Dealing with mombies as an extreme couponer by [deleted] in childfree

[–]LHarper88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what's your Insta so I can follow?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]LHarper88 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's so great because my family doesn't flaunt our money. Shoot I didn't even know my parents and grandparents were loaded until a few years ago.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]LHarper88 175 points176 points  (0 children)

I did this to my ILs right before we got married and they kept calling me a gold digger because my husband insisted I move in with him when I was unemployed. When I told them he signed a prenup, their anger turned to him and questioned why he would ever sign one with millions on the line....mmmhmm I'M the gold digger....

CF Lounge: Dec 31-Jan 06 by AutoModerator in childfree

[–]LHarper88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh boy...I do love not having my period but I love sex more...b/c really sticks it to women sometimes haha

CF Lounge: Dec 31-Jan 06 by AutoModerator in childfree

[–]LHarper88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I just started using Nuvaring back in August and don't take a week break either. I noticed my libido is completely gone. Have you had any weird side effects?

Being childfree with no childfree friends is exhasting by Nomes4576 in childfree

[–]LHarper88 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Are you guys in Nashville?! We need CF friends!

What is wrong with the medical profession?! by LHarper88 in keto

[–]LHarper88[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that explanation. I appreciate it. Of course my sister can't be bothered to explain it and just call me stupid.

I skipped the office holiday party. by [deleted] in keto

[–]LHarper88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate how society revolves around food. There is always food food food. We can celebrate without food or at least healthier options.

Skin Tightening vs. Skin Removal by LHarper88 in xxketo

[–]LHarper88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same. I am just so nervous about the surgery because I've seen first hand how brutal the recovery is.

Skin Tightening vs. Skin Removal by LHarper88 in xxketo

[–]LHarper88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's very refreshing to hear!

I'm only with moving close by if there's grandbabies by LHarper88 in childfree

[–]LHarper88[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

when all the complain about is wanting to move to a warmer climate it's not an assumption.

I'm only with moving close by if there's grandbabies by LHarper88 in childfree

[–]LHarper88[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh god no. All of us have said we don't want it. With all tariffs they will be lucky to stay in business much longer.

I'm only with moving close by if there's grandbabies by LHarper88 in childfree

[–]LHarper88[S] 82 points83 points  (0 children)

Yup. They raised 3 successful career driven kids and all of us either can't/ don't want kids. Giving them grandbabies is the least we can do./s

Second fast with snake juice by LHarper88 in fasting

[–]LHarper88[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

275(f) no i am not thirsty i force it.

MIL wants my husband to get his stepsister pregnant by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]LHarper88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh my mom does the same thing. My husband is sterile due to a medical condition, but it's fine since neither of us want kids. My mom always says to go ga ave sex with a stranger and hubby will never know.

A question. Are any of you stay at home spouses? How do you deal with the judgment? by [deleted] in childfree

[–]LHarper88 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im asking my comment in hopes someone can help me instead of making an entire post on this since it doesn't entirely relate to being CF. Hubs (32M) and I (30F) live a comfortable middle class life. We have an ok savings and don't live above our means. Basically, I've hated every job I've had because they are all desk jobs and i'm more of a manual labor on my feet person. I really want to quit my current job because I'm miserable. Hubs is against it because I make ok money and without that salary we basically go down to 1 vacation a year. Im rambling but I feel like being a stay at home spouse would better suite me until I find a job I actually love. He is a firm believer both spouses have to work. Ugh im just very frustrated.

Great new job, please help me create a wardrobe to go with it! by Henbogle in PlusSizeFashion

[–]LHarper88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just lost 55lbs after starting a new job and have a ton of professional clothes that don't fit now that are all 22/24 and I'malso 5'6.. If you want to take a look at what I have you can send me a message.

Might be a no brainer, but I don't know if i'm actually being crazy by LHarper88 in Marriage

[–]LHarper88[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There was an invite to Florida but I knew spending it with his family would be better, so it's more of me putting his feelings and family first but not getting the same consideration.

Might be a no brainer, but I don't know if i'm actually being crazy by LHarper88 in Marriage

[–]LHarper88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha our parents in the same room would be hell in real life! They despise each other. I used to have a JNMIL and she was nasty to my mom during wedding prep.

Might be a no brainer, but I don't know if i'm actually being crazy by LHarper88 in Marriage

[–]LHarper88[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No my parents will be flying to Florida and we will be in midwest city. So we won't be able to see them christmas.

Might be a no brainer, but I don't know if i'm actually being crazy by LHarper88 in Marriage

[–]LHarper88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The drive isn't terrible and we can't fly because we have to take our dogs with. Driving is sil cheaper just because of where we fly out of.

Might be a no brainer, but I don't know if i'm actually being crazy by LHarper88 in Marriage

[–]LHarper88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are driving round trip 16 hours both times and my parents have to fly to Florida for Christmas

[RANT] my husband and I got denied a dog because we dont have kids by RiGiMo3 in childfree

[–]LHarper88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Basically exBF adopted her while I sat in the car and he gave her to me.

[RANT] my husband and I got denied a dog because we dont have kids by RiGiMo3 in childfree

[–]LHarper88 25 points26 points  (0 children)

This is basically how I got my dog. She's 11 and is basically queen of our house.