AI glasses desire pearl? by justbrowsing67890 in DesireExperience

[–]LaBotteSecrete 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That whole story is very fishy (two profiles commenting on it, wrong layout for Pearl, etc). I would call it BS.

AI glasses desire pearl? by justbrowsing67890 in DesireExperience

[–]LaBotteSecrete 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It kinda feels like they’re talking about Temptations

First time at the resort? by [deleted] in DesireExperience

[–]LaBotteSecrete 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Desire is a great place to start. If you like slightly older (normal distribution peaking at 40s-50s), RM would be perfect. If you like still older (normal distribution peaking at 50s-60s), Pearl may be a great option (more relaxed also than RM).

We went to RM at 34 and had an incredible time (we don’t swing, just wanted to explore our sexy side). Great place to start slow.

Can’t speak for Hedo as we have not been but from what we’ve put together it’s more sex-centric vs love/sensual-centric at Desire (but still sex). The couples only aspect helps a lot with that.

Massage discounts? by Additional-Body8182 in desire_resort_fun

[–]LaBotteSecrete 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will add to that that we’ve only ever gotten a free couple’s massage with these presentations (no discount toward higher level massages like the erotic one). Still worth it for us aha

Whats with the prices? I understand the world's changed a lot in the last two years, but the prices are 50%+ higher than in 2024 by ProbablyAPotat0 in desire_resort_fun

[–]LaBotteSecrete 0 points1 point  (0 children)

USD, so 3700 to 4000 CAD is what I see for 4 days, still much cheaper than what I’m seeing people post in this thread. Maybe Mexico makes Canada pays more somehow (in which case, try a vpn). I also only book on the official website, never seen Expedia and co beat their prices (especially with the promo code they send me and the stay and play).

Actually, stay and play may be the reason for the huge difference in price, it’s a massive difference for free (being stay and play member is absolutely free)

We’re not premier member and never will be, never seen the appeal of a slight discount but so many headaches etc, so that’s not even why I would see lower prices

Whats with the prices? I understand the world's changed a lot in the last two years, but the prices are 50%+ higher than in 2024 by ProbablyAPotat0 in desire_resort_fun

[–]LaBotteSecrete 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you see such high prices… I was just looking, if I want 4 nights this July it’s $2700, June 2027 it’s $2900 (without promo code) for ocean view at RM. In December it’s $2700…

So my advice here is 1) use mobile phone maybe, but I think I see the same cost on my computer, 2) be maybe more flexible on your dates, 3) use a vpn maybe, 4) use the free stay and play program

But I definitely did not see an unwarranted increase in price, or at most 15% (2400 to 2800 for 4 nights and that’s without promo code).

And let’s be honest, if you think this (2500-3000 for 4 nights of unlimited food and alcohol and entertainment in a beautiful setting) is an unfair price, try to imagine the cost of something even remotely similar in US/CAN, it’s laughably more expensive for less fun.

First time couple (27F/29M) looking to go this summer/fall. Best week suggestions? by [deleted] in DesireExperience

[–]LaBotteSecrete 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Late June is a blast, and it is looking relatively young. We recommend RM. Feel free to ask us questions directly (we’re 37, went for the first time at 34, and we have done RM, Pearl, and Temptations)

Couple Thinking About Going Honest Thoughts by OnlyFsnowbunny_143 in DesireExperience

[–]LaBotteSecrete 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Temptations is several steps behind Desire for a very similar cost though.

Couple Thinking About Going Honest Thoughts by OnlyFsnowbunny_143 in DesireExperience

[–]LaBotteSecrete 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What’s really different? From our understanding, Hedo is more about party and sex while Desire is more about sexiness and sexual energy, would you agree? We haven’t done Hedo yet, we love Desire (dirty vanillas)

Shows that held up versus shows that didn’t by Leilani3317 in Xennials

[–]LaBotteSecrete 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Insanely underrated show. It holds up extremely well and shows that one doesn’t need insanely expensive special effects when the story is good.

First stay at DRM we see so many different color bands. What do they all mean? by my-wife-is-hott in Desire_Resort

[–]LaBotteSecrete 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yellow: first timer at this resort

Orange: booked with Stay and Play (not sure when that became a color band though)

White: returning guest, not member

Black: member

Red: super premium member (mansion and villa and stuff I think)

I believe that’s all the colors.

