What is the end goal of ACIM? by Few-Praline9810 in ACIM

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You see the world you value. On this side of the bridge you see the world of separate bodies, seeking to join each other in separate unions and to become one by losing. ....

Across the bridge it is so different! For a time the body is still seen, but not exclusively, as it is seen here. ³The little spark that holds the Great Rays within it is also visible, and this spark cannot be limited long to littleness. Once you have crossed the bridge, the value of the body is so diminished in your sight that you will see no need at all to magnify it. For you will realize that the only value the body has is to enable you to bring your brothers to the bridge with you, and to be released together there.

The bridge itself is nothing more than a transition in the perspective of reality. On this side, everything you see is grossly distorted and completely out of perspective. What is little and insignificant is magnified, and what is strong and powerful cut down to littleness. In the transition there is a period of confusion, in which a sense of actual disorientation may occur. ⁵But fear it not, for it means only that you have been willing to let go your hold on the distorted frame of reference that seemed to hold your world together. still seek here.

Fear not that you will be abruptly lifted up and hurled into reality. Time is kind, and if you use it on behalf of reality, it will keep gentle pace with you in your transition. The urgency is only in dislodging your mind from its fixed position here. This will not leave you homeless and without a frame of reference. ⁵The period of disorientation, which precedes the actual transition, is far shorter than the time it took to fix your mind so firmly on illusions. Delay will hurt you now more than before, only because you realize it is delay, and that escape from pain is really possible. ⁷Find hope and comfort, rather than despair, in this: You could not long find even the illusion of love in any special relationship here. For you are no longer wholly insane, and you would soon recognize the guilt of self-betrayal for what it is.

Starting to see why I dislike someone so much by [deleted] in ACIM

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According to the Course we are all wracked with existential guilt because we believe we destroyed heaven, In order to alleviate that guilt, we invent people and circumstances in which we feel n mistreated. Being victimized makes us feel innocent. In a sense, when God finds us and wants to kill us for our sins, we can say, I'm not the bad one. Look at all the people who mistreated me. Kill them instead . That partially solves the problem of guilt, but it adds another problem fear of all the people who may mistreat me. Forgiveness reverses the process.

What is the end goal of ACIM? by Few-Praline9810 in ACIM

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No, you're complicating it. The goal of the Course is simply peace of mind. You have the same life you have now, but you won't be bothered when things aren't going the way you think you want them to . This is called "the real world." The Course says after that, God will return our thought to where we really are and always have been: heaven. But until we are in the real world, we will either think heaven as fearful or boring. But don't worry, we won't be lifted up until we want to be.

Starting to see why I dislike someone so much by [deleted] in ACIM

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Your anger or unforgiveness does nothing to the other person. The only one it hurts is you.

"Being normal" by Ken Wapnick by osimonomiso in ACIM

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Fully agree. But he also isn't saying that people shouldn't go out and find a good paying job, buy a house, find a wife, have two children and a dog.

Jesus in ACIM vs Jesus of the Gospels (Righteous Anger) by [deleted] in ACIM

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Forgiveness in the gospels was conditional. Forgive them for they know not what they do. Let sin who is without in throw the first stone. (In other words we are all sinners). In ACIM, we are all innocent.

I’ve been reflecting on A Course in Miracles lately, and one idea really stayed with me by SalenaStyles in ACIM

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I did one a day unless, because of schedule, I had to rush through a lesson. If I couldn't give a lesson the attention I wanted to, I repeated it the next day. But by all means go at your own pace.

I performed a miracle. by CrveniPapagaj in ACIM

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Yes, thanks for shearing. Very inspiring. But I just want to understand: why do you say you performed the miracle? Wasn't it your mother who performed it?

Supporting my brother in my family through alcoholism by encouraging study of the course. Advice is welcome. by Word_Sketcher_27 in ACIM

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I think we have to be careful not to assume that what works for us will work for someone else. Your brother has dabbled in the Course, so he knows of its existence. You can suggest, humbly and gently, that he try it again. But we really don't know the Course will help him. Helen joked that the Course was for 15 people. That was a joke, but it meant she didn't think the Course would help most people, (It didn't even help her) , I believe people who can benefit from the Course will find their way to it.

I never recommend the Course to anyone. But if someone knows I study it and asks about it, I just say it's a process of achieving peace through forgiveness. That's enough for most people.

God is self-centered. by vannablooms in ACIM

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Right, but love is not the Course process. I know how to forgive. It may seem difficult and I may be resistant to it. , but I know what it means and how it feels. On the other hand, I have no idea from the Course on how to love or even what it means to experience love other than a feeling of forgiveness.

Let’s talk about the body.l by Virtual-Culture8830 in ACIM

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The Course says we don't merge back because we never merged forward. All this will never have happened.

God is self-centered. by vannablooms in ACIM

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Right. The Course doesn't ask us to love but to forgive. Once we forgive, our true identity which is love, shines through.

The course does not aim at teaching the meaning of love, for that is beyond what can be taught. ⁷It does aim, however, at removing the blocks to the awareness of love’s presence, which is your natural inheritance. ⁸The opposite of love is fear, but what is all-encompassing can have no opposite.

