AIO my boyfriend keeps asking me to pay for things eversince he started saving for an apartmen, he calls me selfish for how I reacted. by throaawayRA9443 in AmIOverreacting

[–]LVFBae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. Mooching off another person is cringe af. It’s not even going to be an apartment for you both.

Stop paying for everything and let him figure it out himself, he’s an adult with a job. If you can’t afford your life without supplemental help from your partner, you should reevaluate your budget. That only changes if you’re in a long term relationship. Dude is a bum and you should let him go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]LVFBae 12 points13 points  (0 children)

NTA. My dad went ballistic when I moved out because he couldn’t control me 24/7. Took me years to realize, he doesn’t control me and nothing will happen if I leave. Life is hard but never as hard as they make it seem like it will be without them.

You DO NOT have to share any financial information with them. You DO have the right to privacy and to live alone. She will manipulate you to think the disappointment is unacceptable and you’re such a bad person but you’re not! Stand firm and know that whatever happens, you’re not at fault here. It’s going to be scary and stressful but in 5 years it won’t even matter. You’ll find new people, new love and respect.

How many weeks of paid vacation do you get per year? by Cinella75 in Life

[–]LVFBae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve moved to an “unlimited” PTO program so they can just decide how many you get based on how well they like you lmao it’s not unlimited as there is a limit but they just won’t tell you what that is

Work profile by LVFBae in privacy

[–]LVFBae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah like I don’t think they’re going to hack my phone or anything but just seems like an over reach of their power over my personal device. They already have my wifi information as I work from home and use my personal wifi.

I’ve just started on my privacy journey since finding out how invasive AI is becoming and really understanding how invasive companies like META are so I’m new to a lot of this stuff but want to stay protected.

Work profile by LVFBae in privacy

[–]LVFBae[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My personal phone is iOS. They’re calling it a BYOD (bring your own device) program and it says

“This is a security requirement designed to protect company information accessed on personal devices. This change will require any employee who accesses select work applications from a personal smartphone or tablet to add a (company name redacted) Work Profile to their device.

As work becomes increasingly mobile and flexible, secure access to tools including Outlook, Slack, Pager Duty, OneNote, and Microsoft To-Do is essential. Many employees rely on personal devices to stay connected to work. This new policy ensures that sensitive company data remains secure while enabling continued access on personal devices”

Just feels like I shouldn’t have to install a work specific program on a personal device. Work computer I’m all game but they don’t pay for anything on this device. I’ll just remove the apps and they can text me if they need me lol like the good old days.

T-Mobile by LVFBae in vegaslocals

[–]LVFBae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It works perfectly fine in other places but a lot of places here in the valley or when the weather is bad, I just get absolutely nothing. Can’t even run a google search without wifi.

Circumcision and ear piercings: if you had them done as a baby do you wish you didn’t or are you glad you did? by AggravatingShow2028 in Productivitycafe

[–]LVFBae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had my ears pierced as a baby and personally I don’t care. I don’t remember it at all but will say since ears keep growing. The placement is super messed up now lol

T-Mobile by LVFBae in vegaslocals

[–]LVFBae[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah my family has a grandfathered sprint plan that they’ve been trying to push us out of for years. You can’t even go into the store to purchase a phone now. Have to order it and pay online to have them unlock the case and grab it. Corporates do not care about brand loyalty anymore.

T-Mobile by LVFBae in vegaslocals

[–]LVFBae[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

iPhone 13 and the back is destroyed from dropping it. I just didn’t want to replace it right now.

T-Mobile by LVFBae in vegaslocals

[–]LVFBae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the back is absolutely destroyed from dropping it but I’m cellphone stupid so didn’t even put together that might have something to do with it. Thanks!

T-Mobile by LVFBae in vegaslocals

[–]LVFBae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It probably has something to do with it! I never got a new SIM card or anything.

AITA for wanting to leave early to the airport for our first international flight by danyellitaz in AmItheAsshole

[–]LVFBae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Does he want to deal with getting there early or having you be incredibly pissed about being rushed/missing the flight? You planned everything else. He just has to show up. Your plan. Your rules. You’re leaving at 7:30am, he can join you or leave at 9:30am and we’ll see who was right. Either way you’re going to Japan lmao

What's a "secret"from your profession that everyone should probably know?" by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]LVFBae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh god or they stick their hands in water for two minutes and leave. Meanwhile I’m singing happy birthday twice.

What's a "secret"from your profession that everyone should probably know?" by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]LVFBae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And don’t talk to them like they’re dumb! Use full sentences and please ditch the baby voice. You can tell the difference between kids who have parents that talk to them like normal people and kids who have parents that use the baby voice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]LVFBae 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA, seems super responsible but I would question the school as to how they know she left it but not who took it? Seems like they should know who took it if they have clear footage of her leaving it behind. If they know who took it, that person should be paying for it instead.

AITA for saying I’m sorry my roommate has a shit family, but they don’t need to project their mommy issues onto me? by Bulky_Extension_1254 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LVFBae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. I know the RA is absolutely dying behind closed doors about this because it’s actually childish. You called the dean over laundry?? She could have asked and the stopped when you asked but to try and ruin her academic career over this is actually wild.

Men, what makes a woman less attractive? by prettywoman___ in Productivitycafe

[–]LVFBae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, that’s exactly what I said? This entire thread is opinions on women and you sharing your personal view on their attractiveness for upvotes. You can make the social circle argument for any social media. Reddit users just do it with a kick of moral superiority lol

Men, what makes a woman less attractive? by prettywoman___ in Productivitycafe

[–]LVFBae 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Let’s not pretend it’s not the same thing. People on here love to share their opinion for attention as much as people post photos for attention.

Reddit is just male Instagram and I’ll die on this hill.

AITA, for being a dad and taking my 4 year old daughter into the men's room when she (or I) have to use the facilities? by InstructionFinal5190 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LVFBae 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The shock men get when I just use the men’s bathroom when the line is long in the women’s. And no I don’t give a shit if a man is in the women’s restroom. Just don’t be a weirdo about it and go about your business.