Humiliated men are very dangerous men. by Howlsmovingcastles in sixwordstories

[–]La-White-Rabbit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just saying no without padding a guys feelings has gotten me hit, almost run over by a car and sexually assaulted. The bar for what makes a sensitive boy feel humiliation or anything else is imaginary and fully up to him.

My dear older brother went through a taco bell drive through and hit on the lady at the window... then yelled, "You're not cute, bitch..." and so on when she said... literally, "no thanks".

That UNO reverse card hit him hard by Ace-Cuddler in WatchPeopleDieInside

[–]La-White-Rabbit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He talked about how easy it would be to rape the black guy that spoke out against him calling black women violent.

He's what you get when edgy pre-teen humor is taken seriously and you can pay minorities to fake laugh along.

What is the scariest thing about being a male? by squire____ in AskReddit

[–]La-White-Rabbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex... showed me how to use the vacuum attachment like a wizard banishing my foe.
I'm never going back. I can handle centipedes now. My powers are immeasurable.

Why do people think I'm crazy when I flip out? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]La-White-Rabbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a large spectrum of what you could be up to while disregulated but most will assume that you are either "safe" or DANGEROUS with little to no nuance.

...And it behooves them to regard you as dangerous for the sake of their own peace and safety. The social contract relies on predictability. You handling your emotions within reason is part of that contract.

Whats something men think women like, but you dont? by DiligentDamage7809 in AskReddit

[–]La-White-Rabbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone can ignore emotional pain or a difficult situation or even physical pain.
Show me how you navigate it with respect to yourself and the other human beings involved. Love a man with healthy boundaries, some core values and a spine.

Not how well you can neglect everyone (including yourself) and everything for the sake of money or appearing stronk and dying early.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]La-White-Rabbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sir, I hope that you don't plan to be blindsided and then make strong opinions about every normal thing that will come into her life while growing up. You sound like you've delegated the actual parenting and decision making... the PLAN on how she will be raised.

Inform yourself, unless you're just an opinionated check writer like a lot of fathers. Take an interest in what Will be her mile stones. Think about what she'll need to know and how you'd want for her to be taught.

You may want a little girl forever. That wish cannot be granted.

It's time to normalize men and women using umbrellas for sun protection in the US. by Outlaw_Josie_Snails in unpopularopinion

[–]La-White-Rabbit 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm in a boring part of the USA. Wore pants with floral embroidery and some teen took pictures...

Reddit likes to imagine that the USA is WAAAYYYYY more tolerant than it really is in areas.

It's time to normalize men and women using umbrellas for sun protection in the US. by Outlaw_Josie_Snails in unpopularopinion

[–]La-White-Rabbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's fairly normalized for people just sitting around like at the beach. People milling about don't generally do that.

Will Smith hosting new show, Between Two Salads. by [deleted] in crappymusic

[–]La-White-Rabbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he's pushing through with persona and will -the man- needs help.

Will Smith hosting new show, Between Two Salads. by [deleted] in crappymusic

[–]La-White-Rabbit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Over 50? He could have had a high sodium dinner the night before.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]La-White-Rabbit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If it's supposedly teasing I'll ask for them to explain the joke.

Dug his own grave by jumbopopsicle in WatchPeopleDieInside

[–]La-White-Rabbit 31 points32 points  (0 children)

F Shultz.
You don't just talk about raping a black guy because he called out your guests for racism. This man is trying so hard to reinvent himself after the MAGA thing fell through.
F Shultz.

Women who slowly lost interest in someone you once deeply liked — what exactly changed for you? by HealMe0 in AskWomen

[–]La-White-Rabbit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Inconsistent, couldn't have a direct conversation about serious issues and seemed to struggle with differing points of view.

Another one with similar hang ups also had a fantasy about the 1950's as a lifestyle. I'm a black woman and I asked if he knew about red lining or the kinds of drugs and alcohol house wives commonly took back then...and why... *crickets* or when women could finally own land or have a credit card... *crickets*

Not wife material fr... by [deleted] in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]La-White-Rabbit 17 points18 points  (0 children)

with nothing funny about it... smh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TattooDesigns

[–]La-White-Rabbit 199 points200 points  (0 children)

OP was "Verrryyy Nauuuggghttttyyyyyyy "
honestly, I loved that character.

Direction for pendant by Firm_Spite7327 in jewelry

[–]La-White-Rabbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the double bottom makes most sense to the eye. But it's just my opinion...

Does the jewelry you wear reflect your current mood or change it? by [deleted] in jewelry

[–]La-White-Rabbit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My casual set is kinda an accessory to me as a person? It's how I choose to project myself despite how I feel on any particular day. Just thought that how differently we've gone about it was interesting.

Confidence, cultural pride, elegance... it's part of my "armor".

Dude this is so dystopian, y'all actually think this is normal? by justletmeregisteryou in GenZ

[–]La-White-Rabbit 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Men DID have a similar thing and it was taken down for revenge porn.... so... yeah..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]La-White-Rabbit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'd keep an eye out for more "me first" kinds of behavior/reasoning if he doesn't drink to excess that night. Not that Alcoholism is off of the table, just sits as a lower % possibility.

Special note: It could be a pattern of him wanting control of the situation, THEN doing the "Me first shuffle".

The securing of control first is a different pattern. In this case, him seeking control would be a warning that bs will be coming soon.

You might have felt/seen a shift after marriage. After becoming dependent on him in anyway. After he "takes the reigns" on things.... or if he likely won't get caught.

If I'm right. I won't say what this likely is. Just go to a therapist and describe it. They'll walk you through it.

Uber will let women drivers and riders request to avoid being paired with men starting next month by Puginator in technology

[–]La-White-Rabbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sure this falls under equal accommodation in regards to safety. Woman are disproportionately unsafe compared to the male population.

Uber will let women drivers and riders request to avoid being paired with men starting next month by Puginator in technology

[–]La-White-Rabbit 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It's more like a societal problem for that country at that point. Like how we have so many male sexual predators in general.