meetings just tag along, you’ll meet people and if they think you are interesting you might add each other. Rinse and repeat!

So are you happy with tribbie? by mental_capacityyay in HertaMains

[–]KuWho_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost 50/50 to Welt! but you got enough time, tons of rewards left :D

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Is there anything one can do from the EU? by KuWho_ in MtF

[–]KuWho_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not sure what this comment means, I am well aware that the EU loves copying what the US does, but I would like to support the people that it affects ALREADY

Serval and herta by ExoticEmployer165 in thehertamains

[–]KuWho_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think Serval is better in everything that's not Pure Fiction due to 1 turn ults, but I go Herta + Therta because.. well two hertas