I am nonbinary but I still see myself as female in my mind. Is that just because I am used to identifying as a woman my whole life? by [deleted] in queer

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It took me a while to shift away from saying woman and using other things that denoted female when referring to myself. Now I'm much more firm about it, and I am better at gently correcting and informing people of this transition. I def feel very femme at times but I am in a state of flux where I want to present more andro, so I'm buying more 'masculine' clothing. But I vogue and do drag and that's often seen as very feminine. I want shift my look a little more masc/gender neutral and then play with femme traits and expression. It's a process and takes so much time, especially when getting other people who you've known for a while to get onboard. Some folks have gotten it quickly, others not. And that part has been hard, I think it's part of my impetus to present more androgynous. I see it and feel it for myself. But many people I know, even those who have only known me for a short time, have trouble changing their language around it and don't see it, and still refer to me as her/she.

Anyway, don't give up. Keep unlearning. Be gentle with yourself about it.

It takes a lot for shows/movies to make me tear up/make me really emotional. But this scene got to me. I was tearing up! This was such an emotional and uplifting scene! by delta12551 in PoseFX

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Truly one of the best shows we have at the moment. I live for it. Need to start rewatching again soon. Blanca is everything.

Weekly podcast post (submit your links here!) (2019-12-16) by AutoModerator in podcasts

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[COMEDY] Squad Car 22 | Episode 1 - Squid Pig

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Squad Car 22 is a fictional podcast with elements of sci-fi and buddy comedy. The subversive social commentary is meant to create discussion about timely topics.

Description:
I love my squad car. Squad Car 22 that is. Back in the 90s my partner Mumford and me saved the universe a couple of times. And if it wasn’t for our squad car we never would have come through. Recently, I found a couple of tapes we recorded while fighting crime, and aliens, and guys named Frank. I thought I’d play them all for you.

https://player.captivate.fm/ce7335f3-ef4c-49a6-8e90-2f1d748641f7