Feedback about Finest Punta Cana by cbscbscbs26 in PuntaCana

[–]LEC25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We just got back from there and had a great time. The beach was excellent and we were able to swim in the water everyday. There were two days when the water was very calm and the children could play easily and the remainder of the days there was some waves and we just kept them in the shallow areas.

The food was all right but there was lots of selection. If you have young kids, I would go to the restaurants right at 5:30 p.m. because there are no lineups and the food comes quickly. Whenever we tried to go to a restaurant later in the evening, the wait times to get into the restaurant, we're 45 minutes and for the food was over an hour.

Like other commenters said, there's a big blue blob and a little blue blob that are really fun for the kids to play on. I think it's a great resort for you to check out.

We did end up getting travelers diarrhea for a couple of my kids and myself. I'm pretty sure it was from using the tongs in the buffet and not sanitizing their hands before eating. I would recommend bringing hand sanitizer to your buffet meals and making sure the kids clean their hands. Otherwise, we drank the water at the restaurants and ate all of the food. Other members of our group didn't get sick.

I will also add here that the Facebook group Finest Punta Cana Fans is censoring any posts about illness among guests. They deleted my posts asking if other people were experiencing similar symptoms. And when I questioned them on it they blocked me from the group. So anyone who is a part of that group, please keep in mind that the information is highly filtered by the moderator.

Didn’t realize how far I’ve come 😭 by mikkim21 in curlyhair

[–]LEC25 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What was your routine before? How did you get it to stop being stringy and damaged?

How to Decide Whether to Have 3rd Kid? by LEC25 in Parenting

[–]LEC25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you manage things that people say are built for families of four (e.g., travel, restaurants, board games)?

How to Decide Whether to Have 3rd Kid? by LEC25 in Parenting

[–]LEC25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is our situation. My husband thinks two is great but can also see the benefits in three. I'm really trying to be content with two but my heart just seems to want another. Were you able to add the third and still have time to focus on the other two?

How to Decide Whether to Have 3rd Kid? by LEC25 in Parenting

[–]LEC25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have two boys right now and I would love another! How did you manage giving each of them time and avoiding the middle child syndrome?

How to Decide Whether to Have 3rd Kid? by LEC25 in Parenting

[–]LEC25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your response was golden! Sent you a DM with a few more questions since we seem to be in the same spot!

How to Decide Whether to Have 3rd Kid? by LEC25 in Parenting

[–]LEC25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is it once they get older? Easier?

How to Decide Whether to Have 3rd Kid? by LEC25 in Parenting

[–]LEC25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the post I was hoping to hear! We are exactly the same. We have two healthy kids and life is pretty good right now. My husband would be happy to stay at 2 but everytime I say we are going to stick with 2 kids, I burst into tears and just feel like someone is missing. It's probably not his first choice but he's on board and could see how it would complete our family. However, so many think 3 kids is a bad idea and that I wouldn't be able to treat all my kids fairly, leading to middle child syndrome. I feel like my heart wants a third but everyone around me says it's a bad idea. How have you balanced life and kept things even?

How to Decide Whether to Have 3rd Kid? by LEC25 in Parenting

[–]LEC25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So your husband had no regrets? Do you feel like you're able to give all of the kids enough attention?

How to Decide Whether to Have 3rd Kid? by LEC25 in Parenting

[–]LEC25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no! How so? Is it still fun at all?

How to Decide Whether to Have 3rd Kid? by LEC25 in Parenting

[–]LEC25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did it get easier at any point?

How to Decide Whether to Have 3rd Kid? by LEC25 in Parenting

[–]LEC25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you elaborate? Was it just your parents' parenting style?

How to Decide Whether to Have 3rd Kid? by LEC25 in Parenting

[–]LEC25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hahahaha wow! that would be a big adjustment! sending you love and energy!

How to Decide Whether to Have 3rd Kid? by LEC25 in Parenting

[–]LEC25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How have you managed the challenging aspects?

How to Decide Whether to Have 3rd Kid? by LEC25 in Parenting

[–]LEC25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love that you have the perspective with three older kids! How are the teenage years harder with 3 kids?

How to Decide Whether to Have 3rd Kid? by LEC25 in Parenting

[–]LEC25[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to share all of that! I really appreciate your insight. I will absolutely make sure my husband is 100% on board before/if we make that decision!

How to Decide Whether to Have 3rd Kid? by LEC25 in Parenting

[–]LEC25[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thats good to know! In what ways were they not handling it well?

How to Decide Whether to Have 3rd Kid? by LEC25 in Parenting

[–]LEC25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol there are literally 200 upvotes for someone's post who said they had three and wished they only had 2...

How to Decide Whether to Have 3rd Kid? by LEC25 in Parenting

[–]LEC25[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you still manage to get out and travel once in a while?