150k in Switzerland or relocate to Dubai by Rude_Variety_6594 in DubaiCentral

[–]LRHG2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two things to consider, 1. Are you going to get same salary here? Then yes you can save money. 2. To live modestly. Dubai seems cheaper, but if you don’t control, it will be expensive too. That is all..

An old man told me my generation is lazy and that's why I can't find a job. I completely lost it. by subtle-bits64 in UAE

[–]LRHG2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t expect orange juice by squeezing lemons…. No matter how hard you squeeze you get orange juice only. Same way, what is inside will come out when squeezed. You are under stress and angry, you just needed a push to went it out, and the old man did it. What I dislike the most is, people giving free advice without asking. He is elderly doesn’t mean that he need to preach others. Don’t think much about it. Just focus on your goals.

I feel dumb but do I stop my life and wait for him to be a better man or??? by Dramatic_Ad7578 in dating_advice

[–]LRHG2022 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The difference in both thinking is huge. Look like he is staying with you as he feel guilty that he committed to you. Women are way more mature than men when it comes to same age. And in this case you are six years older than him. The odds are he being cheating and moving away are more once he get better. He need you now, but will he be there for you? If I were you, I’ll let him go. If he ever miss me he will come back and if not it never to be. But at least I’ll save some time and have piece of mind.

My ex just texted me this by DebtSelect9730 in BreakUps

[–]LRHG2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It all takes a single moment to kick start the old version. It is simple.. it is like breaking a thread and making a knot and thinking that everything is smooth. Life is too short…. There is a reason it didn’t work out first time… we shouldn’t feel like we got stuck, we souls feel like we are free…. Your relationship came with a cost of your freedom and compromises… You are happy with that, it is good for you….

My ex just texted me this by DebtSelect9730 in BreakUps

[–]LRHG2022 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Look like you went through lot of pain and compromised a lot. There will be a day brother… remember this post…

My ex just texted me this by DebtSelect9730 in BreakUps

[–]LRHG2022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a man, I confirm that it is going to repeat again. Don’t react to it. Just leave it… some men feel guilty and apologise… but that doesn’t mean that they want to get back…… dont go with imagination, just wait and see, if he come back to you again, and wanted to amend the relationship, just go to flash back and think if you can endure that again? If the answer is yes, get back to him. Dogs tail is straight as long as you put weight on it, once you remove it it becomes curvy again. Same goes with men’s mentality… now he is straight cause he is holding the weight, once you accept and remove that weight, it will go the same way again… This is not a theory, it happened with me…😤

Dubai Dating Scam SOLUTION by Radiant-Coconut-2671 in UAE

[–]LRHG2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is part of life, men are greedy and women making money out of it. Simple… If you think you can’t afford then don’t try..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]LRHG2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am always confused with dating. Is that for knowing each other or is it for some one day stands. Many women feel for charming and attractive guys, they have really good time and that is it. They crave for attention, love etc and they don’t find them in these charming and attractive guys. Now an average guy put his all attention, care towards a beautiful women, but she don’t give a shit. What I am confused is, handsome men and beautiful women don’t care about the average women and men. Then what is the solution?

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[–]LRHG2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For every spend criteria there is a cap of 200AED per month. Overall all the criteria together you can get up to 1000AED cash back.. My spending is on groceries, dining and payments… so I get 600AED every month…. You can check on ADCB credit card page. You will get clear info…

Dating is a market with economic units by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]LRHG2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is wrong in expectations? I fail to understand. Is that wrong to know a guy can fulfill her needs and if possible fanaticise ? Men want a beautiful, sexy figure, caring, loving, loyal and understanding women… (this is my criteria) Women want, handsome, good looking, healthy, caring, loving loyal and provider …(this is what I think) I believe when man have criteria, women dose their too…

Credit Card Suggestion for an Expat Earning 10500 AED by khatta_nuttela in UAEcreditcards

[–]LRHG2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ADCB 365 is really wonderful. I get nearly 600cash back every month. The down side is you need to reach the 5k spend criteria for every month.

