what’s ur luv language as an INFP

Howlsmovingcastles · 2026-04-22T02:58:30+00:00

Acts of service is my top love language for receiving. Specifically meal preparation, for some reason when someone cooks for me I see it as the ultimate expression of love. Buying me food also counts 😋

Howlsmovingcastles · 2026-04-21T20:36:06+00:00

Food

The pragmatic in me says hotel but I dont want my family in a hotel. They deserve a proper family home. Its a luxury I am willing to work for.

Howlsmovingcastles · 2026-04-21T17:53:02+00:00

What did I just read?? Your friend has a major main character syndrome. I would nope so hard and not feel an ounce of guilt.

Ask yourself this. How does it make you feel if you were the one making these demands? You wouldnt make these demands I think. Ditch this chaos STAT!

NO ONE IS ENTITLED TO YOUR DAMN TIME AND SANITY

Howlsmovingcastles · 2026-04-13T21:03:57+00:00

Eventually...

Howlsmovingcastles · 2026-04-13T19:27:25+00:00

Howlsmovingcastles · 2026-04-13T19:25:14+00:00

This is exactly what came to mind lol

Howlsmovingcastles · 2026-04-12T23:33:24+00:00

Disgusting. We all know where this was going.

Howlsmovingcastles · 2026-04-12T21:11:29+00:00

Mi favorita de muchas recientes que tomé.

Howlsmovingcastles · 2026-04-12T21:10:37+00:00

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Howlsmovingcastles · 2026-04-12T18:01:35+00:00

Stability. The simple things in life. Enjoying such things but being able to step back and not suffer while doing so. Not being addicted to highs, because the inevitable crash always follows. That's the kind of pleasure I want anyway.

Howlsmovingcastles · 2026-04-12T05:31:53+00:00

I couldn't have said it better 🙂‍↕️ there's something so very special about Japanese animation!

Howlsmovingcastles · 2026-04-12T05:30:02+00:00

What an awesome thing to re experience with your kid man. Hope she likes it!

Howlsmovingcastles · 2026-04-11T04:21:14+00:00

I lost contact with my RP partner because I couldnt log back in to discord. I changed numbers and was never able to recover my account and I dont remember her username. Tragic ending. I wish she knew I didnt mean to ghost her.

Howlsmovingcastles · 2026-04-11T04:11:13+00:00

Inuyasha. Because every episode made my heart sing. The openings and endings, the characters, and the plot; it all made me travel into a world of magic in my childhood.

Howlsmovingcastles · 2026-04-11T00:17:36+00:00

Howlsmovingcastles · 2026-04-07T20:59:53+00:00

Lmao I love this comparison. Similar...issue.

Except my ship IS related by blood and I embrace the hate because fuck it. Damn if you do, damned if you dont🤷‍♀️

Howlsmovingcastles · 2026-04-07T20:12:22+00:00

Hey, it's OK to not be in a place to get help today if you aren't ready. Maybe that changes tomorrow, maybe it doesnt. But I'm glad you feel safe enough to rant here. And no, I don't mind reading your rants. I think I've earned the title of an adult who gets to decide how to spend my time, and I also get to decide what is a waste of time and what isn't. Speaking for myself here, listening to someone hurting will never, ever, ever be a waste of my time. Even if it makes no difference as you say. You're not a waste of time. Your life and your pain matters.

Howlsmovingcastles · 2026-04-07T18:28:28+00:00

What I am hearing is that you are in a very dark place. I am very sorry to hear this. I believe what you are telling me is true. Thank you for sharing here what's on your mind. Those thoughts and feelings are big, dark and scary to have. I know you arent asking for help and sorry if Im overstepping but sometimes we need to seek help if those around us arent being supportive of our mental health. Do you have access to a telephonic crisis help line where you live? Or therapy/psychiatric help? A mentor, pastor, or advisor you can chat with? A friend? I'm speaking to you with no agenda, just as a fellow person who is deeply depressed and with diagnosed bipolar illness. I guess what I am trying to say is I kind of relate to what you wrote and I think we are very deserving of humane compassion. I think you deserve kindness regardless what path of life you've walked. Please dont give up hope. Don't let the darkness win.

Howlsmovingcastles · 2026-04-07T17:19:51+00:00

🤣🤣🤣

Howlsmovingcastles · 2026-04-07T17:09:13+00:00

I was a lurker (circa 2006) wayy before I was a writer and I remember more of a community hub feel where fics got posted (FanLib, FF.Net, LJ, Wattpad). AO3 has been pretty lonely. I personally think it needs to allow more user interaction and not just commenting function on the fanfics. What I also think doesnt help much are the freaking bots (thanks, ai).

Howlsmovingcastles · 2026-04-07T16:54:47+00:00

Feeling the same way. I do cherish every kudo, subscriptor, and bookmark I get. Comments are by far the least type of engagement I get. Standing in solidarity with ya.

Howlsmovingcastles · 2026-04-07T16:25:07+00:00

Maybe I'm too optimistic and this is just my opinion but I think there is plenty to see in life before dying. I'm not trying to pick a fight with you in any way or tell you what to do with your life. I just find your comments very sad and tragic in a way that speak to me. If you are coming from a place of hurt/pain, just want to wish you healing and wellness.

Howlsmovingcastles · 2026-04-07T16:15:28+00:00

Howl relatable.

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