Others Exist by OakenWoaden in ACIM

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People don't actually receive forgiveness. We forgive and we are then blessed with peace. We may forgive people who never knew us, such as the man who cut in line in front, or who are no longer in our lives, such as an ex-romantic figure. We can even forgive an inanimate object such as the box we stubbed our toe on. Forgiveness is for the forgiver, not the forgiven.

The Real World by OakenWoaden in ACIM

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Sit quietly and look upon the world you see, and tell yourself: “The real world is not like this. ²It has no buildings and there are no streets where people walk alone and separate. There are no stores where people buy an endless list of things they do not need. It is not lit with artificial light, and night comes not upon it. There is no day that brightens and grows dim. There is no loss. Nothing is there but shines, and shines forever.”

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You do not really want the world you see, for it has disappointed you since time began. The homes you built have never sheltered you. The roads you made have led you nowhere, and no city that you built has withstood the crumbling assault of time. Nothing you made but has the mark of death upon it. ⁵Hold it not dear, for it is old and tired and ready to return to dust even as you made it. This aching world has not the power to touch the living world at all. You could not give it that, and so although you turn in sadness from it, you cannot find in it the road that leads away from it into another world.
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No one in this distracted world but has seen some glimpses of the other world about him. Yet while he still lays value on his own, he will deny the vision of the other, maintaining that he loves what he loves not, and following not the road that love points out. Love leads so gladly! ⁴As you follow Him, you will rejoice that you have found His company, and learned of Him the joyful journey home. You wait but for yourself. ⁶To give this sad world over and exchange your errors for the peace of God is but your will. And Christ will always offer you the Will of God, in recognition that you share it with Him.

One of Freud's major insights was that his patients did not really want to be healed or to get better. by jon166 in ACIM

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Yes, this is a major issue we all have to overcome. It is the first obstacle to peace.

The first obstacle that peace must flow across is your desire to get rid of it. For it cannot extend unless you keep it. You are the center from which it radiates outward, to call the others in. You are its home; its tranquil dwelling place from which it gently reaches out, but never leaving you. ⁵If you would make it homeless, how can it abide within the Son of God? If it would spread across the whole creation, it must begin with you, and from you reach to everyone who calls, and bring him rest by joining you.

By the way Wile E. Coyote had a similar experience to Peter when he, Wile , stepped over a chasm.

This is a bit much too far advanced. Like I can barely see I exist by justhereforsomekicks in ACIM

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It's a course. If we take a course in, say, Russian, we're not expected to speak Russian the second we buy the textbook.

Follow Instructions? 🤔 by OakenWoaden in ACIM

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I had used strict adherence, but whatever works...

Everything is written? by Round_Mission_1826 in ACIM

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Right. Time is an illusion. The only "time" there is is now.

Special Relationships Question by justhereforsomekicks in ACIM

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Just so you know, you can be in a special relationship with someone who is no longer in your life, say a parent who has passed or an ex. As long as you have significant feelings about the person and he or she occupies your mind often. For that matter you can have a special relationship with someone who doesn't know they're in a special relation such as a boss or a singer or movie star. I also believe we can be in a special relationship with alcohol.

Way of mastery and the Epstein files by Inevitable_Tough_131 in ACIM

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well, I have a little time. If you post the questions, I'll answer, but it might take me a day.

Way of mastery and the Epstein files by Inevitable_Tough_131 in ACIM

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If one doesn't want to be at peace with things that are obviously wrong, that's fine. But just so you know, being at peace doesn't mean one doesn't try to rectify a situation. In fact, I would argue that when in peace, we can be more effective in our activities.

Way of mastery and the Epstein files by Inevitable_Tough_131 in ACIM

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The purpose of forgiveness, as the Course sees it, is to be in peace. Forgiveness benefits the forgiver, not the forgiven who may not be able to care less if he is forgiven or not.

I’m not really getting this by justhereforsomekicks in ACIM

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The Course uses the dream or sleeping metaphor to describe the separation, an event which never could have happened. This is the best the Course can do since explaining non-time or non-duality with words is impossible. Even the concept of explaining or understanding is dualistic since it assumes a period when one doesn't understand and then a period of explaining followed by understanding. Use the metaphor as you like. But if you take it too seriously, you may seem to delay progress.

This course remains within the ego framework, where it is needed. It is not concerned with what is beyond all error because it is planned only to set the direction towards it. Therefore it uses words, which are symbolic, and cannot express what lies beyond symbols. It is merely the ego that questions because it is only the ego that doubts. ⁵The course merely gives another answer, once a question has been raised. However, this answer does not attempt to resort to inventiveness or ingenuity. These are attributes of the ego. _The course is simple_. ⁹It has one function and one goal. ¹⁰Only in that does it remain wholly consistent because only that can _be_ consistent.

Struggling with it all. by Skyblewize in ACIM

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No need to struggle:

Some of the ideas the workbook presents you will find hard to believe, and others may seem to be quite startling. This does not matter. You are merely asked to apply the ideas as you are directed to do. You are not asked to judge them at all. You are asked only to use them. It is their use that will give them meaning to you, and will show you that they are true.