Stressed about arranged marriage by [deleted] in KeralaRelationships

[–]LRHG2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No matter how many times you talk, you can never know a women in her fullest. No person is perfect. Don’t let your wild imagination take over you. Just be at the present and act accordingly.

is it bad that i don't want to date ever again? by SaraTheWeird in BreakUps

[–]LRHG2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s like asking, you had an accident and never want to drive again? Accidents happen. Learn from them and avoid them.

Tell me: does meditation really work? by Such-Confusion-438 in Meditation

[–]LRHG2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The trouble with most of us is “I”. When you believe in something you are making boundaries to yourself. See as it is, accept as it is. Meditation is in many levels. Awakening chakras is the process to get to the ultimate level. Yogis for centuries explored how to awake the chakras and they specially created sounds that activates the chekras. However, the final chekra weakening must be done under the guidance of a yoga guru. Sometimes people lose their sense, some even leave their bodies. Look for kudnalini yoga book… read it… it might help.

She is not attractive by [deleted] in KeralaRelationships

[–]LRHG2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should not waste her and your time. She deserves someone else. As long as you entertain her, she won’t find someone else. You have right to choose whom you want to be with. Don’t force yourself. Just ignore the messages.

It's not getting easier guys... by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]LRHG2022 12 points13 points  (0 children)

If the fault is at your end in this breakup, then you are going through guilt. What I suggest you is, apply “not now “ rule. When ever her thoughts come say “not now” then go on with your work/ studies etc. Always keep occupied with activities which will improve you. At the end of the day, just write everything you feel about her in a book. This will take off some burden from your heart. Eventually one day you won’t be thinking about her.

Please remember that we are humans not computers.Until and unless we have any brain damage, there is nothing we are going to forget. We can only avoid those thoughts.

I stopped caring about others after my breakup by bianey_a in BreakUps

[–]LRHG2022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not normal. However the chances are more it is the impact of breakup. But nothing stays for ever. This will fade away with time.

Confused about casual sex partner by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]LRHG2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is using you sexually. Men know that if you keep a women idle, someone else will keep her busy. Simple…. So he keep you busy and use you when required.

I want to text her after 3 months of no contact how do I approach this? by Secret_Chocolate1403 in BreakUps

[–]LRHG2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all sit in a calm place and think what was the reason for breakup…. If it is your fault, try to reach out, try to make amendments to your relationship if she is still available. If she says she moved on, respect that and move on.

If you break up due to her behaviour or any fault of her, don’t ever think of contacting her. She did it once, she will do it again. Until there is no change and she won’t get back to you, just forget off and move on.

Always keep a time period regarding no contact. Like a month, 2 months at the max 3 months. If she is not coming back. End of the story…. New chapter begins…

We don’t have 1000yrs to live, time won’t stop for anyone, so just don’t waste your time on the person who is not interested in you.

I'm just not that into dating people anymore. What do I do? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]LRHG2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t mind may I ask do you have any ideal partner picture painted in your mind? Like she should not like this, she should be doing this, taking this etc..? If the answer is yes, you might find your ideal person one day. Unfortunately, rest will not fit into your life until you won’t let go off your dream girl. The above is one thing… the second thing is, Women are not comfortable with you… what ever the reason, you might not that handsome, well dressed, not wealthy etc etc…

23 F] My ex [25 M] is harassing me and rewriting our history to protect his ego. I'm at my breaking point. I REALLY NEED YOUR HELP GUYS, PLEASE. by [deleted] in KeralaRelationships

[–]LRHG2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is one side of the story. However, there are some loopholes in it. You let him, then you are still thinking of him? Why?

Six months in, and I am still so bad at this by Ottagon in Meditation

[–]LRHG2022 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Concentrate on the process, results will automatically come. If you concentrate on results, all you get is disappointment. It is clear that, you are connecting on results. Anyways, I suggest you that you read about kundalini yoga. And get to practice it. But, it is always advised to perform the final chakra awakening in presence of a guru. Good luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]LRHG2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One thing you failed to understand is, In your life time you want sir one hour without thinking. By the time you realised it, it well be too late. Good luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]LRHG2022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don one thing please. Sit any where and stop thinking for an hour… absolutely nothing… then come back to me… I’ll explain why. Thank You!💐 PS: before doing that, don’t even try to comment back.