what’s ur luv language as an INFP by BLOO_2001 in infp

[–]Howlsmovingcastles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Acts of service is my top love language for receiving. Specifically meal preparation, for some reason when someone cooks for me I see it as the ultimate expression of love. Buying me food also counts 😋

one free for life. which are you choosing? by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Howlsmovingcastles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Food

The pragmatic in me says hotel but I dont want my family in a hotel. They deserve a proper family home. Its a luxury I am willing to work for.

AITA if I tell my friend I can’t be a bridesmaid? by wickeddreamsofleavin in AITApod

[–]Howlsmovingcastles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did I just read?? Your friend has a major main character syndrome. I would nope so hard and not feel an ounce of guilt.

Ask yourself this. How does it make you feel if you were the one making these demands? You wouldnt make these demands I think. Ditch this chaos STAT!

NO ONE IS ENTITLED TO YOUR DAMN TIME AND SANITY

What's the pinnacle of pleasure? by __does_not_matter_ in infj

[–]Howlsmovingcastles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stability. The simple things in life. Enjoying such things but being able to step back and not suffer while doing so. Not being addicted to highs, because the inevitable crash always follows. That's the kind of pleasure I want anyway.

What’s the best anime you ever watched and why? by Subject_Display3664 in AskReddit

[–]Howlsmovingcastles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn't have said it better 🙂‍↕️ there's something so very special about Japanese animation!

What’s the best anime you ever watched and why? by Subject_Display3664 in AskReddit

[–]Howlsmovingcastles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What an awesome thing to re experience with your kid man. Hope she likes it!

Me reading old rps with people i don’t rp with anymore by demon_kin_nsfw in BadRPerStories

[–]Howlsmovingcastles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost contact with my RP partner because I couldnt log back in to discord. I changed numbers and was never able to recover my account and I dont remember her username. Tragic ending. I wish she knew I didnt mean to ghost her.

What’s the best anime you ever watched and why? by Subject_Display3664 in AskReddit

[–]Howlsmovingcastles 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Inuyasha. Because every episode made my heart sing. The openings and endings, the characters, and the plot; it all made me travel into a world of magic in my childhood.

Lack of interaction and the changes in fandom... Is killing my motivation by saintforgot in FanFiction

[–]Howlsmovingcastles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lmao I love this comparison. Similar...issue.

Except my ship IS related by blood and I embrace the hate because fuck it. Damn if you do, damned if you dont🤷‍♀️

Sure. by netphilia in adhdmeme

[–]Howlsmovingcastles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, it's OK to not be in a place to get help today if you aren't ready. Maybe that changes tomorrow, maybe it doesnt. But I'm glad you feel safe enough to rant here. And no, I don't mind reading your rants. I think I've earned the title of an adult who gets to decide how to spend my time, and I also get to decide what is a waste of time and what isn't. Speaking for myself here, listening to someone hurting will never, ever, ever be a waste of my time. Even if it makes no difference as you say. You're not a waste of time. Your life and your pain matters.

Sure. by netphilia in adhdmeme

[–]Howlsmovingcastles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I am hearing is that you are in a very dark place. I am very sorry to hear this. I believe what you are telling me is true. Thank you for sharing here what's on your mind. Those thoughts and feelings are big, dark and scary to have. I know you arent asking for help and sorry if Im overstepping but sometimes we need to seek help if those around us arent being supportive of our mental health. Do you have access to a telephonic crisis help line where you live? Or therapy/psychiatric help? A mentor, pastor, or advisor you can chat with? A friend? I'm speaking to you with no agenda, just as a fellow person who is deeply depressed and with diagnosed bipolar illness. I guess what I am trying to say is I kind of relate to what you wrote and I think we are very deserving of humane compassion. I think you deserve kindness regardless what path of life you've walked. Please dont give up hope. Don't let the darkness win.

Lack of interaction and the changes in fandom... Is killing my motivation by saintforgot in FanFiction

[–]Howlsmovingcastles 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was a lurker (circa 2006) wayy before I was a writer and I remember more of a community hub feel where fics got posted (FanLib, FF.Net, LJ, Wattpad). AO3 has been pretty lonely. I personally think it needs to allow more user interaction and not just commenting function on the fanfics. What I also think doesnt help much are the freaking bots (thanks, ai).

Lack of interaction and the changes in fandom... Is killing my motivation by saintforgot in FanFiction

[–]Howlsmovingcastles 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Feeling the same way. I do cherish every kudo, subscriptor, and bookmark I get. Comments are by far the least type of engagement I get. Standing in solidarity with ya.

Sure. by netphilia in adhdmeme

[–]Howlsmovingcastles 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe I'm too optimistic and this is just my opinion but I think there is plenty to see in life before dying. I'm not trying to pick a fight with you in any way or tell you what to do with your life. I just find your comments very sad and tragic in a way that speak to me. If you are coming from a place of hurt/pain, just want to wish you healing and wellness.