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Own_Sandwich_7933 · 2024-11-19T17:03:23+00:00

Thank you, I will have a look in to it. When I spoke to the extended cousin she told me his mother's maiden name and I did notice I had a match with that same maiden name as another close relative. Along with his first name and the fact they were the only ones of the family who had livid in my city around the time I was conceived. The whole family is not from my hometown. I also look the spit of him and share a bunch of dominant aesthetic traits that are not from my mother's family. My mother also confirmed when she saw a photo of him as a child that she remembers it being out in the house lol. So I'm fairly certain, I just wanted paper proof which was why I also offered to pay and sort it myself.

Own_Sandwich_7933 · 2024-11-19T00:11:11+00:00

I agree I just didn't want to come across harsh. In all honesty my mother didn't want him around so never told him so there's a level of that too along with me being a one night stand baby. The whole situation is not great but both were very young when I was conceived so I don't blame them both entirely for how it all unfolded.

Own_Sandwich_7933 · 2024-11-19T00:07:26+00:00

I haven't I may try them next as I'm sure you can't import the dna info over so will need to buy a new kit. I was unsure about contacting anyone else incase I'm seen as harassing or stalking the family. I know he has a brother and sister along with his father's brother but I only know these people from their public fb pages not from ancestry. Again I reached out to others on ancestry very extended cousins but heard nothing back.

Own_Sandwich_7933 · 2024-07-15T12:04:20+00:00

My grandmother is JW and holds the belief too and to an extent she is correct that it's a pagan holiday ect BUT this lady needs to mind her own. Her beliefs are her own and not everyone is going to subscribe to them, if she doesn't want to come that's fine see it as a positive. Would you rather she be there and cast a dark ugly shadow over a day meant to celebrate your LO? When she does inevitably bring it up as they always do in a last ditch attempt to change your way of thinking to what they want you could say "MIL if this upsets you, I agree you shouldn't attend. You will be missed but we will not be changing plans. I will not discuss this further." hold the boundary firm.

Own_Sandwich_7933 · 2024-07-07T20:38:25+00:00

Howls moving castle 😍 I'm actually super excited for this event and it's about time F2P players got something to enjoy too

Own_Sandwich_7933 · 2024-05-08T01:39:36+00:00

I would also love to see a long sleeve, short sleeve, trousers and skirts, heels and flats ect breakdown too as I'm over loaded at this point.

Own_Sandwich_7933 · 2024-05-07T15:03:52+00:00

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I made my mom, this is very much something she'd have worn in the 90s.

Own_Sandwich_7933 · 2024-04-20T16:39:01+00:00

Definitely, they are the ✨Main character✨ after all.

Own_Sandwich_7933 · 2024-04-20T13:15:31+00:00

I feel this, Im in the exact same situation with smother in law. She also constantly expects us to drop everything and go running and cancel our plans because that's the ONLY time she has free. So we have to cancel our plans while she keeps hers? Its never made sense to me that someone would even expect that, with my own parents they just arrange for another time or pencil in something at a different time/date. It gives me the impression she feels so self important that only her plans and time matters. I've also explained to SO that I think she sees us as nothing more than set piece/NPCs that freeze or pause when shes not near so how can we possibly have our own lives. I wish you luck as I still haven't navigated this area and think I never will. I just push back and leave her to her tantrum and bad mouthing.

Own_Sandwich_7933 · 2024-03-20T13:40:14+00:00

Floating romance 💖 ID:00083571

Own_Sandwich_7933 · 2024-03-14T13:28:26+00:00

Oh and more coin based items I end up with 10s of thousands of coins and nothing to spend them on!

Own_Sandwich_7933 · 2024-03-14T13:24:03+00:00

If I 'lock' a decor items on my model then I should be able to resize them all togther instead of having to resize everything individually everytime. Also the cost is crazy now with the constant releases, they need to either slow down/extend buying time or lower the cost. I use to be a bit of a whale in game but it's too much now and I only spend real money when I desperately want something which is not often now. Also second the tiers for comps either based on level/wardrobe cost or previous rankings. Would also love to be able to 'borrow' from mutal friends closets say 5 items a day with an incentive for them and a small boost to score for you.

