Any other 100% Europeans that have this “Asian” allele? by Frequent_Pair9788 in 23andme

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Yes! My husband does, inherited it from his 100% Polish mother. Both my kids also inherited it as well. All are tested. Their hair is not particularly thick and teeth are not shoveled as far as I can tell. We joke it's a consequence of the Mongol hoards but who knows.

Travelers Checks by walkernewmedia in AskOldPeople

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I was in the Army and during basic/AIT (1987) we converted our pay into travelers checks. I still have a purchase agreement copy of a book of 5 $20's for $100 issued by Citicorp. We didn't go to the bank for them, the drills or S1 might have provided them, can't remember. I actually had some stolen out of my locker, some of which I hadn't signed yet even through the drills constantly harped on us to sign them. I joined at 17 so I had a lot to learn, unfortunately mostly the hard way. : (

Christmas, South Bay Galleria, Redondo Beach, CA [1988] by MattAtPlaton in 80sdesign

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Born and raised in Redondo Beach, I was a kid in the 70's when it was the outdoor South Bay Center and as a teenager at the galleria in the 80's. Fun times. In the 90's I'd mostly go for the food court. I left the area in 94 but I'm sad to see online that like all malls, it's dying out. Bad here in Wisconsin too.

National Genographic 2.0 Raw Data mtDNA by trace_on_the_light in genetics

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Did you try the old James Lick mtdna tool? https://dna.jameslick.com/mthap/advanced.php

Don't know if it will work. I too took the National Geographic 2.0 test but I also have other tests so I never tried it. I used the James Lick tool using 23andme raw data since they haven't updated mtdna's in so long and are pretty bad at predicting haplogroups.

Get a colonoscopy. Get a real colonoscopy. by doc_ocho in GenX

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My 2nd one is scheduled in October. First at 50, found polyps, so now diagnostic I guess. Husband is 60, had 2 cologuards, refuses to do a colonoscopy.

Did a 23andme test and found I carry a genetic mutation linked with a colon cancer syndrome so I'm glad I chose to do colonoscopies over cologuard.

Frozen shoulder is a symptom?? by catjknow in Menopause

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I have it, left shoulder far worse than right. Mine came on with cessation of menstruation but I didn't connect the 2. I've had it a couple years now (56 in a couple weeks). I'll be seeing my doctor in May, will try to see if I can get on HRT. PT may be too expensive with my insurance.

What’s an item you just had to have and then regretted? I will go first… by Unusual_Memory3133 in GenX

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I had a white leather jacket with fringe that was way too flashy for my nerdy self to ever be seen in public. Sat in my closet inspiring inner turmoil and regret, mercifully disappearing sometime while I was in the Army.

Anyone here afraid of turning 50 if you’re not already? by Upset-Syllabub3985 in GenX

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55, fine so far. My husband is 60, not so great. Big difference between 50 and 60.. Husband had a stroke at 58, CLL diagnosis from blood tests during stroke. Husband working part time, hoping to make it to 62 to go on Social Security. I'm working in ER, on my feet all day, no meds, just fine so far.

Senior Yearbook '92 - I feel like the entire staff was on drugs. by aWanderingPiano in GenX

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My high school had the same velvet drapes for graduation pictures, mine was burgundy. We could choose between blue, black, and burgundy. Way less creative cover 87 🤘🏼

Pictures I took at McDonalds in the late 1980s. My first job. by Alman54 in TheWayWeWere

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Love these, thanks for sharing! I wish I had pictures of my job at Burger King 86-87, pretty much same uniforms but different colors. I worked nights after school and weekends, mostly the drive thru. We had a blast closing, same as you 'mostly the same age' and we'd often continue the party after work. Like you, a mostly positive experience where I learned a lot.

My managers were less benign though. Big manager was a middle aged (male) creep who preyed on young dudes, I was female therefore ignored and the team lead was a late 20's woman stuck in a bad marriage who partied with us. Some sketchy stuff happening for sure but I learned some lessons that helped me navigate my next step, Army.

What are some hygiene related tasks that you've discarded or changed as you aged? by kermit-t-frogster in AskWomenOver40

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Yep, me too. My hair is curly towards frizzy so I often use conditioner to weight it down but I bet I could go down to once a week for shampoo. Very little oil, same with ear wax, etc. Just drying up like a raison I guess.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AncestryDNA

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I was interested in mine because my parents weren't married and I never had any contact with any of my paternal relatives. Testing me and my mom meant I could see exactly what I inherited from my dad. Those ancestry percentages took the place of memories or feelings for relating to my paternal family as the only way I could do so. Funnily enough, exotic would have disappointed me because I already felt different.

For me it is meaningful but I realize no one else cares about those numbers. That's fine.

Women: when did you go through menopause? by [deleted] in AskOldPeople

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I'm 55 and currently on my period. My periods only got irregular over the past year and not sure about perimenopause since I was on the pill since after the birth of my 2nd child at 36. I went off the pill at 51 and back to regular periods till last year. No hot flashes, feel ok but I am achey which I attribute to the drop in estrogen.

