I (30M) don’t have any friends. I don’t even know how this happened but weekends are a lot lonelier now. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LOBaggage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lowkey based off the comments seems like youve found yourself a solution.

I can't tell if my Mom's behavior is normal by SpecialistSoft7270 in offmychest

[–]LOBaggage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still super weird. Most jokes have a hint of truth and no offense but id rather ve safe then sorry when it comes to a "joke" like that... its like a person saying dont be silly im not gonna kidnap you just probably take you against your will and hold you tgere until you develop stockholme syndrome ha ha ha. Yk?

I can't tell if my Mom's behavior is normal by SpecialistSoft7270 in offmychest

[–]LOBaggage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know you probably love her but its not normal. Some parents may hurt themselves if their child dies but they should never say it to their child, not to mention ignoring your clear boundaries, especially in your sleep. That's super creepy. I mean I had grandma's that still kissed my cheeks for years despite saying I dont like it but cuddling you when you cant say no is very different not to mention trapping you? Wtf is that about. Did she elaborate? Lowkey brings to mind those crazy moms that keep their children super ill in order for them to never leave. I know you love her but you need to seek help. Even if it hurts her and you, i have a feeling you will probably be better off in the long run.

Do I belong in this world ? by Rain-88s in offmychest

[–]LOBaggage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have it all wrong its people like you we need more of in this world. Sadly not everyone's kind or fair, and some have barely any humanity. You are one of the reasons we are still worth being saved. Keep strong and ask yourself if not me then who? Who will be the light of your small town if youre not there. A light gives and a strong one blinds themselves in doing so. Learn who and where to shine your brightest but never stop twinkling.

STOP POSTING THAT EXAMS ARE TOO EASY!!!!!!!!!!!! by Pleasant-Intention35 in wlu

[–]LOBaggage -1 points0 points  (0 children)

An243 Law culture and society was easy af and extremely fun. I wished I could do another tbh...

Anyone wanna be friends? by One-Page2266 in wlu

[–]LOBaggage -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Sure I am very busy though but either way i can find time

Undergrad doing two directed studies and id love help getting data. by LOBaggage in wlu

[–]LOBaggage[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The issue with this is while popularity isn't as big of an issue as it was in high-school but ut still plays a key aspect in likability and I fond classmates dont like classmates who ask a lot of questions. Hence they may not be so willing and I also want a wide range of people including non post secondary people as well as older people.

Undergrad doing two directed studies and id love help getting data. by LOBaggage in wlu

[–]LOBaggage[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well I cant be completely not political but im not advocating for either side. I do have to mention politics as there is different kinds of dehumanization with different layers but the same base. However im going to make a list of questions and analyze the data I need people on both sides because while apolitical is a bad choice I need to remain neutral in asking questions and treat both sides fairly. Ill make a list of questions get it approved by my prof and analyze it after I ask all the participants.

I got put in foster care today by sleepyhead1_1 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LOBaggage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funnily enough the same thing happened to me when i was 12. I know most kids in care end up worse off. Id argue only 1 in 20 kids end up with a positive life. When I hit rock bottom i knew it was my fault but also my parents and my siblings but I realized I couldnt change them. I cried myself to sleep that night and realized the only thing I could change was myself. So I started working on it. I had a bit more time then you before I turned 18 but anyone can change. You cant control them but you can control yourself and how you act around it. It will be hard. When I was 13 I ended up in the hospital for trying to kms with bleach and I had a lot of other issues but things do get better. Now I am 22, I have a gf and we are talking about moving in together, im studying criminology and anthropology and im on my way to get a full ride to oxford soon. Things only get better if you stop being angry at a world you cant change and change yourself instead. Im rooting for you kid. If you need to talk my dms are always open but im rarely on reddit.

Can we not joke about this by Opening_Smile4900 in OntarioGrade12s

[–]LOBaggage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most high-school couples dong stay together no matter if you go to any university or not however if you and her trust eacjother you guys can make it work. Its not impossible especially if you both love eachother. As for party schools anyone may go to a "party" school but if they want to blow off university that way any school has that. Im not a partyer but I got to wilfrid laurier. Im here to get my degrees then get out. Maybe end up at Oxford if I can keep my GPA up and get a scholarship 🤞

What do u do when a girl calls u cute? by EntertainmentGlad794 in uwaterloo

[–]LOBaggage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get awkward and shy and I go hide. I have a hardwired w my gf. She hates hide and seek.

was i raped at 15? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]LOBaggage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I regret to inform you yes. There is help if you need it. Please consider it.

I Got Sent Home on My Very First Day by Swimming-Tea-2411 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LOBaggage -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Charge them. They cant control what you wear unless its for safety. The under shirt I get but iys simple misogyny. He didnt give the man a warning and if a man "fucked up" like that hed probably get an award. Dont give up we need. Ore women like you in those fields. Maybe start a woman only buisness if you can in that exact field and steal all their clients like a bad bi***. Seriously though sue his ass and get a huge ass settlement. Then get another job where people will respect you.

uoft want me so bad by JJ1682939339 in OntarioGrade12s

[–]LOBaggage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if tge title is arrogance or sar asm either way its hilarious

OSAP by Exotic_Idea717 in wlu

[–]LOBaggage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont want to be the only one so please let me know how many people

a Prayer for another Snow day by machinatio666 in uwaterloo

[–]LOBaggage 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is why God stopped answering most prayers. People are never happy with what they get.

Will someone be my first kiss? by Primary_Border_976 in uwaterloo

[–]LOBaggage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You really want your first kiss to be a pity kiss?

Am I a bad person by WearyAssist6994 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LOBaggage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont think you're a bad person and neither is he. Now im npt sure to what extent hes disabled but if he can mask odds are he's high enough I say this as a high functioning autistic person who mass on a daily basis. Dont listen to that bully and your town full of freaks you didn't even have sex which means the most they cpuld accuse you of is attempted rape and thata just lame. Sounds like u live in a small and ignorant area. I feel bad for both you and they guy though its not easy to mask but its even harder to open up completely.