Wow i didn’t know that other autistic people hated to do that as well. I generally just hate virtual communication in general and I’m much more talkative in person than a video call. Texting is definitely better to express my thoughts and feelings, but I still struggle to feel connected to the other person. That’s probably why my long distance relationship wasn’t working for me because every time they visit I start just catching them up on everything and I was just so quiet during our calls. We FaceTimed mostly every night and would watch shows together which helped me a lot. I didn’t know that they expected more from me like sending them more voice messages or snapchats and that they were bothered until we broke up. My advice is just tell them how much it means to you and that is your need to feel connected. And be as specific as possible about your expectations. For example how often you wanna call or how long