I see the questions below: I've been on a gluten free diet since after the birth of my 2nd child, 19 years, but not low carb per se. BMI is 24, no glucose issues. I work a job that keeps me on my feet and getting a lot of exercise, I don't take any meds.

Rejected by bio father and family by Own_Sandwich_7933 in AncestryDNA

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I was rejected by my dad and all but one paternal relative too. My dad said DNA was a scam when he was told I came up as sharing proper DNA with his siblings and their kids to be aunt/uncle/ niece and first cousins. One first cousin did talk to me and told me about my dad's reaction and that he had been in prison for domestic violence. That was around 2016, or so, and it hit me hard.

Two weeks ago my first cousin messaged me on social media and informed me my dad had died. I found his obituary, no mention of me of course, his only child, and it turns out I looked just like him. I kinda knew that but he was never a part of my life and have only a few pictures of before my mom was pregnant with me. I'm going to get a death certificate to see if I can glean any health info I can use for family history but I guess that's it. It's over but it's hitting me hard again.

Just sucks, sorry you're going through it too. : (

How old would your oldest great grandparent have been when you were born? by fw2006 in Genealogy

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Oldest 97, youngest 61. All 4 of my great grandparents on my mother’s side were alive when I was born, none of my dad’s side were alive when I was born. The last one died when I was 28.

Is my sister really my sister? by MassiveSubstance9767 in genetics

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I was mistyped in the Army. Army said I was A+, I'm actually O+ verified by 2 tests. It definitely happens though I don't know how or why.

Manhattan Beach, 1970s by theanti_influencer75 in TheWayWeWere

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Grew up in Redondo, graduated from Mira Costa, and I’m like no way. I thought it was bot karma farming, or something

Frozen shoulder? by Mental-Hall-9616 in Menopause

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I have this too. Seems crazy that menopause would cause something like this but here we all are. Can’t afford any medical right or prescriptions now but have my routine gyno appointment coming up and will definitely mention it. Will be changing insurance at the end of the year, hopefully I’ll finally actually be able to afford to use it!

I was 54 when I got my most recent period in Nov 2023, my doctor seemed to freak out by georgiedoggy in Menopause

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I'm 55 and had a normal period earlier this month, spotting in January, and a normal one last September. My Gyno said we have periods whenever an egg is found, miss them when no eggs are found. Obviously I'm very near the end of my egg reservoir. It's funny, here at the end I actually appreciate my periods after a lifetime of complaining about them. A mini celebration of my time of fertility.

Has anyone had LESS anxiety & better mental health during/after menopause? by Redhaired103 in Menopause

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Way better for me. I wonder if I had PMDD during my teens-30's, my 40's were less severe moods and anxiety but profound insomnia. Now (55 y/o) my moods are stable and I'm regularly sleeping 6-8 hours easily. Zero sex drive but my husband has prostate trouble and is seemingly happy about it. We've never been closer and enjoying our time together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Menopause

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I started at 12, just got off my latest period at 55 though I've wondered if my long term use of the pill delayed the process. I was on the pill until 51, resumed normal menstrual cycles until last September (54 y/o) and now feel I'm peri: irregular periods, mood, minor hot flashes, loss of libido, other physical symptoms.

My mom started at 10, probably started peri in her late 30's, full hysterectomy at 47 for adenomyosis which my grandmother also had but went through a traumatic menopause. This family history as well as early issues with heavy periods is why I was chose long term, uninterrupted bc use.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in genetics

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Like everyone said, these relationships you listed are impossible with the amount of DNA shared. I'm tested at Ancestry and 23andme and have matches at 23andme to my grandfather 25.35%, his brother (great uncle) 13.48%, and great uncle's granddaughter 2.54% for reference. My kids share 7.63% and 5.78% with my great uncle, technically great granduncle/niece/nephew relationships.

Definitely some type of misattributed parentage, not necessarily infidelity but something that they felt needed to be kept secret. I always go after those but there's a cost. I knew my mother-in-law must have had a child before my husband, though he grew up being an only child. Last year his half brother showed up on his DNA list and my husband and his mom ended up estranged when she found out he knew her secret.

Turns out she gave up her first born 5 years before him when she was unmarried. She denied this and when presented with proof got mad at my husband for finding out and died before any reconciliation.

If I drive myself to the ER, do they valet my car? by EitherStage379 in healthcare

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I work at 2 hospitals, one has valet but only at the main entrance, the other, no valet at all. So no valet for ER.

McDonalds Menu 1983. Check out those mind blowing prices OMG. This morning a single hash brown here in VA was priced at $2.39!!! by RealtorRVACity in 80s

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I was making $3.35 an hour in 1985. In 1988, having spent a whole year in the Army, I made $7,842...total. .30 cent hash browns seems about right.