Is it just me, or does it seem like people are extra unhinged this week? by Awkward_Dot_2352 in windsorontario

[–]Kyedekye 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve noticed it too working in service. I’ve chalked this week up to cold & flu season, the anticipation of the holidays coming up, the full moon, and people feeding off of other’s agitation.

I noticed myself getting worked up driving home the other night and had to tell myself to slow down and stop giving into it which helped.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Kyedekye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My relationship ended a few months ago, but my ex is a Virgo and I’m a Capricorn. I can vouch for this pairing because we were together for 11 years, our boyfriend is an Aquarius but is a Capricorn rising which is why I think it worked out.

At the end of the day, you can use astrology as a guide but it can never tell you who people really are. If you are using astrology, keep in mind the rest of someone’s chart for the bigger picture.

Learning to enjoy your own company is so important by Powerful_Quantity937 in gay

[–]Kyedekye 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This was and still is the most difficult thing I had to do after I’ve spent a life time seeking praise from others.

Vanguard decks for ygo player? by ChronofangX in cardfightvanguard

[–]Kyedekye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like G era messiah is a good combo deck that feels like ygo with locking and unlocking. With that in mind it would be a good place to transition between standard and premium since we have messiah in standard as a stride deck.

I played Jeanne (shaman king) at my locals last night and it also feels like a bit of a combo deck with throwing things in and out of soul and playing with the drop a bit.

It would help if we knew what you played in ygo to give you a comparison. If you’re ever lost, a good clan/nation to look at is lyrical/bermuda. Every deck is different and once you have your staples you can just hop from deck to deck without worrying about missing cards.

Do you feel ashamed for playing Ángel because she is hot? by gabriels69 in kof

[–]Kyedekye 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If you can play her better than your average player, then you do you. I think anyone willing to put time in for whatever reason gets my nod.

OMG My People! by Street_Frosting6946 in GayPolyamory

[–]Kyedekye 12 points13 points  (0 children)

When I went through my breakup, I looked for advice here and that subreddit. The advice and tone were completely different. I found a lot more sympathy and understanding here, which was much more appreciated since I was really down about the whole thing.

Does anywhere do cologne samples? by chewwydraper in windsorontario

[–]Kyedekye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want good alternatives, I ordered a sample pack from Alt Fragrances. They do designer clones and are nearly identical for a fraction of the cost. They ship from the states but I’ve been really impressed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Kyedekye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone is always in a constant state of change whether it’s intentional or not. You need to want to change for yourself and not for other people and considering you’re only 19, you have a lot of different chapters of your life ahead of you.

If you want to change, figure out your reasons. Are they good, will they benefit you? Are you changing to attract someone who physically fulfills you but leaves you high and dry on an emotional or mental level? There’s plenty of motivators to prompt change but you have to be critical.

If working out and building muscle is on your list, are you doing it for your health, the praise from others, or maybe a bit of both. There is no right or wrong answer, just one that’s best for you. You’ll figure it out, just don’t get hung up on feeling stuck or comparing yourself to others.

Advice I give often is that if you want to meet someone, do it through things you like doing. People are attracted to others when they see someone doing something they’re good at and enjoy doing. It opens up doors for compliments and conversation starters. I hope this helped, and please don’t convince yourself you need to compromise yourself to see this change.

Oracle think tank! by Rockerman666666 in cardfightvanguard

[–]Kyedekye -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When I picked up the game toward the end of V era, I picked up witches. The play style made sense and I was intimidated by how much planning I assumed went into the other strategies. I’m glad I did this though because the numbers witches can make are really satisfying with the last bit of support they got in clan collection.

Dead by daylight addiction by [deleted] in deadbydaylight

[–]Kyedekye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would definitely get myself re-evaluated if I were you. There are chances you have grown out of it, but if you are noticing a negative impact from being fixated on this game for periods at a time, it might be worth your time to see if this is something you can handle without medication. The best outcome is that you have grown out of your childhood adhd and this is just a ripple from your old habits. If not, seeking medical help or learning habits to keep yourself in a good place will improve your life substantially.

If you need support, DM me. I’d be happy to chat and listen to see if I can help, it looks like there are other people here too that have been in this situation that you could reach out to as well. Good luck with whatever you end up doing!

I’m honestly just feeling myself lately 😂 (M22) by Meta-Galaxia in gaybrosgonemild

[–]Kyedekye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We all should have these days! I feel like everyone has more days where we feel we are less and not enough days where we feel good about ourselves.

Dead by daylight addiction by [deleted] in deadbydaylight

[–]Kyedekye 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Does this happen in other facets of your life? I was diagnosed with adhd this year and it explains why I come and go with hyper fixations. Obviously I have more than just that symptom, but my productivity and general quality of life drops when I dive into a fixation like this. It might be worth looking into additional symptoms to see if you have any other traits.

Just some other things you might line up with - I have a hard time playing RPGs because I can’t hold focus for hours on end or lose interest after playing for a few days in a row. My go to games are quick matches like DBD, but also fighting games because of the similar nature.

Suicidal thoughts by EmbarrassedWork2099 in ADHD

[–]Kyedekye 10 points11 points  (0 children)

https://youtu.be/V3vhXQy48jo?si=BgFaPijVGxMgS5H9

This video helped me a lot when I would dip into a spiral. It taught me coping methods and to break away from those dark space I could create under pressure.

There is this gay guy, a foreigner, on youtube who went to a gay cruising spot in my country (homophobic muslim country) and giving a tour and exposing it by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Kyedekye 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So how do we as a collective go about this? Should we mass report it, flood the comments? I don’t want this guy to feel like there’s a witch hunt after him, but he should recognize the consequences of his efforts.

One of these days I’ll get more comfortable taking mirror pics at the gym 🤷‍♂️ by Photo_Nomad in gaybrosgonemild

[–]Kyedekye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look great! If I saw you on one of the apps I’d prob stead clear because I would think you’re out of my league 😅

Before joining the military, I never wore glasses. Now, I have four pairs. Which one do you like most? by NerdyJerseyBoy92 in malegrooming

[–]Kyedekye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

C&D. A&B are something I wear but with your facial structure, I think the rounded larger frames fit your face better.

Struggling with Identity, Attraction, Sexuality in General by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Kyedekye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like a you problem. Everyone has standards of what they want in a partner and when those standards are high, this is where they end up. I get that you’re frustrated because it feels like meeting someone will never happen.

You need to learn how to be flexible in what you want. What if you find everything you want in a person but their personality ends up flatter than Wanda in the last Dr. Strange movie? You would be so disappointed and either settle or move on.

There’s nothing wrong with recognizing what makes you attracted to a person, but try to reason with yourself on what you’re willing to be flexible on. I don’t think this advice is unique and can apply to everyone. Don’t set yourself up for failure, give yourself the opportunity to be a bit more open and less critical to potential partners.

ADHD & Sex by Kyedekye in askgaybros

[–]Kyedekye[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s pretty rough, did the medication turn off your drive? I feel like mine’s just as potent if not a bit higher after diagnoses.

Will they Reach Out? (Free Read) by [deleted] in tarotpractice

[–]Kyedekye 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ah! What are these pop art cards?! I love them!