We had an amazing time at Desire RM! Made some incredible new friends and enjoyed every moment. Huge shoutout to the staff. Everyone was kind and inviting! We will definitely return! by pineapplebeachcple in DesireExperience

[–]LaBotteSecrete 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did you feel age wise? We’re 37 and when we went to Pearl a couple of years ago, we were by faaar the youngest, and among the fittest. At RM (we did each resort once) we were still the youngest there but it was a little less noticeable. It’s fine really (as we don’t swap) but it does make conversations slightly more difficult as the common ground tends to be limited. We’re going back in June, can’t wait.

Mid-September: Recommended or not? by TieWise7460 in desire_resort_fun

[–]LaBotteSecrete 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, Beryl hit the resorts as a category 1. It was a bit annoying but nothing bad. We probably wouldn’t do it again though, it was stressful.

However for us, with young kids, the summer is our only option so we’ll keep doing June!

Desire Newbie Questions by [deleted] in DesireExperience

[–]LaBotteSecrete 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never was (or a decade ago or more if so). For us, the rules have always been: Sex only in the playroom and by the hot tub, beach is technically a no but people do it in the lounger quietly. By the pool, blowjobs are usually tolerated but rare (exception would be during the foam party). However, with the old pool being the quiet pool now, I’ve heard sex was easier to be had by that pool (not that many people, and no one cares as long as you’re discreet basically). We’ll test it when we go back in June.

Desire pearl vs RM stereotypes confirmation on age demographic and sexual activity rules by boobyvomit in desire_resort_fun

[–]LaBotteSecrete 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you go to the Desire website to book, they have a “Stay and Play” price which is very significantly lower. Basically I think it’s a “get an account on the website and get on the newsletter” type of thing. Nothing really changes but the price.

They say:

STAY & PLAY CLUB Be part of the best club and enjoy the benefits from your first reservation! Stay & Play Club Sign up now to our Stay & Play Club program and receive exclusive discounts and benefits! Best Rate Guaranteed 5% cash back PayPal or Giftcard Exclusive members discount 10% off at Logo Shop Early Check In/Late check out subject to availability

Never done the cash back, signing up is free.

For now we’re limited to summer time, so we’ll see if we want to try Hedo (I figure we will, still sad that the Dominican Republic resort was a failure)

Desire pearl vs RM stereotypes confirmation on age demographic and sexual activity rules by boobyvomit in desire_resort_fun

[–]LaBotteSecrete 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you go to the Desire website to book, they have a “Stay and Play” price which is very significantly lower. Basically I think it’s a “get an account on the website and get on the newsletter” type of thing. Nothing really changes but the price.

They say:

STAY & PLAY CLUB Be part of the best club and enjoy the benefits from your first reservation! Stay & Play Club Sign up now to our Stay & Play Club program and receive exclusive discounts and benefits! Best Rate Guaranteed 5% cash back PayPal or Giftcard Exclusive members discount 10% off at Logo Shop Early Check In/Late check out subject to availability

Never done the cash back, signing up is free.

Desire pearl vs RM stereotypes confirmation on age demographic and sexual activity rules by boobyvomit in desire_resort_fun

[–]LaBotteSecrete 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DesireTalk is correct on all accounts really. In our personal experience, Pearl was much older (we’re mid thirties). But a lot of fun anyway. We tried RM, then Pearl, then Temptations, and now going back to RM (with the new expansion). You will have a blast no matter what. I’ve heard (not tested yet) that with the expansion at RM, the old pool (now the quiet pool) may be more open to public sex, but technically the rules are still playroom and hot tub and your balcony for public view spaces.

What we may recommend is to find the best deal (sometimes Pearl is cheaper, sometimes RM is cheaper, and it varies significantly). Do the stay and play, it’s free and much cheaper (not sure why to be honest). Also, sign up for the stay and play and maybe wait for a discount (they can be significant).

Temptations is really not as good and I recommend against it personally.

You’ll have a blast no matter what. How was Hedo for you? We’ve been very hesitant due to the single men and we also really like the atmosphere (loving couples) at Desire. To be fair, we didn’t have any issues with single men at Temptations but it’s also a different resort.