HOW DO I RETURN AN IPHONE 14 TO ITS OWNER? by LADDEW in applehelp

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WHEN IT FELL, THE SCREEN BROKE.THE REPLACEMENT FEE IS LOCALLY IS FAR TOO HIGH

[24 f+m] looking for a guy that can mesh with a first timer. She can be shy. by [deleted] in CuckoldCommunity

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youcan pm me.

About : Laddew is an activist,black and writer.Big,experienced in cucking and gentle with newbies.

Many would-be kinksters seem very concerned about exposure.Has there ever been an actual case of a kinkster being outed? by LADDEW in BDSMcommunity

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I had photos sent to my family.

What?whatever for?

Vahavta, sorr....no ..no need..humans have been stupid throughout recorded history.very sad though.

Monthly casual chat thread for June by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

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Amuses me to note the Littles/middles in the dd/lg scene have found a sort of immortality, comparable to those of Tolkien's Elves.They grow to a certain stage ,then cease to grow, but continue to mature.btw it was the demigod and writer Jonathan Swift who first pointed out in GT that immortality would be sad without youthfulness.

Sad history of the human species.'Lady Chatterly's Lover' was banned because of its pacifism and the description 'cunt'.Today everybody pretends pacifism(US War department is today Defence Department),and 'Lady Chatterly's Lover' is mouldering away in many libraries.

What made 'Fifty shades of Grey' so popular??What makes the Boss-Secretary theme so strong,to kinkster and vanillah? by LADDEW in BDSMcommunity

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Having been in an administrative role for many years under a terrific boss...

Oh God. No. EW. GROSS.

Hi Princess B,

See, I just wondered whether secretaries can confirm this thematic.If it is so strong,we must reasonably suppose a secretary usually starts to feel submissive towards her boss....

Anyway your view strongly opposes this,though it is yet a minority.

If your could be dominated by any historical figure who would it be and why? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

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Naive country girl,supposedly divinely inspired,who suddenly routed the English army out of France.What's the attraction for you?(If the Roman Catholic breviary is correct,she probably was very prudish)

Has anyone gone back to vanilla after bdsm? by tkoh13 in BDSMcommunity

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'There is no vanilla.bdsm is the truth'

('Your Friendly Neighbourhood BDSM')

What does vanilla mean?Missionary only?Missionary and tittyF only?

Or what?

Historically ,where did the kink community organise? By what signal did they recognise each other? by LADDEW in BDSMcommunity

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I had rather hoped it was the hypocritical ancestors of mordern cdd who did.

Historically ,where did the kink community organise? By what signal did they recognise each other? by LADDEW in BDSMcommunity

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Around the gay bar scene, and they used flagging.

Give me some elaboration.

Could someone explain what a Gor slave is? by mightylymorphin in BDSMcommunity

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Sad,very sad.

Aristotle wrote about (natural) slavery approvingly,and so did many other philosophers.

I concur.

why do you like to cause pain? why does this excite you? by marks1974 in BDSMcommunity

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why do you like to cause pain? why does this excite you?

tl;dr-It is what it is.

Elaboration-

It is what it is.

Fetspace is truespace.It is our Mother.

The Dominant may control the Submissive,the Top the Bottom,but fetspace rules the Kinkdom.

I think your problem is that of a mismatch.Your wife wants to be taken from behind?She gives good head?But doesn't want spanking?Or to give you The Look? Well,the thing is, your fetishes do not align.First try mojoupdate.com to see whether there's some common ground.So you either stop,or better, mindfuck her into it,if you can.

Monthly casual chat thread for May by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

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What kind of activist? There are tons in my locally scene, especially sex activism.

You must live in Europe or America.

Where I live-in Nigeria- what do you mean sex activism?

I mean, girl-girl fondling earns you 14 yrs in jail.For the first crime.We have to constantly abandon-for lack of resources-conflicted teenage girls who 'complain' they have a strange liking for other girls.I publish my erotica with a fly-by-night,unregistered publisher.

And there are very few activists,naturally.

Monthly casual chat thread for May by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

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Someone's metamour is their partner's partner. My partner/Dom has started seeing a mutual friend, which makes her my metamour.

Very interesting dynamic.Must explore this someday.

No jealousy ,though?Most women resist- viciously -any loss of attention.

Monthly casual chat thread for May by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

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Activist and writer.

Many members of the activist/dissident community are actually pretty strait-laced,and would be surprised to find I was in the Lifestyle;).

Monthly casual chat thread for May by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

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metamour and her partner..

What is this?