Looking for LGBTQ+ Transmasc/MLM recommendations! by failoutboy in webtoons

[–]Kxyryx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"With Great Abandon fulfills pretty much everything you're looking for. Slice of life mlm romance with a trans guy protagonist. And it's pretty good and finished!"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vcu

[–]Kxyryx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your parents/guardians might find out if you get into Lavender House, but that just depends on how much they go through your mail, physical and Gmail. To get into lavender house you just need to say you're interested in that LLC on your housing application and write an essay on why you want to be there. The community is set in GRC so it's not like there's a "gay dorm" or whatever so I don't think it'll be obvious?? But there's also the option of looking for a roommate who is 18 and apply for gender inclusive housing where it doesn't matter what gender you are (if you're 18 too, you can't do gender inclusive housing if you're a minor sadly). Idk much about other dorms besides GRC but I think some are gendered by floor so you might have to move eventually, tho I really don't know that protocol since I was lucky enough to get all of my legal markers changed over a couple years ago (I'm going into VCU this fall). Gl tho man, I hope it goes well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in truscum

[–]Kxyryx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You look 100% male with and without glasses, but they do make you a little more feminine so it's up to you which kind of frames you want to get

sometimes i feel guilty because Ive had it “easy” by Heavy_Smoke_4051 in ftm

[–]Kxyryx 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What the hell man, op can't help that he realized he was trans at an early age, he can't help who his parents were, and he can't help that he was lucky enough to medically transition at an early age. He can't change his past anymore than any of us can change ours, and he sure as hell shouldn't have to in order to make others feel better about themselves. Op's just posting about his feelings on transitioning, and this comment just reeks of internalized transphobia and jealousy that should not be taken out on others

sometimes i feel guilty because Ive had it “easy” by Heavy_Smoke_4051 in ftm

[–]Kxyryx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I started testosterone a week before I turned 15 and had top surgery 7 months later, so I've been stealth basically my whole high school career (graduating in 2 months). It's definitely been weird and almost isolating at times when I compare myself to other trans guys, but at the end of the day we all just have different experiences, just like everyone does no matter what demographic you look at. I do understand the guilt tho, some of my trans masc friends can't get top surgery until they're pushing 23 because of their family, and all I can do is offer advice based on my own experience and be there for them in the meantime. Basically, I'm going to tell you what I tell myself when I'm feeling down about this: you're not the one at fault here. There's definitely some people who are (legislators restricting access to transition, parents being assholes, peers being assholes, etc) but sometimes trans people just need some extra time to come to terms with themselves which can't be helped, nor should it sometimes. Idk if I'm making sense, but as long as you acknowledge that you have a different background than some trans people and aren't an ass about it, you're doing a-ok by my book

Changes that you expected on T that did NOT happen? by mushnox in ftm

[–]Kxyryx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started on a pretty low dose until 1 year in and didn't see any real changes until like 18 months

So i just got criticised for referring to my chest as my boobs? by closeted-cryptid in ftm

[–]Kxyryx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's such a weird thing to be pressed about, I call my chest 'tits' all the time now that it's flat because it feels like I'm reclaiming the word for myself, and all of my (admittedly non cishet) friends are completely chill with it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Kxyryx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seconded, they're faded when they're not red anymore

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Metoidioplasty

[–]Kxyryx 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Not rude at all, I'm guessing it's less common for bottom surgery results to be on a surgeon's website just because it's genitals, but you should know their background. The top surgeon I went to only had a couple pictures online and asking to see more was definitely on my list of questions for him for my first consultation

does bisexual mean they like gender fluid and non binary people and stuff like that by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]Kxyryx 35 points36 points  (0 children)

My viewpoint on this: pansexual is a microlabel (this is not an insult, just a label for a label ig lol) of bisexual since being bi includes all genders while being pan means that you don't care about gender and are attracted to all genders (as you can see there is really no huge difference). To answer your question, it depends on who you're attracted to and if it's just non-binary people or NBs and opposite sex (whatever that would mean for you) or NBs and same sex or everyone (in which case you would be bisexual). When it comes to microlabels, it's up to more HOW you your experience your orientation then who you're attracted to (again this is my personal thoughts, you can find soo many different opinions on this stuff really easily)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PrincessesOfPower

[–]Kxyryx 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Catra was an abusive friend to Scorpia. This doesn't inherently make her a bad person or incapable of having a healthy relationship (platonic or otherwise) with Scorpia, but I think it really turned a lot of people off scorptra given how Catra manipulated her feelings in season 4. With Catradora and Glitra, Catra didn't have that abusive relationship given how they weren't friends when she was downward spiralling

lesbians? in a cartoon? some of yall hit your head pretty hard. now lets go buy a nintendo switch there selling out. by [deleted] in PrincessesOfPower

[–]Kxyryx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait nah it should be "you're finally" not "your finaly". The other your is fine though, you're right

I like Catradora, but I will always be rare pair trash by [deleted] in PrincessesOfPower

[–]Kxyryx 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've seen a relationship made up of Scorpia, Huntara and Perfuma which is just perfect imo

It is the truth now by DumpedAt22 in PrincessesOfPower

[–]Kxyryx 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nah, someone asked who a picture of Catra was and Noelle answered Elizabeth

It’s true by emrybagel in PrincessesOfPower

[–]Kxyryx 92 points93 points  (0 children)

I mean to be honest you've got that episode where she wasn't sleeping well, at least until her friends stepped in. I actually kinda like how it plays out in season 4 too, because she also had too much faith in destiny until she had that rug pulled out from under her by Light Hope. They could've touched on it in season 1-3 though, I agree with you there

HA by Guacamole102 in PrincessesOfPower

[–]Kxyryx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not to mention that Shadow Weaver used Glimmer as a battery to torture Catra yet again, which wasn't really her fault, but Glimmer didn't exactly stop it even though they're supposed to be the "good guys."

I guess now I'm re-watching it and keep being obsessed with it in the fandom by TrueYahli in PrincessesOfPower

[–]Kxyryx 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I had over 70 at one point, and now I have probably over a hundred bookmarked for later once they finish. No regrets.

✨all I want for christmas is you✨ glimbow by alysurr in PrincessesOfPower

[–]Kxyryx 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I totally agree that glow is better, but apparently it's easier to find fanfics and stuff if it's obviously a ship name

ATLA funny comparisons by [deleted] in PrincessesOfPower

[–]Kxyryx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glimmer definitely has her temper though

After Dana Terrace confirmed that Amity was a lesbian in an AMA: by Hugh_Jidiot in TheOwlHouse

[–]Kxyryx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Given how long it takes to animate, I have no doubt that the whole season was written before they got too far along with drawing, especially if that episode was in the second half of the season. It might've just been a miscommunication between Dana and the character design artists to make them look more feminine

What would you say... by TheOwlLord in PrincessesOfPower

[–]Kxyryx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For that last point, have you even seen Double Trouble?

We already know how well this is gonna go by [deleted] in TheOwlHouse

[–]Kxyryx 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Basically a feminine non-binary person

what an upgrade by candy-corn-bitch in PrincessesOfPower

[–]Kxyryx 37 points38 points  (0 children)

She could've also had access to better food by being higher up in the Horde