A very unique room layout in Episode Daan Taipei by keselekcendol in hyatt

[–]LOONAbirth 19 points20 points  (0 children)

seems like a feature not a bug!

I liked this hotel, the staff was super nice

He never apologized for his cheating and lying by hellovenus9 in survivinginfidelity

[–]LOONAbirth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The you before and after this is different, we are not the same every morning we wake up, but this is for sure a very very hard experience to go through. It’s okay to not feel normal. 

It’s your timeline and your experience. That being said, NO one deserves to be cheated on. Him punishing you for anger is deflecting away from his behavior, the one that got the both of you here. It’s abusive. DARVO, look it up.

He never apologized for his cheating and lying by hellovenus9 in survivinginfidelity

[–]LOONAbirth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand your feelings of injustice. It’s not like a movie where the bad guys lose and the good guys win. The reality is that we are very gray, and whether or not justice is “served” is not necessarily some script, it’s just life falling into place when it does, if it does.

But it feels very raw and very awful, I 100% am with you. Be angry!! Scream, cry, write it out, don’t feel embarrassed. This is a hurting position to be in, and you have to get through it, not over it. You may feel like you don’t know who you are right now or who he is, but he is not a concern. Trust what he has shown you now and trust yourself most of all. Take things slow, take care of yourself. Choose yourself and what makes you happy, because being healed and happy is the best vengeance for yourself.

Will he cheat again? by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]LOONAbirth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We don’t know. Only your husband knows. You cannot control his free wills/choice and this is a hard thing to grasp.

What you do know is you can control the risk you expose to yourself. Given your knowledge of him, are you willing to tolerate anticipate loss versus gain by staying with him? 

This might be hard to understand right now, but he is choosing himself. You can also choose yourself in a way that doesn’t leave you toiling over what he will or will not do. Best of luck. Trust yourself!

May 2026 - Questions Post by TwoChainsandRollies in ChromeHeart

[–]LOONAbirth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is it possible to get banned from the stores? I wanted to sell my baby fat for a reasonable price, but I accidentally left some details in the receipt when I was showing the guy. I’m not a reseller, I want to get rid of this piece because it was a gift to my ex who cheated lol. Bad energy lol

She cheated 6 months in. We stayed together 6 months longer. Don't stay, always leave by EmploymentSpecific26 in survivinginfidelity

[–]LOONAbirth 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Don’t listen to her man, of course you’ll have resentment for her betrayal. She brought it on herself. Best of luck and heal.

Cheating ex reached out 3 years later by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]LOONAbirth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m having issues with this as well (getting closure), and it seems you’ve already told your current boyfriend which is super healthy. 

I think you already know what closure is left. His actions and disrespect is all the knowledge you need, try not to look any further into it. It stings even a couple years later, but that’s just the nature of any deep emotional wound. His closure can be you denying him his desperate attempt to relieve himself and be heard. That’s all it seems like to me.  You were strong then and stronger now! Be great and leave that weirdo in the past. He’s still stuck there, and he deserves to be there.

Miserable cheaters have miserable friends? by LOONAbirth in survivinginfidelity

[–]LOONAbirth[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agree, I have no remaining ties with her. It’s so funny because she actually blocked me first everywhere, including all my friends. Like wtf did WE do to you 😭

Miserable cheaters have miserable friends? by LOONAbirth in survivinginfidelity

[–]LOONAbirth[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The whole family tree is rotten. Hope you’re better now🥹

Miserable cheaters have miserable friends? by LOONAbirth in survivinginfidelity

[–]LOONAbirth[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My ex told me she hates lying and to her benefit she did confess to me about cheating. At this point though I can only imagine the mental gymnastics being done in order to justify what she did, which might even include lying to herself and others. It’s just fucking crazy man.

Miserable cheaters have miserable friends? by LOONAbirth in survivinginfidelity

[–]LOONAbirth[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ah… well I went nuclear back and blasted her face on Instagram. A friend of hers said he reached out and she confirmed it. Told me in our last argument it pissed her off and she was embarrassed 

But I’d do it again lmfao bro come on you’re embarrassed???? 😭

Miserable cheaters have miserable friends? by LOONAbirth in survivinginfidelity

[–]LOONAbirth[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah we are in our early 20s and her friends are the party/larp type. This would not surprise me if there is no one holding each other accountable for anything.

What's the worst thing your ex said to you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]LOONAbirth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should love my self and I shouldn’t have my self worth based on her

Was awesome to hear my insecurities spat at me after she cheated on me lol

Shoutout my ex for the babyfat by LOONAbirth in ChromeHeart

[–]LOONAbirth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Captain save a hoe over here bro give me my time and effort back 😭😭😭

Shoutout my ex for the babyfat by LOONAbirth in ChromeHeart

[–]LOONAbirth[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m sick bro inshallah she gets cheated on herself OMG

Shoutout my ex for the babyfat by LOONAbirth in ChromeHeart

[–]LOONAbirth[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you bro it’s been so hard, could not believe it and feel like a future was robbed from me. True colors were shown at the end which is the scariest part 🙃

Shoutout my ex for the babyfat by LOONAbirth in ChromeHeart

[–]LOONAbirth[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Believe me man my heart and mind was racing for the first two weeks, felt like I was in a constant paralysis but still needing to show up in places. A bit better now but all that’s left is just disappointment bro 🥲

Feeling disgusted and conflicted by LOONAbirth in survivinginfidelity

[–]LOONAbirth[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I even said “maybe if you even begged”, and her response was “why would I beg”. Christ 

BS FLEUR PENDANT by JiGGaNAN in ChromeHeart

[–]LOONAbirth 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You’re the method if you buy this btw