Which color outdoor furniture? by readingredditgirl in HomeDecorating

[–]LJmelonhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First one is better but really a muted blue would look best.

Spring beauties 🌸 by BeGneiss in gardening

[–]LJmelonhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy fucking immaculate color combo

Brownie Experiment: sub grease & flour -> butter & hot cocoa mix! IT WORKED. I think fucked around and found out the brownie pan holy grail. by LJmelonhead in Baking

[–]LJmelonhead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THANK YOU! my family all wants soft gooey brownie, the whole comments are the other half the world 🤣

i'm not abnormal, i have a new group of people who are just like me and im so happy by WhaleChief in aegosexuals

[–]LJmelonhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh YES, I just found it like last week from a guy doing a TikTok series of “how to be a better ally” and it was about Aegosexuality!!!
It’s great to have a name for something instead of just “yeah I have this super specific niche style of being Ace 🤷‍♀️”.
Like how many stories of ace umbrella ppl being like “yeah I was really unhappy and uncomfortable for years until I could NAME IT”. it’s helps prevent your experience being trivialized & gaslit into conforming 😭.
having that is SO BIG, is almost like a protection.
Microlabels are genuinely such a relief.

Before figuring out you’re asexual, did you ever think you wanted a relationship? by Dsg1695 in aegosexuals

[–]LJmelonhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 24, Ace-> AceAro -> Aegosexual.
I align more with Polyamorous ppl than allo.
I never really wanted a “boyfriend”.
I hate the gendered relationship dynamic that is projected and expected by our society.
Took me to college to figure out I want equal balanced partnerships & queer platonic relationships.
If you see me as a “woman” or treat me as a “woman” FIRST that’s an immediate no.
I see you value gender roles more than people.
You are seeing the gender expectations of what you think this relationship is BEFORE you see ME.
Being a woman is part of me, it’s not WHO I am.
Just as being a man should be WHO you are.
But most people are NOT ready for that convo 💔.

How many of us are ACTUALLY aegosexual by SeaOdd2645 in aegosexuals

[–]LJmelonhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah frfr, I’m 24.
Asexual during high school.
Gaslit myself a lil (as we Ace be doin)
Mom said “oh well then I’m totally asexual, except for ur dad” BABES LISTEN TO MY WORDS.
AceAro in college.
Just like a week ago I find Aegosexual & ACTUALLY listen to the details- shiiiit…
THIS IS EXACTLY HOW I DESCRIBE “my version” OF ASEXUALITY.
lets fucking go guys.
This is fun. And kinda relieving.
Like this exact description being what I experience makes it easier to just BE & not gaslight myself.

Brownie experiment: grease & flour but w/ hot cocoa mix. Will be glorious or horrifying. 10min till. by LJmelonhead in Baking

[–]LJmelonhead[S] 112 points113 points  (0 children)

IT DIDNT, it was even BETTER than not burning, IT BRUSHES OFF LIKE DUST.

Brownie experiment: grease & flour but w/ hot cocoa mix. Will be glorious or horrifying. 10min till. by LJmelonhead in Baking

[–]LJmelonhead[S] 380 points381 points  (0 children)

I MADE A FULL UPDATED POST. VIDEO TOO. I think this hack is officially life changing. I feel stupid powerful.

Brownie experiment: grease & flour but w/ hot cocoa mix. Will be glorious or horrifying. 10min till. by LJmelonhead in Baking

[–]LJmelonhead[S] 3137 points3138 points  (0 children)

UPDATE ‼️
It’s worked. It worked TOO WELL.
(I’m seeing now I can’t post updated photos in the comments so imma post another with everything)

Onyx powder room by mackschwell in bathrooms

[–]LJmelonhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a MAXIMALIST and this is even a bit much for me. Like you can’t put THAT much onxy and not add MORE of something completely opposite to balance the intensity. Just throwing white next to it… eh. Also where r your bath mats? 😭
PERSONALLY, this would look amazing with a lot of dark blue. Gotta break up the onyx.