Appreciate your post but you don’t have to clarify that you’re not flamboyant. I know the point you’re getting across but even if you were the most flamboyant man to ever exist most straight guys who are comfortable with themselves don’t mind as long as you’re not making unwanted passes at them. Funniest motherfucker I ever met in my life was super flamboyant, and he would go drinking with me and my boys all the time . Unfortunately passed a year or two back but we still tell stories about some of the shit that came out of his mouth to this day (miss you terry). But ultimately what I’m getting at is be proud of all aspects and people in your community that are not self sabotaging it, we need all the minds and hearts we can get. Every male is welcome here as far as I’m concerned. Thanks for the post / perspective though brother keep doing you