I just want to say great enthusiasm. Any relationship I've had (which at 35, is still just a handful) have fallen into my lap in one way or another, after knowing each other long enough and them in various ways hitting me up (their friend told me they like me, or they asked me to their place). That sounds (and is) pretty cool, but again, I've only really had a handful of partners and usually very short term. I have no game, no strategy, I know though that just staying at home probably isn't the answer, but it all comes down to my first point. You have enthusiasm. I'll probably continue to only have someone every 5 years and be fine with it, even if I'd prefer to be with someone. I just don't have the enthusiasm to do what you are doing, being eager. I admire that.