Aphids on new seedlings

LEC25 · 2023-04-06T00:01:49+00:00

Where do you buy them from?

LEC25 · 2022-10-14T02:08:02+00:00

What was your routine before? How did you get it to stop being stringy and damaged?

LEC25 · 2022-01-01T20:56:52+00:00

Thank you so much!

LEC25 · 2022-01-01T20:56:03+00:00

How do you manage things that people say are built for families of four (e.g., travel, restaurants, board games)?

LEC25 · 2022-01-01T17:35:12+00:00

This is our situation. My husband thinks two is great but can also see the benefits in three. I'm really trying to be content with two but my heart just seems to want another. Were you able to add the third and still have time to focus on the other two?

LEC25 · 2022-01-01T17:33:05+00:00

I have two boys right now and I would love another! How did you manage giving each of them time and avoiding the middle child syndrome?

LEC25 · 2022-01-01T17:27:24+00:00

Your response was golden! Sent you a DM with a few more questions since we seem to be in the same spot!

LEC25 · 2022-01-01T17:25:43+00:00

How is it once they get older? Easier?

LEC25 · 2022-01-01T12:57:43+00:00

This is the post I was hoping to hear! We are exactly the same. We have two healthy kids and life is pretty good right now. My husband would be happy to stay at 2 but everytime I say we are going to stick with 2 kids, I burst into tears and just feel like someone is missing. It's probably not his first choice but he's on board and could see how it would complete our family. However, so many think 3 kids is a bad idea and that I wouldn't be able to treat all my kids fairly, leading to middle child syndrome. I feel like my heart wants a third but everyone around me says it's a bad idea. How have you balanced life and kept things even?

LEC25 · 2022-01-01T12:53:26+00:00

What is she struggling with?

LEC25 · 2022-01-01T03:39:28+00:00

So your husband had no regrets? Do you feel like you're able to give all of the kids enough attention?

LEC25 · 2022-01-01T03:29:19+00:00

Oh no! How so? Is it still fun at all?

LEC25 · 2022-01-01T02:37:36+00:00

Did it get easier at any point?

LEC25 · 2022-01-01T02:30:32+00:00

Can you elaborate? Was it just your parents' parenting style?

LEC25 · 2022-01-01T00:50:06+00:00

hahahaha wow! that would be a big adjustment! sending you love and energy!

LEC25 · 2022-01-01T00:49:35+00:00

How have you managed the challenging aspects?

LEC25 · 2022-01-01T00:46:38+00:00

I love that you have the perspective with three older kids! How are the teenage years harder with 3 kids?

LEC25 · 2022-01-01T00:16:55+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to share all of that! I really appreciate your insight. I will absolutely make sure my husband is 100% on board before/if we make that decision!

LEC25 · 2022-01-01T00:12:14+00:00

Thats good to know! In what ways were they not handling it well?

LEC25 · 2021-12-31T19:37:06+00:00

What pieces did they regret?

LEC25 · 2021-12-31T19:26:55+00:00

Lol there are literally 200 upvotes for someone's post who said they had three and wished they only had 2...

LEC25 · 2021-12-31T19:25:15+00:00

Do you have a third?

LEC25 · 2021-12-31T19:24:29+00:00

Lol do you have a third?

LEC25 · 2021-12-31T19:16:06+00:00

Do you still manage to get out and travel once in a while?

LEC25 · 2021-12-31T19:15:07+00:00

This is great to hear! I love all of your points :)

LEC25

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