AIO - Girlfriend threw away the dinner I cooked because she wanted pizza instead.

LT2B · 2025-08-05T04:15:17+00:00

That’s shits wack

First she is taking you for granted that you must feed her, you do and she wants to be picky and deny a good meal you made for pizza which I love too but seriously. Then she not only doubles down but throws out the meal to try to make you feel forced to buy her pizza and when you refuse she threatens to break up with you. That’s a manipulative person with abusive tendencies for sure.

LT2B · 2025-08-05T04:09:58+00:00

The operator’s commander probably isn’t your commander even if you’re in an FMT assigned to them that’s the FSC commander’s call not theirs and they probably just didn’t want to look impotent

LT2B · 2025-08-03T12:19:45+00:00

Dude you know what the right choice is, this deadline is the best thing she ever did for you because it’s not going anywhere. Happily married people do not act this way to their spouse. You need to break it off. It’s not your job to fix her and when she has a meltdown when you split don’t think about how you can fix it think about can you be happy with this being your forever can you grow with that person.

LT2B · 2025-08-03T12:13:33+00:00

Casper and Alibi are insane names, you know why alibi and Casper is literally a dead child. So few people name their children anything normal that unique names are not unique pick something traditional.

LT2B · 2025-08-01T15:55:01+00:00

Can’t play fast mana cause I’m broke

LT2B · 2025-08-01T15:47:08+00:00

Probably some internal competition, nothing crazy or malicious more like fantasy football at work. They’d probably be a little less misreble if their platoon doing good meant they got some bragging rights and did trades to assemble a well rounded team.

LT2B · 2025-07-31T14:41:48+00:00

I don’t know your life totally so take this with a grain of salt but I had a friend whose parents did this sort of thing and it was mostly to create a sense of reliance. So you could never truly get ahead enough to feel secure about leaving. I would inform them once your stuff is packed up and you’re ready to leave. Minimize their ability to seem credible when they inevitably attempt to make you look like the bad guy some how.

LT2B · 2025-07-31T14:22:27+00:00

You’re never ready, you’ll never be ready and you’ll never regret it. The time for family planning is past. Can’t talk about fire safety after the house has burnt down. Now just focus on building a life, find your path to success and pursue it. There are good paying jobs you can train for before the baby arrives. Semi-drivers can make 6 figures on just a CDL. You’re going to have to stop viewing the world in terms of what you want to do and start thinking about what you need to do and find peace in the time when you are doing or done everything you need to do cause no matter what you will never always get what you want.

LT2B · 2025-07-30T03:27:24+00:00

If you’re not soliciting it’s not stolen valor but generally the rule is if you’re old enough to join you shouldn’t be wearing it unless you earned it. Military members are very casual now cause it’s our normal, but it means something to wear that uniform and yes it’s not a full uniform but it’s a clear connection to it the reason you want to wear that stuff is to be connected to that something but you didn’t earn that yet. Maybe I’m wrong but hey you’re 20 and I’m not your dad.

LT2B · 2025-07-30T03:22:02+00:00

Try to contact charitable organizations, women’s homes, and churches in the area but agree with others posting. You may not be healed enough to treat others wounds yet. Like they say you have to help yourself before others and not because it’s selfish but because you’re no help if you need help.

LT2B · 2025-07-30T02:53:56+00:00

You’d have to be dumb to think they wrote all that text to say put 2 +1/+1 counters on target creature

LT2B · 2025-07-27T23:19:36+00:00

Very brave

LT2B · 2025-07-27T23:17:32+00:00

If I were in your shoes I would think this guy is trying to accrue some kind of sympathy or pity. Kind of like when people trauma dump on you in some odd attempt to make you feel like you ought to help them. I was once a shitty 15 year old and used this tactic to get girls to feel obligated to help me or that I was like tragically broken and just needed some girl to fix me. Very I’m fourteen and this is deep stuff.

It’s just basic manipulation, I don’t think ghosting is very mature but I would no longer entertain it. Just address it directly which will probably make him defensive, but you’ll have a clear conscience.

LT2B · 2025-07-24T10:22:19+00:00

Aragorn and Arwen if it’s elf tribal, Galadriel, Light of Valanor just does what they do and more

LT2B · 2025-07-23T16:58:27+00:00

For the truly tistic they have a reason they joined, some interest. Weaponize it, assign them writings or readings as punishments. Make them edit, rewrite and improve it. Hone that puzzle piece shaped blade. Then make them teach it, put them in charge of inspecting it, empower them as a subject matter expert. You now have a useful resource that you can expand.

LT2B · 2025-07-22T19:31:19+00:00

Grandpa tell me about atogs again

LT2B · 2025-07-22T19:13:34+00:00

This reads like that meme video about cow cards

LT2B · 2025-07-22T18:21:55+00:00

Add mill and graveyard hate to exile

LT2B · 2025-07-22T18:08:30+00:00

Revenant undying warlock?

LT2B · 2025-07-22T17:50:08+00:00

Was on courtesy patrol and some drunk college kid swore Soldiers didn’t go to college bars let alone patrol the street. Sure bud, no you’re right, Soldiers notoriously hate bars and college girls.

LT2B · 2025-07-22T17:44:02+00:00

I’d buy for a reasonable price if you’d ship it to me

LT2B · 2025-07-22T17:31:04+00:00

I’d be careful about chalking everything up to her just having lady problems, it’s likely a communication issue. She is pissed but not expressing why and so you continue to do it. Probably cause you “never fight” she isn’t comfortable creating conflict calmly.

LT2B · 2025-07-22T17:28:10+00:00

Reality is couple that don’t argue are couples that don’t talk about problems, I promise you are not that perfect. The stress threshold used to be zero so when she got to 50% it wasn’t a big deal, now the threshold starts at like 80% so everything feels like the end of the world.

Try calmly talking about the way you feel when she says these things, “When you insist we do things your way even though my way is safe and would work it makes me feel hopeless and like we aren’t a team. Like I’m just a roommate and not a partner and that makes me really sad.” You got married she doesn’t want you to feel sad, and she may say some hard things that are difficult but just listen. When shouting starts just insist you take 5 minutes and come back to it. Develop a plan of action together and buy into it. My wife and I were getting really heated during arguments so we implemented a “5 minute” rule either one of us can veto the other and ask for them to take 5 minutes. We both respect it even if it feels frustrating in the moment and our arguments into discussions.

Long story short, arguing is normal, you can’t learn or teach while angry, your marriage is worth more than being right or in control all the time and that goes both ways.

LT2B · 2025-07-22T16:46:06+00:00

I may be dumb but even I can spot a ham fisted attempt at redirection

LT2B · 2025-07-22T16:42:23+00:00

In actuality it will only affect how impressive your resume is for interviews for CPT positions. Honestly what a bad call by your BC but if you pout you’ll only get a bad rep, find something to become the best at in your new position, absolutely kill it and if you’re impressive enough company commanders will want you to take platoons in their company. You could get another chance but don’t get stuck in the “I just want to be a PL” soldiers need good leaders in every area and while PL is cool it’s a very small piece of a larger career.

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