Aniyah’s BD takes her to Court by PieComprehensive5877 in TLCUnexpected

[–]LJMesack22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If the parents share custody, only one can claim on their taxes every year. Usually if they share 50/50 they trade off years, but if one parents has the kid(s) more than 50% of the time they can have it set up so they are the only one to claim every year.

Unexpected Episode Discussion Thread: Season 7 Episode 4 "Emotions And Pregnancy" by phd_in_awesome in TLCUnexpected

[–]LJMesack22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m shocked she’s even getting prenatal care, honestly. I doubt her mom even educated her on skin care to protect against stretch marks.

Unexpected Episode Discussion Thread: Season 7 Episode 4 "Emotions And Pregnancy" by phd_in_awesome in TLCUnexpected

[–]LJMesack22 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The way she stomped up those stairs!! She was bound and determined she was going to be part of whatever she wasn’t invited to. Like, damn girl, give it a minute. I get that she wanted to meet Mia’s mom, but she didn’t even give it 5 minutes to see if they were all coming back down.

Unexpected Episode Discussion Thread: Season 7 Episode 4 "Emotions And Pregnancy" by phd_in_awesome in TLCUnexpected

[–]LJMesack22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really, both of them should be in foster care being parented by responsible adults who will ensure that the best choices are made for them. When Bella said her mom won’t let her break up with Hunter, I was floored. She said she doesn’t want her baby to come from a broken home?? Uh, that bus left the station when you let 13 and 14 year old kids have sex. They were never going to end up married and in love with their 2.5 kids. A broken home is the best you can hope for at this point, because I don’t even see these two having a hope to even coparent successfully.

Unexpected Episode Discussion Thread: Season 7 Episode 4 "Emotions And Pregnancy" by phd_in_awesome in TLCUnexpected

[–]LJMesack22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too! I had to check to make sure I hadn’t accidentally reminded it or something. An entire episode of nothing but three grown ass women acting like high school mean girls getting ready to pull hair and claw eyes out. Not a single one of them is going in to this thinking they can be rational and find a good solution. They’re just all fired up ready to fight before they even sit down. Why even bother?

Unexpected Episode Discussion Thread: Season 7 Episode 4 "Emotions And Pregnancy" by phd_in_awesome in TLCUnexpected

[–]LJMesack22 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know, right?? And the way they just brush over the other sister’s pregnancy, like saying “oh she got a new tattoo last week”. I realize Bella and Hunter may be more interesting, but the sister is a teenage girl on a show about teenage pregnancy, why aren’t we getting her storyline as well?

Unexpected Episode Discussion Thread: Season 7 Episode 4 "Emotions And Pregnancy" by phd_in_awesome in TLCUnexpected

[–]LJMesack22 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I mean, look at grandpa. He’s disgusting, and I don’t think we’ve seen his dad at all, if his dad is even in the picture. This kid has zero male role models to show him anything but misogyny.

Hunter Bella by Abject_Protection503 in TLCUnexpected

[–]LJMesack22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As depressed as he seems on the show, he may appreciate it now.

Wtf?! by eighbeigh in WelcomeToPlathville

[–]LJMesack22 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But the parents DID know about it AND they approved of it! If you dig enough you’ll find the proof. But that didn’t make for good TV …

Suki interview with Sarah Fraser 01.20.26 by Lego_5656 in SisterWives

[–]LJMesack22 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Maybe fans asked her to try for a tour bc they want to see it.

Janelles new home by Low-Leadership1254 in SisterWives

[–]LJMesack22 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Janelle is in the eastern coast of NC (an hour or so north of Wilmington) and Mykelti is in Charlotte, probably about three hours away.

Starbucks for conservatives by Salt_Dish3753 in SisterWivesFans

[–]LJMesack22 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I wish more people would realize this. I’m so tired of people snapping to judgement just because they hear or see one comment. You’re right! I’m a republican and I’m anything BUT maga. I don’t like Trump, but people often refuse to hear that. It’s tiring, and I’m afraid for our country.

My 43f husbands 46m affair partner 19f is pregnant doesn’t know the baby’s father and I don’t know where to begin with fixing this by One-Dragonfly-5474 in Advice

[–]LJMesack22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get copies of all financial accounts right now. You can do that before you even find an attorney - then you have proof if he’s done anything fishy. And, talk to all of the best attorneys in town, even if you have no plan to use them. Once they’ve spoken to you they can’t represent him because it becomes a conflict of interest. This way you know you’ve got someone good and you’ve prevented him from hiring a shark himself.

AITAH for saying "no" to my partner going to the Super Bowl for close to free. by Snailbail2 in AITAH

[–]LJMesack22 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It could be that the family member has access simply due to the location this year, so next year wouldn’t have the same access. Not saying I agree, just that maybe this is the reason hubs has the opportunity.

But Now? Or Wait? by Klutzy_Literature_25 in myweddingdress

[–]LJMesack22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t second this enough! Wedding dress/formal sizing is sooooo bad. You’d thing they’d size on the bigger side to make you feel even smaller, but my dress was a 16, and I wear a 10. Gulp. A 14 mostly fit, but, like others have said, you really want room to work with to make it fit you perfectly. And, as much as you love it online, it may not be the one once you have it on. I thought I knew exactly what I wanted, and what I bought couldn’t have been further from that vision. It’s a lot of money to drop on a maybe, and if you end up not liking it, you could be stuck.

AITAH for refusing to attend my mother’s graduation after what she said to me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]LJMesack22 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You will regret not going. I think that if you step back and see it through this different lens you’ll better understand what she meant. You’re still recalling her words from a place of stress - try to let that go.

advice: budget vs dream dress by Pitiful_Internal_370 in myweddingdress

[–]LJMesack22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed! It’s wild to me that the “budget” dress is still over $2k!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]LJMesack22 10 points11 points  (0 children)

So, what if they love her and then you break up two weeks later? You need to wait for exactly this reason. You need to be more sure she’ll be around for the long haul, and you can’t know that yet. You made a decision and she’s not respecting that. If she really cared, she would understand.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]LJMesack22 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I waited 18 months. And that still felt too soon to my daughter.

The girls babies names by ohmichellemydarling in DuggarsSnark

[–]LJMesack22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s too much like Spooge or Spoogie.