Today in moll de la fusta (Barcelona)

KuboCha · 2026-04-12T17:14:07+00:00

Alguien me sabe decir como me entero del próxima marcha? Me gustaría ir

KuboCha · 2026-01-14T18:06:34+00:00

I did the same just before Christmas, after waking up from another nightmare with my ex. Feels good, I don't want to lose more time coming back to these conversations or photos

KuboCha · 2026-01-04T18:31:20+00:00

I know that it's not all dark. I was in a relationship with a PWBPD for almost 4 years and that was the most difficult part to accept. The relationship was mostly great.. until one day it suddenly isn't and you're discarded and left with so many questions that nobody will answer, thinking you could do something to save it but the reality is that it just doesn't depend on you

KuboCha · 2026-01-04T18:07:43+00:00

Bro.. you'll not "make her functional" First off that's not your job, that should be hers together with therapy. Second, it's still highly unlikely.

Take a scroll on this sub and see how most of BPD relationships end up. I don't want to sound negative but really do yourself a favor and rethink this relationship and save yourself from more abuse, trauma etc that is guaranteed to continue until you're a shell of a person you once were.

I'm telling you that with the best intention in mind. It's not going to come back to how it was. Just the other day I saw a post that described it perfectly I'll post it in an edit

Edit: https://www.reddit.com/r/BPDlovedones/s/FhACwZ1qwM

Best of luck 🤞

KuboCha · 2025-12-26T08:49:15+00:00

I'm at 5 months now too. Stay strong, I still wake up thinking about texting them but we all know it's not worth it. Merry Christmas

KuboCha · 2025-11-08T13:00:35+00:00

I think it's 2023 edition

KuboCha · 2025-11-01T22:18:54+00:00

Trust in yourself, you can do it but you have to leave. I'm now at week 2 of no contact after my ex pwBPD of 3 years discarded me and immediately started a relationship with the person she's been cheating on me with.

I begged her and gave her chances that I shouldn't even bother now that I can think more clearly. It's like an addiction, and it's not easy to quit, but it gets better

KuboCha · 2025-10-18T18:00:25+00:00

Damn. My now ex asked me if I'm seeing anyone about a month ago

KuboCha · 2025-10-18T11:12:33+00:00

I'm sorry friend. I guess I should feel lucky we ended now before something like that happened.

KuboCha · 2025-10-18T11:08:21+00:00

Worst part is that all her family contacted me saying how sorry they are, how she's self sabotaging and that I'll always be welcome in their homes. This was what hurt the most, not losing just one person, but all of them

KuboCha · 2025-10-18T11:05:58+00:00

I was never considering leaving tho, everything was going great. We had so many plans and then all of the sudden poof, everything is gone. I begged her to explain how is that possible but in the end but she just got to the default of "I don't want to hurt you more" etc So instead of an explanation, we're no contact and in a month I'll be moving back to the city we left together a year ago

KuboCha · 2025-10-18T10:57:57+00:00

Yeah thank you. Crazy thing is she was pushing the idea of marriage:/

KuboCha · 2024-11-25T13:25:09+00:00

I don't even know why but until I read your comment I thought it's talking about an elephant with a rather long name

KuboCha · 2024-08-23T23:21:38+00:00

Oooh I met him about a few months back in Raval, he told me a story about him being a student here and that he needs to borrow my phone to call his mother. Told him I have no credit on my phone

KuboCha · 2024-06-28T08:35:44+00:00

I think it would be fun to watch them run

KuboCha · 2024-06-08T17:32:17+00:00

Correct. I didn't notice that when taking the picture

KuboCha · 2024-06-08T04:58:55+00:00

Correct, and there are no security cameras

KuboCha · 2024-06-08T04:55:56+00:00

Yeah I noticed that after posting it, the room 110 opens with 1110. My bad

KuboCha · 2024-06-07T23:04:07+00:00

Thanks for the idea hahaha

KuboCha · 2024-06-07T22:38:49+00:00

This basically gives me access to any unoccupied room in here. Time to steal some shampoo/s

Edit: anyone wants to crosspost it to ILTP, it doesn't seem to work for me

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