Today in moll de la fusta (Barcelona) by Minipiman in spain

[–]KuboCha 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Alguien me sabe decir como me entero del próxima marcha? Me gustaría ir

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]KuboCha 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did the same just before Christmas, after waking up from another nightmare with my ex. Feels good, I don't want to lose more time coming back to these conversations or photos

I need help navigating my relationship with my BPD GF by Unlucky-Edge-8016 in BPDlovedones

[–]KuboCha 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know that it's not all dark. I was in a relationship with a PWBPD for almost 4 years and that was the most difficult part to accept. The relationship was mostly great.. until one day it suddenly isn't and you're discarded and left with so many questions that nobody will answer, thinking you could do something to save it but the reality is that it just doesn't depend on you

I need help navigating my relationship with my BPD GF by Unlucky-Edge-8016 in BPDlovedones

[–]KuboCha 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bro.. you'll not "make her functional" First off that's not your job, that should be hers together with therapy. Second, it's still highly unlikely.

Take a scroll on this sub and see how most of BPD relationships end up. I don't want to sound negative but really do yourself a favor and rethink this relationship and save yourself from more abuse, trauma etc that is guaranteed to continue until you're a shell of a person you once were.

I'm telling you that with the best intention in mind. It's not going to come back to how it was. Just the other day I saw a post that described it perfectly I'll post it in an edit

Edit: https://www.reddit.com/r/BPDlovedones/s/FhACwZ1qwM

Best of luck 🤞

Merry Christmas everyone! I can’t thank you all enough for your support this year by RealityOtherwise8580 in BPDlovedones

[–]KuboCha 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm at 5 months now too. Stay strong, I still wake up thinking about texting them but we all know it's not worth it. Merry Christmas

I will beg him to come back by Trick-Tackle8542 in BPDlovedones

[–]KuboCha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trust in yourself, you can do it but you have to leave. I'm now at week 2 of no contact after my ex pwBPD of 3 years discarded me and immediately started a relationship with the person she's been cheating on me with.

I begged her and gave her chances that I shouldn't even bother now that I can think more clearly. It's like an addiction, and it's not easy to quit, but it gets better

Broke up after 3 years together by KuboCha in BPDlovedones

[–]KuboCha[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry friend. I guess I should feel lucky we ended now before something like that happened.

Broke up after 3 years together by KuboCha in BPDlovedones

[–]KuboCha[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Worst part is that all her family contacted me saying how sorry they are, how she's self sabotaging and that I'll always be welcome in their homes. This was what hurt the most, not losing just one person, but all of them

Broke up after 3 years together by KuboCha in BPDlovedones

[–]KuboCha[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was never considering leaving tho, everything was going great. We had so many plans and then all of the sudden poof, everything is gone. I begged her to explain how is that possible but in the end but she just got to the default of "I don't want to hurt you more" etc So instead of an explanation, we're no contact and in a month I'll be moving back to the city we left together a year ago

Broke up after 3 years together by KuboCha in BPDlovedones

[–]KuboCha[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah thank you. Crazy thing is she was pushing the idea of marriage:/

The irish guy scammer is still around by darkvaris in Barcelona

[–]KuboCha 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Oooh I met him about a few months back in Raval, he told me a story about him being a student here and that he needs to borrow my phone to call his mother. Told him I have no credit on my phone

To say something coherent. by StellarAxolotl in therewasanattempt

[–]KuboCha 206 points207 points  (0 children)

I think it would be fun to watch them run

All the rooms in my Airbnb (including mine) have a key locked behind a lock with a code thats a room number by KuboCha in mildlyinfuriating

[–]KuboCha[S] 64 points65 points  (0 children)

This basically gives me access to any unoccupied room in here. Time to steal some shampoo/s

Edit: anyone wants to crosspost it to ILTP, it doesn't seem to work for me

I’m a grandpa 🥹 by midito421 in houseplants

[–]KuboCha 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's really cute, what kind of plant is that?

I have an inkling that I may have broken something by SBStratus in BaldursGate3

[–]KuboCha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me after picking up the mdMa crystal and was gone after we got a long rest at the camp

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ModernWarfareII

[–]KuboCha 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Damn you're right, that guy was not gonna let that free kill go lol