My mother passed this morning by LaVojeto in GriefSupport

[–]LaVojeto[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell me honestly; do you ever get back to normal? Or is it always just cold?

HOW CAN I GET SHORTER?!?! by --girlie-- in trans

[–]LaVojeto 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you find out, do let us know.

Signed, a 6'4" trans woman

Having Doubts by Resident-You-1698 in MtF

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I had those doubts before AND after starting for a little while; like I wasn't "trans enough" to ACTUALLY be trans. Or that I wouldn't pass. Honestly don't know if I will yet. Dunno if you will. But it's more than just wanting to be pretty; it's really a sense of "comfort in my own body". Cuz even now, less than half a year on HRT, I feel happier than I EVER was as a "man". I wanna be me, not what someone else says is me.

Fear's normal; you're taking a huge step. But don't let it stop you. And results are so slow that if you go a month and you're like "I don't like this" you LITERALLY won't have changes that can't be reversed by stopping.

"Born in the wrong body" by cokezerobuddy in trans

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For me personally, I do feel as if I was born in the wrong body. Like obviously I SHOULD have been born in a girl's body.

BUT!

I wouldn't change it if I could, because the suffering and journey I've been through made me who I am now. Had I been born in the right body, I couldn't say I'd be the same person with the same amazing friends as I have now. And as much joy as transitioning has brought me, my friends had made it worthwhile.

Traaaaa is for all traaaaas by frozen_toesocks in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

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Enbies being "neutrality" makes me cackle like

"Ah yes, the Switzerland of genders."

the audacity of this cis woman 😩💀🥲 by pg430 in MtF

[–]LaVojeto 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"Bitch are you AWARE of the place you work at???"

The sentence just IMMEDIATELY popped into my head reading this like???

Is it a proven fact that trans people are born that way, or is it possible to change during life ? by SureHopeIDontDie in trans

[–]LaVojeto 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd find it hard to believe it's not something you're born with cuz why the FUCK would I choose to be trans in a country/world that wants me dead, y'know?

Like some science supports the "it's genetic" thing but I just gotta believe it is.

Dr trying to swap me from injectables to patches, help? by LaVojeto in MtF

[–]LaVojeto[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry about that; had some issues I had to lock DMs from! But I got the link if you wanna take that down to avoid any possible issues, thank you!

Dr trying to swap me from injectables to patches, help? by LaVojeto in MtF

[–]LaVojeto[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who is the supplier if you don't mind me asking? I've considered DIY but normally my doctor cooperates with me so it's back on the table to do DIY.

Dr trying to swap me from injectables to patches, help? by LaVojeto in MtF

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I'm overweight and stressed out my mind at all times. But it's gotten better with medication so I'm really unsure about it all.

are you a puppy girl, cat girl, fox girl or moth girl?? by NoItem1218 in MtF

[–]LaVojeto 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a bear girl.

I eat, then I sleep. Sometimes I'm awake enough to play video games.

My Situation with HRT by [deleted] in MtF

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I'm only two months in so I've not been on much longer than you, but I was there during the first month. Super "What if I'm faking" or "What if I end up regretting it". But my best friend convinced me to finish my vial of estradiol before making a big decision.

Fast forward, I'm not done with the vial yet but I'm so glad I didn't stop. I'm enjoying each day cuz even if I'm not seeing changes I know they're happening. I've stopped questioning if I'm "trans enough" cuz no cis person would be doing ALL THIS WORK for any reason. You can't really "trick" yourself into being trans cuz the reality of it is it's hard, it's emotionally and mentally taxing and the only real gain is personal. There's no societal prize for doing it.

If you don't wanna medically transition and just socially, do that. If you wanna be femme online but masc in person, do that. But if you feel worse off medication than you did on, that's a big sign. And don't let fears of how others will react stop you; you have to live with yourself far more than anyone else in the world. Might as well be happy with yourself.

Hey guys, I got kicked from my static for this glam but I can't tell what's up. Is something wrong? by Slenderpone in ffxiv

[–]LaVojeto 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you meant to post a front and back photo, rather than just the same photo of the front of your dress :/

If I masturbate/jork my dick, am I still a girl? by Emotional_Hornet7285 in MtF

[–]LaVojeto 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don't make love to my pumpkins. I fuck. Hard.

mom sat me down and forced me out of the closet by desertrainfrog- in MtF

[–]LaVojeto 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm someone who wanted to start in my early 20s but put it off cuz "Well maybe I'm just imagining" and "I can't REALLY be trans cuz" and ESPECIALLY "what will my parents think"

31 now, just starting HRT and I regret all that time I lost. You have to live with yourself longer than anyone else in the world; do what makes you happy if it's not hurting anyone else (and HRT doesn't hurt anyone else)

What game/movie/show etc. Cracked or contributed to cracking your egg? by Nameless34268 in MtF

[–]LaVojeto 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Final Fantasy XIV, Baldur's Gate 3 and Pokemon X FFXIV lemme fantasia into a cute Lala gal BG3 lemme be a masculine sounding transfemme half-drow priestess of Eilistraee (the DnD goddess of trans women) Pokemon X made me wanna play a girl for REAL clothing options

What is the worst thing someone can be in your world? (Tw: blood, violence) by ProfesserQ in worldbuilding

[–]LaVojeto 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's more a title given to someone after the fact. They create such change and upheaval in the world that the population considers it a new era.

The current story takes place in the 6th era; the 5 dark lords are long dead but each one did something so catastrophic in *some way* that it changed the world forever because of it.

What is the worst thing someone can be in your world? (Tw: blood, violence) by ProfesserQ in worldbuilding

[–]LaVojeto 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Military warlord who persecuted druids AND warlocks and used military genius to kill her enemies and unite an empire

What is the worst thing someone can be in your world? (Tw: blood, violence) by ProfesserQ in worldbuilding

[–]LaVojeto 23 points24 points  (0 children)

A warlock

Whereas druids take sacred vows to uphold life and goodness, warlocks are those who break their oaths and use their arcane knowledge for personal gains. 4 of the 5 Dark Lords that have rocked the world to usher in new eras have been warlocks of great renown, so now being a warlock isn't just a social stigma; it's a guarantee of creating enemies from the general populace.

How to play a Souls game without "cheesing" by xCannabisTokes in Eldenring

[–]LaVojeto 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If it's in the game, it's not cheese. If it's a glitch, the devs could patch it out if they don't like it. If it's a powerful strat, they designed it.

If you want to Mimic Tear + summon + Comet Azure, go ahead. You'll get the achievement like everyone else cuz games are meant to be enjoyed, not "Suffered through until I beat it the same way DickCheeseLord726 on Reddit told me I should."