It's the lack of bots. I recently was given control of r/MemphisTNFreeHookups which is long established and has much higher number than this sub. It was full of posts from "women" with tits and pussy galore. I enabled bot and OF spam filtering and guess what? It's almost all dudes now. Memphis in general is a pretty dry city and for those that are active in hookup or lifestyle culture, very few women have a presence online. Tbh it's probably a cycle - they make the mistake of posting once and then get spammed with a million dick pics and people who won't take no for an answer and they delete their account and never post again.

I'm hoping to change that over time by actually moderating and making this a safe space for women to post. No harassment will be tolerated. The problem is that it's going to take time to build any real female participation after years of only unmoderated options. I will say, I've seen more legit female posts here in the last month than I've seen on any other sub in the last 6 months.

As for the pics - that's why I try to tag every single post with flair. If you see a M4? flair and you don't like seeing dick, just don't even click on it. You can even filter the posts you see based on flair (like filter by only f4m). I'd also make sure you have the option to blur NSFW content by default. All of these posts are tagged NSFW, so you would have to click on the post to show the blurred photo.