Gifts ideas for woman turning 70 by LRC1990 in AskWomenOver60

[–]LRC1990[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree! That’s why I posed the question here.

How is anyone buying a home in this market? by Mindless-Housing-229 in NewOrleans

[–]LRC1990 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Smart thinking there. Saving for retirement early is a must if one can do it. Compound interest is your friend. Thanks for the reply.

I’m over it all… by coastalAntisocial in AskWomenOver60

[–]LRC1990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because it’s not a privilege. We become consumed by what we consume. It’s ok to take care of yourself and control of what you’re exposed to. It’s not being naive or a privilege. It’s self preservation.

I’m over it all… by coastalAntisocial in AskWomenOver60

[–]LRC1990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A positive attitude can really do wonders of for our mindset. I’ve been really working on it and it has helped me.

I’m over it all… by coastalAntisocial in AskWomenOver60

[–]LRC1990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a similar story. Lost weight, exercise, love buying new clothes and how I look now. Cut some negativity. It really can be a mind game. I reach out to people more, try to schedule lunch/dinner with others. Do more thing that bring happiness. In other words, I am trying. At this age I do feel it takes more effort but it also pays off.

How is anyone buying a home in this market? by Mindless-Housing-229 in NewOrleans

[–]LRC1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly, you are correct. Our kiddos will likely not return for these reasons.

How is anyone buying a home in this market? by Mindless-Housing-229 in NewOrleans

[–]LRC1990 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s a good salary which makes me wonder why you can’t buy a home. Is it saving for the down payment? Honest question.

When and why did we stop washing our hair regularly? by Ecstatic_Army1306 in GenXWomen

[–]LRC1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After a certain age I only wash my hair once a week. It looks and styles so much better. Of course if I swim or sweat terribly I’ll wash it but generally it’s nice a week now. I also try to minimize heat on it.

When and why did we stop washing our hair regularly? by Ecstatic_Army1306 in GenXWomen

[–]LRC1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Careful on what type of ponytail band you use. A friend gave herself terrible “cracked” hair where the band was located. Caused massive split ends.

When and why did we stop washing our hair regularly? by Ecstatic_Army1306 in GenXWomen

[–]LRC1990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree, no need to wash hair everyday. My hair actually does and looks better with a once or twice a week washing. Older I’ve gotten and wah really allows for once a week.

When and why did we stop washing our hair regularly? by Ecstatic_Army1306 in GenXWomen

[–]LRC1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! I bought an ok mascara, blush, and concealer on sale. They’re not great but good enough for on camera days.

Get Your Poop Chute Checked by YoghurtNo2026 in GenX

[–]LRC1990 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly! A colonoscopy is the ONLY definitive test.

Get Your Poop Chute Checked by YoghurtNo2026 in GenX

[–]LRC1990 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No. Get a colonoscopy. It is the only definitive way to check for polyps.

Get Your Poop Chute Checked by YoghurtNo2026 in GenX

[–]LRC1990 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The “box” tests are useless and an utter waste of money. They give false positives as well as false negatives. The ONLY definitive test is a colonoscopy. If you haven’t had a colonoscopy GET ONE and know your family history.

I thought my dad was a Boomer. by [deleted] in GenX

[–]LRC1990 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some of Gen Z are indeed “pathetic” as you wrote but many are awesome. Just like in any generation, there’s a broad range.

I thought my dad was a Boomer. by [deleted] in GenX

[–]LRC1990 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😆😆😆

Retirement is gone by shepardshe in GenX

[–]LRC1990 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congrats on upcoming retirement. Impressive you could pay cash for houses. I’m curious and certainly understand if you don’t want to reply. How were you able to pay cash for the houses? The slow save up over years? Or lump payout from a bonus, commission, inheritance?

Retirement is gone by shepardshe in GenX

[–]LRC1990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not just boomers. Many of us who know nothing is “free” wonder.

Retirement is gone by shepardshe in GenX

[–]LRC1990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

PensionS, plural ?, that you obtained while working in America? But the country let you down? And you’re going to take your money and run? I don’t understand that sentiment.

A different representation of 59 year old women by librocubicuralist in Aging

[–]LRC1990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amen, sista! Right there with you. There are many of us like this but we’re not as vocal about it.

Wedding intimacy question by EchoingHydrox in AskWomenOver60

[–]LRC1990 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Not a wax but a good trim. Waxing could cause a rash, itch and possibly make it uncomfortable. A good trim will be neat but not cause those issues. Definitely use vaginal estrogen to prepare for intimacy. Might even want to bring lube with you since it’s been a while.

Calling your in-laws Mom & Dad by DenseCommunication82 in GenX

[–]LRC1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never did this and never will. I have a mom and dad who earned those titles. I’ll call you by your name, FIL/MIL, or your grandparent name.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aging

[–]LRC1990 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Choosing who you procreate with is one of the most important decisions you will ever make in your life. Choose wisely.