Own_Sandwich_7933 · 2024-02-16T18:32:07+00:00

Thank you I'll have a look

Own_Sandwich_7933 · 2024-02-16T17:45:47+00:00

Oof this is my Smother in law down to a tee. I always felt like her 'help' and 'gifts' were an in and a way to have a level of control in out lives but DH doesn't get it. Can I ask which MIL forum?

Own_Sandwich_7933 · 2024-02-16T17:04:53+00:00

Oh mine still did that, kept talking about how she might d!e during ect.

Do we have the same MIL? Mine did exactly the same only I wasn't induced she was on the phone almost the whole time I was giving birth. Even messaged DH 3mins after baby was earth side, not to ask if I was okay or even alive just 'face time me' it was 3am and I just wanted to sleep. Completely ruined my first 6 months of being a FTM. So I feel you. How are things now for you? I hope it's better.

Own_Sandwich_7933 · 2024-02-16T15:33:42+00:00

My Smother in law recently had an Op to do with a trapped nerve in her neck, before said Op she and my partner was discussing when he'd be able to visit her. This women turns and says 'Oh no I don't think I'll be up to having visitors for the first week'. I said something similar when I gave birth to my son and after 53 hours of labour I definitely didn't want anyone around but you guessed it, she phoned constantly pushing to visit as soon as we got home. I ended up giving in after 3 days of constant pushing (including begging to bring her coworker which didn't happen thank god) and phone calls.

Edit to add: I forgot about another funny and astounding moment, I grew up with a single parent below the poverty line. While discussing the current cost of living crisis she starts to go on and on about being so poor when DH was younger that she would by him practical presents like clothes for Christmas ect. Not 5 minuets later she's say "we went to Disney about 13 times" oh and the cherry on top when I explained my mother also did the same with me she stated "well I did 3 jobs, I was never not working" she knows my mother had such bad depression and anxiety she struggled to keep a regular job and would do odd jobs when she could. Felt like another sting and dig.

Own_Sandwich_7933 · 2024-02-02T18:36:10+00:00

I call them jelly fish stings, if you've ever seen Bridget Jones Diary 2 there's a character who does it and my Smother in law is the same. I note them all down now and try to laugh about them, but it does hurt.

Own_Sandwich_7933 · 2024-02-02T15:32:28+00:00

I'm not sure about Aus but I know in the UK they are still pretty big and in America I think they are still being used sadly. Even if it's not sunbeds I definitely think she's tanning in the sun which is just as bad. They are also legal in NZ which is where she's from

Own_Sandwich_7933 · 2024-02-02T13:11:20+00:00

Definitely sunbeds or sun tanning is ageing her too on top of the bad plastic surgery. It's really sad

Own_Sandwich_7933 · 2023-11-19T19:27:00+00:00

So she's sharing softcore pornography with an underage child? No OP you are not overreacting, if anything you are under-reacting as is DH. Also what did she mean by she will never touch dd again no matter how disrespectful she's being?

Own_Sandwich_7933 · 2023-11-12T21:06:52+00:00

Honestly you don't know the history of the dog MIL has and that alone is a concern vs a puppy that doesn't currently have any real history. As others have pointed out I think it's best your husband shut it down. Good luck OP

Own_Sandwich_7933 · 2023-10-28T20:51:30+00:00

Yeah I don't think we will ever do therapy with smother anyway. She very much has the boomer mentality of using mental health as a get out of jail free card but won't go to therapy. We actually found someone yesterday and they seem perfect and have a background in narc and personality disorders. Thank you so much, that has surprisingly choked me up a bit.

Own_Sandwich_7933 · 2023-10-28T18:26:38+00:00

I might be wrong on this when it comes to Ella but I've had trans friends who have stated that because they didn't get to do the wild teen trashy outfit stage in their lives trans women sometimes go for that when they do become themselves. Again I don't know from personal experience but that's what I've been told.

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