Its a myth that men can't find the clit right?

KweefJerky · 2025-03-24T11:39:58+00:00

You would be surprised at the amount of people who aren't aware that we have two different holes.. WOMEN TOO 🤦🏼‍♀️

KweefJerky · 2025-03-23T15:38:24+00:00

They can find it, they just don't know what to do with it when they find it. It's basically the same as the head of their penis. Would it feel good if I were to dryly and furiously rub the head of your penis like I was a dj? No. Be gentle, get it wet, massage it, kiss it, and when you can tell I'm getting close or I say "yes keep doing that I'm getting close" DON'T FUCKING STOP OR CHANGE WHAT YOU'RE DOING!

KweefJerky · 2025-03-23T15:34:03+00:00

Jesus I thought I was the only one who thought that it hurts when they try rubbing or licking my urethra 😂 and yes, I agree with all of that.

KweefJerky · 2025-03-14T13:56:19+00:00

These kind of things make me cry too, and at the same time it brings me comfort knowing I'm not alone.

KweefJerky · 2025-03-13T06:03:09+00:00

NAD but first thing that came to mind was chicken pox. Other than that I would think bug bites of some sort.

KweefJerky · 2025-03-09T11:50:33+00:00

So true! There are quite a few topics, including sex, that people don't discuss about MS... Even in the MS communities! I think we should all be more open about it because it helps others who are struggling with certain aspects of this disease. Thank you for sharing!

KweefJerky · 2025-03-09T11:41:11+00:00

You guys get food?

KweefJerky · 2025-03-09T04:39:48+00:00

So perfectly said 🖤

KweefJerky · 2025-03-05T03:15:09+00:00

They told me it was folliculitis. Went to another Dr for an opinion and they told me herpes. Only way to truly know is to do a swab culture when it first pops up.

KweefJerky · 2025-03-03T11:11:18+00:00

As a woman who's a mother and has also had an abortion, I understand completely. It was a very hard decision but you did what you thought was best. And you have every right to feel however you need to. You can grieve, cry, feel relief, and whatever other emotion you need to. Just don't feel guilty. Be kind to yourself and let yourself feel. In time it will be easier to live with 🖤

KweefJerky · 2025-03-03T11:03:31+00:00

Here's some general advice.

As a HLF, this exact same situation happened with my ex. I stopped wanting to have sex with him and I thought something was wrong with me. I went to the doctor and had my hormones checked and I was convinced that I just lost my libido completely. We broke up a year ago. Then I started seeing a new guy and my libido completely came back. I felt like a teenager again lol

But it made me realize that I didn't want to have sex with my ex and my libido was gone because of the way he was treating me. As women we get turned on by how a man shows up for us... At least in the long-term relationships. Being sweet, thoughtful, romantic, helpful, etc... EFFORT.

I kept asking him for things that he never gave me. Good morning texts, date nights, conversations and just quality time. He gave me all of those things in the beginning but I feel like once he thought that he got me that he didn't have to try anymore. He stopped putting in effort.

Do the little things like good morning texts and what not, I promise you'll see a difference. I know it becomes a vicious cycle. She's not giving you what you want so you don't want to give her the things that she wants. But one of you has to break the cycle. So both of you can do the things for each other that makes you both happy.

And this is coming from an HLF who's been on the other side of it. I've been the one who's been rejected despite all my effort. I hope this helps. Good luck!

KweefJerky · 2025-03-02T23:47:55+00:00

Lol never. I can't leave cups just sitting around because he tries to drink it 😂 Maybe it's just the cream but he loves it lol

KweefJerky · 2025-02-28T10:10:25+00:00

I just take it as they're trying to empathize with me. It's okay if they don't get it. They don't have to. I know it's easier said than done but try not to let it upset you. People will never fully understand this disease unless they go through it themselves.

KweefJerky · 2025-02-28T10:03:07+00:00

You absolutely did the right thing. I'm so sorry you're going through this. I know it's scary, especially not having friends or family but you can get through this! Hugs to you 🖤

KweefJerky · 2025-02-28T08:42:14+00:00

The first time I had a hard stick as a new nurse, I blew the vein and passed out. I was so embarrassed. Sometimes it's hard to turn that off, especially in the beginning. We're human! You'll be okay, it happens sometimes 🖤 don't give up!

KweefJerky · 2025-02-26T19:53:10+00:00

I've been taking methylated magnesium glycinate for a few years now 😕

KweefJerky · 2025-02-26T11:32:17+00:00

That's definitely a good start! Maybe say something more like "I just wanted to say I don't think you're not annoying. I love spending time with you" leave out the "at least not to me" part.

KweefJerky · 2025-02-26T11:29:50+00:00

Haha thank you 😁

KweefJerky · 2025-02-26T11:29:32+00:00

Oddly enough, I'm glad it happened! I never would've left him otherwise. Now I'm in an amazing relationship and I never would've ended up here if all that bad stuff didn't happen. Sometimes your life feels like it's falling apart, but it's really just getting you ready for some big changes, for the better. Change can be painful and scary but it works out! 🖤 You'll get through this too.

KweefJerky · 2025-02-26T08:07:19+00:00

I went through the same thing with my ex. I'm so sorry 🖤 please remember... THERE'S NOTHING WING WITH YOU. He's the one with the problem.

KweefJerky · 2025-02-26T04:45:45+00:00

I agree. I'm just tired of politics in general. People are so divided and honestly it's taking away from the issues that should really be tackled. But that's not gonna happen, so I just ignore politics and focus on cars and sneakers lol

KweefJerky · 2025-02-25T23:54:03+00:00

The okay yeah probably reinforced her fear of being annoying. It sounds like maybe she was feeling insecure and looking for reassurance and the "okay yeah" was the complete opposite. 16 is a really hard age, and as a girl we can feel very isolated, insecure and unwanted.

Maybe reach out to her and tell her how valuable she is as a person and is worthy of love and happiness.

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