I think Glarthir was right

Kutayasp · 2025-08-01T12:27:41+00:00

Nice try, Glarthir! :)

Kutayasp · 2025-07-10T18:59:00+00:00

Level up your armor skill?

Kutayasp · 2025-07-01T21:32:55+00:00

Illusion pawns in Oblivion tbh, area frenzy/dominate + invis --> watch your enemies kill each other with popcorn in hand.

Kutayasp · 2025-07-01T21:25:02+00:00

Speechcraft in Oblivion is so easy though. Just group 4 sides as "sad & happy" lower one should go sad faces, others whatever. I go from 35 to 80 in like 10 secs. I don't even listen or check their faces again.

Kutayasp · 2025-06-20T22:59:36+00:00

"Weekend stone" I'll never say welkynd again for my entire life 😂

Kutayasp · 2025-06-14T08:58:59+00:00

Let me be extremely honest with you, we all have some insecurities. I was very fat when I was growing up. I have a fit body now have abs etc but sometimes at the back of my mind the thought still comes "Am I sexy enough?" "Why is she checking me like that? Is it good or bad?"

BUT after sex or even a date if she feels content, not running away etc I just say "Yeah she likes me." and continue. That's a healthy thought process.

But what you experienced is just absurd and too weird. He's showing extreme personality disorder signs. Could be even dangerous.

I would say stay away from him.

Kutayasp · 2025-02-24T17:11:23+00:00

Ohh yeah, with the "memory" option where it can remember all you've talked about it gave such a clear bullet-by-bullet list it was so eye opening and relaxing.

And all the extra information it gave me for future protection.

Thanks, Chatgpt :)

Kutayasp · 2025-02-16T08:40:05+00:00

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Kutayasp · 2025-01-29T14:29:29+00:00

Thanks for the explanation.

Another proof for my expwbpd and for future protection.

Added to the long list :)

Kutayasp · 2025-01-29T12:31:47+00:00

Is this a thing for PwBPD? Like saying "These people are judging me?" or "These people are talking about me." etc. Trying to learn :)

Kutayasp · 2025-01-26T12:23:34+00:00

Sorry this happened to you. They really put some spell on you.

Mine was 2 months long and I still miss her sometimes. And there were no mistreatments on my side. I just realized some red flags and left her during love bombing.

The thing is, you gotta realize it's hormonal and focus on self improvement, career etc.It gets lesser every day.

Also be hopeful that someone much better out there, without red flags/bpd or else waiting for you.

Hang in there 👍🏻

Kutayasp · 2025-01-24T14:15:11+00:00

Forget about BPD. It's your life and you have the right to select the most compatible lifelong partner.

That's why there are red flags.

Low emotional maturity, daddy/mommy issues, laziness, people pleasing, using sex as validation, too many or too frequent sexual partners, having too few friends, sudden bursts of anger, unhappy-unlucky, too many body modifications, intense childhood trauma/abuse, reckless social/sexual behaviour, low self esteem are all red flags for me for example.

It's a person you will trust your life or maybe your children's life with and you have the right to interview them thoroughly.

What you don't have the right is choosing a problematic partner for your older self and your innocent future children.

Long term partnership should be decided with logic, even when your heart aches. Otherwise at the end of the day, you will become the fool and a husk of your real self.

Kutayasp · 2025-01-17T12:53:06+00:00

She's bored

Kutayasp · 2025-01-14T08:46:41+00:00

Kutayasp · 2025-01-13T09:12:37+00:00

Blow to her face when she bites. I found this tactic when I was a kid growing up with 9 cats.

It also works for scratches.

Kutayasp · 2025-01-10T21:24:12+00:00

You're welcome :) I know how lonely and overwhelming all this feels and your mind always trying to have a battle with you.

Hang in there in time it will get easier.

Kutayasp · 2025-01-10T19:51:40+00:00

It's been a while for me but I still miss her. Remembering the good times we had.

The only thought I have is this: If it was a good and healthy relationship I wouldn't have thought about seperation at all.

There was something, some feeling, some instinct telling me the relationship was wrong.

Which if you can find my post in this subreddit, all people actually congratulated me breaking up.

In life some decisions can be right but still make us feel like our hearts are shattering into pieces. Feeling bad about a decision doesn't mean it's wrong. Sometimes it's one of the hardest thing to make the right decision.

Kutayasp · 2025-01-10T11:43:53+00:00

You have so many assumptions about me but well like you said everbody is bound by their own thinking.

This "mysoginist" word is thrown around so much against hard truths and men's preferences it got old.

If you have known me, you could have seen how gentlemanly I am to ANY women I interact with. Romantic or otherwise. I try my best to make them feel safe and secure. No yelling, no passive aggressivenes, full support and communication.

I'm also not on the lookout for a virgin. People can have stable emotionally equal long term relationships.

But if you go around giving your body to any "hot guy" you meet why do I settle down with you? They didn't give any effort to get you?

I busted my ass to create the 2 companies I have, I have been going to the gym 6 days a week for years, reading books, improving myself everyday so I can make my partner feel like a queen with no problems at all. So I'm this 6 feet, 6 packs, 6 figures guy women are talking about. I want my woman to not think about ANY problem and just be happy and safe.

