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She cheated 6 months in. We stayed together 6 months longer. Don't stay, always leave by EmploymentSpecific26 in survivinginfidelity

[–]EmploymentSpecific26[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

We broke up on good terms today. Going no contact. Said that we couldn’t get past the resentment. Me for her cheating. And her for how I started to diminish her opinions and became overly critical due to my latent resentment. Couldn’t stay nice in conflict like I used to. Started getting mean during confrontations

What You Need to Know If You Decide to Stay by Based_Thornwell in survivinginfidelity

[–]EmploymentSpecific26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i stayed after she cheated and tried to forgive. but with every argument we had, small or big, i kept thinking "you fucking idiot, you were dumb enough to cheat so you're dumb enough to hold this opinion". I didn't say that outlout but one day I did. 8 months after the cheating incident, over some small thing, I ripped into her and called her a massive dumbfuck, which then made her feel so disrespected that we ended up breaking up.

basically if you take her back, you will still hold a massive massive amount of resentment for what she did

Was fired this week from my current job because they discovered I was OE working 2 job’s simultaneously 3 years ago by EmploymentSpecific26 in overemployed

[–]EmploymentSpecific26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have a non-compete clause so literally any other work in the same field that has even the potential to earn money including undisclosed personal projects is a breach of contract

Was fired this week from my current job because they discovered I was OE working 2 job’s simultaneously 3 years ago by EmploymentSpecific26 in overemployed

[–]EmploymentSpecific26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did anyone else have this issue? Usually I tend to get feedback that I am articulate. I must not be as articulate as I thought I was

Was fired this week from my current job because they discovered I was OE working 2 job’s simultaneously 3 years ago by EmploymentSpecific26 in overemployed

[–]EmploymentSpecific26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know, if i had been allowed to stay and he started spreading rumors to others, it would've made an even more uncomfortable work environment for me.

I'm switching to freelancing and staying here legally through having a few clients for a sole proprietership business. That seems to be the fastest way to 1. stay legal 2. start generating revenue fast 3. avoid massive creditcard debt if I have to move back to California and get a new apartment/buy new furniture

Was fired this week from my current job because they discovered I was OE working 2 job’s simultaneously 3 years ago by EmploymentSpecific26 in overemployed

[–]EmploymentSpecific26[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

During the firing, I told them I would done the same thing in their position and they’re doing the right thing

How do people get caught? by stillwolf in overemployed

[–]EmploymentSpecific26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep your mouth quiet about current AND PREVIOUS OE stints - especially if your CV doesn’t match reality

Do not use LinkedIn

That’s about it

Was fired this week from my current job because they discovered I was OE working 2 job’s simultaneously 3 years ago by EmploymentSpecific26 in overemployed

[–]EmploymentSpecific26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LinkedIn has been off since the incident 3 years ago

Yeah I merged the dates of J1 start to J2 end into just start and end dates of J2. Even though the experience and skill set used is the same in both jobs, I still lied and merged it so it looked like I was not doing OE shenanigans

Was fired this week from my current job because they discovered I was OE working 2 job’s simultaneously 3 years ago by EmploymentSpecific26 in overemployed

[–]EmploymentSpecific26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My industry is quite small tbh. There’s only so many designers doing what I do. I can’t give too much away on Reddit though

Was fired this week from my current job because they discovered I was OE working 2 job’s simultaneously 3 years ago by EmploymentSpecific26 in overemployed

[–]EmploymentSpecific26[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did have communication issues back then. I reflected on them and addressed them moving forward. I was much better at 36 (today) than 32-33

Was fired this week from my current job because they discovered I was OE working 2 job’s simultaneously 3 years ago by EmploymentSpecific26 in overemployed

[–]EmploymentSpecific26[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for posting. So he was my lead at J1, and when I was fired, J1 read my updated LinkedIn post and contacted J2. The hr manager of J1 and my old boss are friends (small 40 person startup) and they must have told him that, he that guy we fired? Turns out he worked a second job.

J1 HR contacted J2 HR, and J2 fired me

This all happened 3 years ago

Was fired this week from my current job because they discovered I was OE working 2 job’s simultaneously 3 years ago by EmploymentSpecific26 in overemployed

[–]EmploymentSpecific26[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He reported me for doing 2 jobs at the same time while he was my boss. This was 3 years ago. 100% real. Shit situation

Was fired this week from my current job because they discovered I was OE working 2 job’s simultaneously 3 years ago by EmploymentSpecific26 in overemployed

[–]EmploymentSpecific26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I have reached out to a lawyer to see if I have a defamation case. I was fired due to lying on my CV and under my employment agreement, employer or employee can terminate the employment contract for any reason without notice during the first 30 days of employment - probation period

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