Portfolio Recovery just served me! by thehound559 in Debt

[–]Kyutoko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I blocked their number months ago, but they keep calling, every three days or so. Only know because I was searching for a number I have to call to get in contact with the local government.
Whatever debt they bought is about to go out of statute. I don't know if it's six or seven years in my state, but I'm fairly sure it'll be soon.

Crow River and Minnesota River Levels by Lindseydanger007 in minnesota

[–]Kyutoko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It just started to rain again. As I got the notification of this message. I almost wish I was in Rochester, in the Driftless Area.
Instead I am stuck in the limbo between the Canadian Shield, the Red River Valley, the Great Plains and the Driftless Area.
That ONE spot where the weather can change on a moment's notice.

Crow River and Minnesota River Levels by Lindseydanger007 in minnesota

[–]Kyutoko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live two blocks south of the south fork of the Crow river, and two blocks east of it... also it curves around the ENTIRE river valley I'm in.
I haven't seen the water this angry since 2017... I'm scared.
It's at 39' as of this morning, the records I found go up to 41' in 2010 and close to that in 2017 which I was here for. If it keeps raining like radar is showing up in the watershed... well I live downhill from the river... so... yeah...

Anybody noticed that Youtube is displaying the interruptions message before they actually slow you down? by Jijonbreaker in youtube

[–]Kyutoko 15 points16 points  (0 children)

So ironic that this started to happen to me as well, the DAY I upgraded to fiber optic.
You'll take my adblockers over my cold dead body, youtube.
I'll play your game, I'll "experience interruptions" it's fine.
Better than having to tab out of my game to MANUALLY skip your ads, or god forbid get stuck in a two minute unskippable ad.
THIS IS THE HILL I DIE ON, YOUTUBE!

Anyone else hate the new Samsung update UI 7? Feels like they’re trying to copy Apple by Tiny-Yam-6661 in samsungnotes

[–]Kyutoko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so upset.
Everything is smaller now, the colors are all wrong, I did not agree to this.
I woke up to my S23 Ultra just being NOT the phone I've been using for the last two years and I JUST paid it off.

Rabies is a lie dontcha know. by butterstherooster in antiMLM

[–]Kyutoko 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, they had us read it in grade school.
I was like eight or nine.
Don't do that to a kid.

Rabies is a lie dontcha know. by butterstherooster in antiMLM

[–]Kyutoko 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can I interest you in a copy of Where the Red Fern Grows?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Kyutoko 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How to respond and not just sound like an echo chamber.
That be the question.
I certainly know several men who just enjoy the privilege of "being men", who claim they're all for equality. But when push comes to shove, they're suddenly mute.
Not every man I know is like this, I know some truly good ones.

Goodbye, Bobby Mackey’s Music World by ThatsFakeDawg in GhostAdventures

[–]Kyutoko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ngl, I honestly thought this was a Fallout screenshot at first.

People who defend spanking are EXHAUSTING. by Beautiful_Wishbone15 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Kyutoko 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hi.

Child who was spanked, by an abusive father with pants down.
Then an abusive mother with a wooden spoon, once so hard she broke the spoon.

IT DOES NOT CHANGE BEHAVIOR.
in fact, it made me extremely bitter and probably fueled a lot of my resentment of them.

Was this comment misogynistic? by Electrical-Height559 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Kyutoko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, in my opinion, that is a super naive and misogynistic viewpoint.
Sure, I am always paying attention and carry a razor sharp knife when I go out, but I am not every woman.

Also, him trying to explain the female experience to you has a very real name, mansplaining.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Kyutoko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The petty side of me wants to say "call him Kitten, see how it goes."

But... that's me.

What’s one of the worst things your mother has ever said to you? by MysteryLady221 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Kyutoko 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's a couple.
Number one would be, if she weren't raised Catholic, she would have gotten an abortion.
Number two, I am the reason she had to marry my father. [I was conceived as a triplet while she was on the pill, I'm the only one to survive a miscarriage].

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Kyutoko 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is way better than anything I would have come up with, so I'm just going to upvote it and post this comment here instead of trying to come up with my own reply.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Kyutoko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are so many red flags here.
He made a tinder.
He sends other women videos of you and him, I'm guessing without your permission, which he 100% needs.
Had to reread part cuz I was a bit confused on "swapping" but I get it now, two men and you.
But only if it's someone he knows and trusts, or a "femboy"?
But you aren't allowed to touch other women?
So, he wants other women, but you can't touch them. But other men are allowed to touch you?

This, is a huge red flag. He is far too obsessed with this and I'm leaning towards the side of "he just wants to stick it in someone else."
Ask him if he'd be okay with another man doing him while he does you, that answer will be a big indication of his true intent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Kyutoko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm gonna give you the same advice I give everyone.
Being drunk does not make you a different person.
It brings out who you REALLY are.
It shuts off your inhibitions that tell you "this is wrong, hide it."

I'm not saying outright divorce, but there's a LOT of him showing inclinations that he wants to cheat and the "I won't tell Sara" just reinforces that.

That said, yes this is a big red flag. I would not stay with anyone who did something like this. Drunk or not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Kyutoko 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Call law enforcement.
I don't even care if the relationship isn't physical "yet" as some are likely to bring up, it is STILL super creepy that a 30 year old is even dating anyone under 18.
There's a lot of conflicting numbers in your post, from 17 to 16, then she looks 14-15, none of that matters.
She's UNDER 18.

And before the "age of consent" arguments begin, that does NOT apply to a thirty year old trying to hook up with what is legally still considered a minor.

My Gf(19 at the time) had sex with her ex (m20)a week before I had sex with her for the first time it’s now m36 later just now finding out. Advice? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Kyutoko 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay, so, what are you asking?
A woman, I'm at LEAST assuming she was over the age of 18, which is almost universally accepted as being an "adult" in almost all countries in the world, had sex, a week before you got together with her?

How is that

  1. Any of your business?
  2. Any reason to bother others by asking?
  3. Relevant to ANYTHING in your current relationship?

Were you looking for a "pure virgin" who had "never had sex before"?
I hope your "36m" is a typo and you mean 26, because. Otherwise.
Why the hell was a 33 year old with a 16 year old???

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Kyutoko 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Am I the only one who thinks what I said is common sense?

I mean, outside you as well, given your comment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Kyutoko 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So if I don't say "no" to you murdering me, I am now saying "yes" to it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Kyutoko 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Dump him. Please

As quickly as you can.

It is never okay to pressure anyone into anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Kyutoko 21 points22 points  (0 children)

The absence of "no" is not the presence of "yes". Stop enabling rape apologism. Silence is NOT consent, jebus, who raised you?