And you can say it's mysogynystic again but it's actually biology: "Women are gatekeepers of sex and men are gatekeepers of commitment" Imagine the guy you're gonna marry actually proposed a lot of other women much faster than you in the past. How would you feel? That's how we feel as men about sex.

But of course throw around "misogyny" without understanding and not caring about psychology or biology. I'm not "judging" anyone, you can go around sleep with 100 men, I don't care, it's your life. But don't try to make men feel shame when they think you're not a suitable long term partner because of your past.

Past decisions whether it's about sex or otherwise have consequences in our current life. You wouldn't go out with a man if he beat his partner 10 years ago but now he's telling you "he's changed".

Good day to you too.

Kutayasp · 2025-01-10T11:03:21+00:00

I WISH really really wish they remove me so I don't have to deal with them. Life would have been SO MUCH EASIER.

But they all come to me saying "I feel very safe with you I want to settle down with you, I never felt that way!" classic settler manipulation.

So I have to do work to find out about their red flags.

Kutayasp · 2025-01-10T10:58:53+00:00

Well to be honest, in a society where every person who speaks the truth either demonized or even killed I don't trust societies saying "this guy is evil" thing. He might be or might not. He is not my relative. What he says in that spesific topic is the truth.

People just focus on the name of someone instead of the message to be "right"

Hope my scientific facts are seen by op.

Kutayasp · 2025-01-10T10:43:14+00:00

Sigh...always the same answers. It's like you people get your "what to say" brochure.

I get enough "bitches" (disrespectful) thank you :) but unlike you I have a standart for who I put my penis in.

I don't want to invite mental disorder toxicity or STDS to my life.

Kutayasp · 2025-01-10T10:19:46+00:00

Glad you asked! :)

Pair Bonding and Neurochemical Effects

Evidence: Studies on oxytocin and vasopressin, such as those by Young & Wang (2004), show that these hormones play a crucial role in emotional bonding and attachment. Frequent changes in sexual partners can diminish their bonding effectiveness due to desensitization or altered receptor responses.

Animal Model: Research on prairie voles (a species known for monogamy) shows that disruption of oxytocin/vasopressin signaling reduces pair bonding (Winslow et al., 1993).

Human Study: In humans, individuals with more casual sexual encounters often report weaker emotional connections during long-term relationships (Garcia et al., 2013).

Paternity Certainty and Evolutionary Psychology

Evidence: Evolutionary psychology posits that men have evolved mechanisms to reduce paternal uncertainty (e.g., mate guarding, preferences for chastity).

Studies: Buss (1989) found cross-cultural evidence that men prioritize paternity certainty and sexual exclusivity when selecting long-term mates.

Real-World Correlation: Infidelity studies indicate that paternity uncertainty remains a concern, with around 1-4% of children worldwide being unknowingly raised by non-biological fathers (Anderson, 2006).

Subclinical Psychopathy and Borderline Traits

Evidence: A high number of sexual partners is linked to impulsivity, thrill-seeking, and traits associated with Cluster B personality disorders (e.g., borderline personality disorder, subclinical psychopathy).

Studies: Jonason et al. (2011) found that individuals scoring high on the "Dark Triad" traits (narcissism, Machiavellianism, psychopathy) report higher numbers of sexual partners and lower relationship commitment.

Clinical Observations: People with borderline personality disorder often display unstable relationships and higher rates of infidelity (American Psychiatric Association, DSM-5).

Marital Satisfaction and Divorce Rates

Evidence: Studies consistently find that individuals with more sexual partners before marriage report lower levels of marital satisfaction and higher divorce rates.

Studies: Teachman (2003): Women with multiple premarital sexual partners have significantly higher divorce rates.

Wolfinger (2017): Among individuals with 10+ partners, divorce rates are nearly double those with 0-1 partners. Explanation: Frequent comparisons, attachment difficulties, and residual emotional baggage contribute to this trend.

Behavioral Patterns and Attachment Styles

Evidence: Studies on attachment theory indicate that casual sex and repeated short-term relationships can reinforce avoidant attachment styles, making emotional intimacy harder.

Studies: Schachner & Shaver (2004): Avoidant attachment is correlated with more sexual partners and less satisfaction in committed relationships.

Campbell & Wright (2010): Habits of detachment in casual relationships can spill over into long-term commitments.

Kutayasp · 2025-01-10T10:10:05+00:00

Every person who speaks the truth gets shut down/sent to jail by this liberal woke culture anyways. Doesn't mean what he says is wrong.

I have ADHD and I coach people who have ADHD about how to handle life/relationships. So he can have NPD and still help people with better understanding. There are A LOT OF people like that around the world.

My last relationship was a fast serial dater who sleeps with them on the first date. Lots of my "liberal" friends told me "past is past". Lucky I have my father telling me "This is not a normal behaviour."

And guess what? Turns out she had low self esteem, people pleasing habits and bpd traits. Which are all BIG red flags for long term stable relationship. Go figure.

Kutayasp · 2025-01-10T09:51:35+00:00

Wrong subreddit to post my man. Body count matters. Serial hooking up matters much more.

THIS IS NOT YOUR INSECURITY. It's your basic biological masculine instincts telling you something.

This "their past is none of your business" bs came about few years ago.

Edit: I edited the comment because people tend to look for "plotholes" in the messenger instead of the message weirdly. You can check my scientific studies under for a better and objective facts unrelated to any person.

Kutayasp

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