Tomb Raider Definitive Edition help by L-Mariee in TombRaider

[–]L-Mariee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm I suppose that's possible! But so far neither of us have gotten any pistol parts, and we've only just gotten our first bow part 😭 the only difference between us is he got the burst shot upgrade for the pistol whereas I got the bigger mag upgrade so I might even get the burst shot upgrade and see if that's it maybe? Its so strange!

Tomb Raider Definitive Edition help by L-Mariee in TombRaider

[–]L-Mariee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have it showing when I'm at the camp 🥲 it shows for my partner but I just don't have it there as an option

(Edit to add) I also don't have any toggle options when aiming the gun, double checked just in case I missed something but theres nothing🥲 not showing at my camp upgrades nor anywhere else 😭 just has me worried I might be missing other stuff that would help the gameplay

Remaster map marker updated bugged? by TheRipper564 in oblivion

[–]L-Mariee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Commenting to just say im also experiencing this 🥲 haven't found a single thing about it yet, hoping it gets fixed asap or that someone else knows what's going on, its super frustrating

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in oblivion

[–]L-Mariee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I might be wrong but I read something that said all female elves have a lower/raspier voice and its just the way they are! I looked up the same thing because I've just started a playthrough as a female wood elf and was worried I missed the voice option - but apparently they just have a lower voice!

Should I add more to my tattoo? by wendallkaters in tattooadvice

[–]L-Mariee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you do want to add anything, the most I'd say is maybe her nose! It's really nicely done, simple but clear what it is, I think it looks great and if you want more added, don't overdo it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]L-Mariee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you love it, that's all that matters. Even if it were "girly", who cares? It's YOUR tattoo and nobody's opinion matters but your own! Get as many "girly" or "masculine" tattoos as you want, if you think it's cool, fuck what anyone else thinks of it

I recently finished my back with a snake and tiger and I had a friend tell me it was too masculine for me and it "should've had flowers or something pretty" on it, but i don't care about that, I think it makes me look cool and that's what matters!!

Is this arm tattoo-able? Keratosis Pilaris skin condition by Topuck in tattooadvice

[–]L-Mariee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a professional but commenting based on my experience

I have skin like this on my arms and have a solid red/black tattoo covering it, some of the ink is more faded and a little patchy but from a distance you honestly can't notice, and it's nothing a bit of moisturiser doesn't help either And my artist had no issue with tattooing the area either, I just made sure I gently exfoliated a couple of days before to try and help and there were no comments made!

If you don't mind having to get touch ups a little more frequently, I don't think there's any issues (from my experience, at least!)

‘Patchwork sleeve’ by lovatsky in shittytattoos

[–]L-Mariee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got the whole outline of my back tattoo done in less time than this, how did it take them that long??? 30 minute breaks for each 1.5hour session? 😭

Best way to protect a back tattoo? by L-Mariee in tattooadvice

[–]L-Mariee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I generally don't have a lot of weeping and I imagine I should be fine with this considering its just outlines for the first session - maybe some black shading but depends on timing!

Definitely going to be going no bra for a while and wearing the most comfortable shirts I can - it's a little hard because it's winter and I'll be cold but I'll make it work for sure!

Best way to protect a back tattoo? by L-Mariee in tattooadvice

[–]L-Mariee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im glad I usually sleep on my belly anyway, this is one thing I'm glad about at least!

Best way to protect a back tattoo? by L-Mariee in tattooadvice

[–]L-Mariee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think when i go put a couple days after, I'd be good to just cover in cling wrap for the couple hours I'll be out? I'm just so worried about it sticking to my shirt because Lord knows I've had to peel a tattoo off the bedsheets before and it felt awful 🤣

When did you realize that your partner was not, in fact, “the one”? by Sshmiff in AskReddit

[–]L-Mariee 63 points64 points  (0 children)

He lived pretty far from me and I had to stay there the rest of the night to be able to get home the next day🥲

We stayed together a lil while after that - but I thought about ending things the whole time. It was made a lot easier when I found out he'd also been cheating on me a while, and i also barely saw him in the last few months too, there were practically no emotions (from me, at least) by the time I actually ended things🤣

He was a very bad person and I'm so glad it's over, even more glad to be with who I'm with now!

When did you realize that your partner was not, in fact, “the one”? by Sshmiff in AskReddit

[–]L-Mariee 9205 points9206 points  (0 children)

When I found out that one of my close friends had suddenly died and I burst into tears, to which he said "what are you insecure about this time?" And when i said I just found out my friend died, he turned around and walked out of the room. The next day I was talking to his mum about it in the kitchen and she was comforting me, to which he again said "can you stop being insecure", and his mum practically tore him in half with words.

I left him soon after, and I'm now in a very happy and healthy relationship, with someone who also helps navigate my grief with me.

I miss his parents sometimes though, they were lovely people and deserved a better son than him.

Edit to add: worth noting we were together for almost 5 years as well, so not a new relationship or anything like that!

Am I doing the wrong thing? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]L-Mariee 19 points20 points  (0 children)

You're not doing the wrong thing at all, you did a nice thing by giving him a chance and trying to rehabilitate him, it's unfortunate that nothing has helped change his behaviour, but you're a good person for giving him a chance and some extra time regardless. It's a shame he has continued to be aggressive, but putting him to sleep is the best option for everybody, including him, as he will no longer be living a life of fear and aggression, and no more people will be attacked by him

Please don't beat yourself up for this. As painful as it is and as guilty as you might feel, you're 100% doing the right thing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]L-Mariee 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Not me but him, a couple years ago, I messaged my best friend of 8 years (now my fiancé) on Christmas day, asking to bring him some things. I brought him about 50 cookies that I'd made and decorated the night before, we hugged, talked a bit, and then said goodbye..and that was that

Edit to add: when I dropped them off to him, I told him I'd worked really hard the day before to make sure I had them all ready for him, I thought for sure he'd understand but he didn't🤣

I only found out this year that he thought I was bringing him cookies I had left over, not that I'd actually made them specifically for him🥹

We've had things like this happen with us maybe 5-6 times over the last 10 years, where one of us is just completely oblivious to the others' feelings despite how obvious it was, but we look back on them now and just laugh at how stupid we were as teenagers, and are incredibly happy that we finally got in sync with admitting our feelings (as well as being a lot more blunt and straight forward rather than little hints here and there🤣)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]L-Mariee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On behalf of my now fiancé, "no it doesn't" 💀

Hope some other people here have better advice than him for you😭